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Respect is earned, not given. Who cares what people think or say. If your a guy who wants to be laid nowadays, just be a 'a hole'. If you want a serious relationship, then don't do that. Do the opposite, but don't be a doormat like some people say. Believing in the alpha/beta system is insecurity yet it's written all over in nature. To me that's ignorance. That's like believing there is no way to make money and beat the system in the U. S. Learn about the game/system and beat it.
I disagree on the nerd comment. a lot of nerds are not socially aware because they put much time and effort into whatever they are studying rather than actually being social. Its not a excuse for nerds to claim they are socially inept. many ''nerds'' actually get out of social situations by constantly learning IE There was always that one guy in highschool who was constantly doing work and never had time for friends.
im glad im not the only one who thinks the alpha/beta business in complete nonsense.
Very nice take. When I see some guy puffing about the "alpha" male stuff it makes me think he hasn't yet evolved.
Touché! You got the point. Insecurity could be a good explanation. In my question about this "alpha-beta" ideology (i asked that days before your Take) i'm still waiting for the so proclaimed "alpha" guys to defend their worldview properly
they can't, they just name call him beta and thats it like the pathetic narcissists they are
@Eric644 that's what i have realized of them, not so much of narcisist, but a lack of elaboration to at least apologetically defend their worldview
Eh, fuck labels altogether. I find it childish when people past high school ask if others are alpha or beta males, let alone identify themselves as such.
This entire post is an insecurity. I didn't read what you wrote, but you're totally wrong. Alpha male is another word to describe a leader. Believing that there's no leader in today's society and in absolute equality is pure non sense. Grow up and stop trying to convince yourself that you're equal to everybody because you envy those who have leader trait. This world ain't all unicorn and rainbow. Do yourself a favor and accept reality.
Besides, you are confusing alpha male with loosers who want to show everybody that they are successful by saying they are "alpha" because of deep insecurity they hardly try to hide.
alpha and beta males exist. your boss is your alpha male at your job. humans are hierarchical.
your wife or female partner is a beta
the male is the natural beta in the human hierarchy
the end.
alpha beta isn't based on insecurity its based on science
the government ios your alpha. alpha is simply leader the moderators and owners of this site are the alphas and we are the betas
how dumb r u
you should go back to science
ppls ideas of alpha and beta now is based on insecurity and bcus of that insecurity has bcom widely known about people arguing whether it does exist or not
it does exist. *your boss is your alpha he is your leader.*
in one sentence I've invalidated ur whole article
Uhm, no you didn't you proved it more. CEOs aren't at the top because they "want to be alpha". They have a burning desire to be their own boss. To lead a company. A leader is not an alpha.
You debunked nothing except your own stupidity.
go back to highschool ignoramus
alpha is just leader. leader of ANYTHING
the male is the natural \alpha\ i made a spelling mistake
YAAAASS FINALLY! this is what I'm talking about! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Our current technological society is not at par with our biological neurological circuitry. I'll continue doing my thing, lead my fate, and be a leader of men. I guess you could call me an alpha by my characteristics?
Some of those stereotypes are incorrect but i recognise that there are certain individuals with charismatic personalities that have a natural leadership mentality
yes but unlike the people who believe in alpha vs beta would want you to believe, leadership is not a quality that someone is born with, no one is born a leader, it is something that people earn. Personalities do change. Some people are shy but then overcome it and become charismatic leaders. I use to be an introvert but now I am very much an extrovert. So that is the flaw of the alpha/beta nonsense because it falsely preaches that people are BORN to be so called alphas and the so called betas will forever be losers. If someone believes in this crap, they most likely suffer with Narcissistic Personality Disorder
@Eric644 i believe you are born with certain traits but instead enhance them
i disagree, personality is constantly evolving, it isn't something that is set in stone. if that were the case I would still be a shy introvert and not the more outgoing guy i am today. no one is born a leader, you earn it
@Eric644 personality is generally accepted by mental health experts as being set by the age of 7 and research has been leading them to define that younger, not older.
Introversion isn't synoymous with shyness, either.
@ArtDent
then how do you explain people who do change. how do you explain someone like me who has gone from introvert to extrovert. maybe certain things are set at a young age, but not everything. there are some aspects of personality that continue to evolve well into old age
@ArtDent
www.huffingtonpost.com/.../...study_n_1321720.html
according to researchers at the University of Manchester's School of Psychological Sciences, personality can change
@ArtDent
www.livescience.com/...udy-personality-change.html
according to researchers at Stanford university, personality can change. Research is actually disproving the once held belief that personality is set in stone
@Eric644 www.nbcnews.com/.../
@Eric644 education-consumers.org/.../
@ArtDent
psychcentral.com/.../35663.html
@Eric644 www.rc.usf.edu/.../...SS%20THE%20LIFE%20COURSE.pdf
@ArtDent
the research i have is more recent
@ArtDent
“We found that our personalities can and do change over time — something that was considered improbable until now – and that these personality changes are strongly related to changes in our wellbeing, “ Dr Chris Boyce psychiatrist
@Eric644 www.washington.edu/.../
November 2015
@ArtDent
well there is no consensus i guess, but I agree with the psychologists that say personalty can change, i know i have a much higher self esteem now than i did when i was 5 or even 15. I use to be shy and am now outgoing. I know many people who were charming confident people but now are depressed individuals. from my experience and some science that backs it, i can tell you personality can change
@ArtDent
healthland.time.com/.../
@Eric644 Yeah, I can agree that, within the framework of one's core personality, people can adapt somewhat. But, in my opinion, the key to peace is acceptance of oneself.
@ArtDent
I guess i never thought about it that way, i guess adapt is a better term. but yes accepting oneself is key to growing as a man, totally agree
and don't get me wrong, im not advocating for people hoping that another person can change or that they can change the other person. I think it is possible for a person to change or, in your better term, adapt but they must do it themselves and no one else can do it for them
Love your take. I agree 100 percent and have been flamed many times for expressing my views. Have fun reading the comments from the guys.
alphas are queers, betas are queers, im the queerest man alive.
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I'm just gonna assume you mentioned wolves and concluded that there's no such thing as alpha and beta behaviour in humans, and mentioned social constructs somewhere in the take.
Great take, I agree, this system is absolute bullshit.
only narcissists believe in this shit
The pinterest and horoscope quip cracked me up! Couldn't agree more, it all seems like bs to me and I'm glad I haven't wasted my time believing this stuff.
If you follow the pack you're a Beta. If you lead the pack you're an Alpha.
And I don't why you're comparing humans with wolves in the first place, when humans are actually closer to the system that monkeys use.
" If you lead the pack you're an Alpha."
Not always a good thing. Example: Trump leads a pack of idiots. No one's impressed by that, especially not women.
@ras144
Absolutely not a good thing. The most carismatic psychopaths will always have the advantage of being able to sway the dumb masses.
But Trump is not an Alpha. He's actually a Beta who's not bright enough to understand when to shut up. The Alphas are the people behind Trump. And believe me when I say they know what they're doing. You're in luck though. This time your potential president isn't controlled by Israel but by another country. And that's good for everyone on this planet.
Well if you only want an average woman to fallin in love with you and you not to be able to fuck any hot women as you're loyal to her yoru whole life than go for it. I prefer being alpha but each to their own.
Implying I can give a shit what "women" think , I pull em like my first set above 3 deadlifts. But "alpha" really do mean just to do your own thing without caring, Not how much you bench or how big and strong are you
Exactly. If there was a thing as an alpha, they wouldn't give a flying shit.
An "alpha" wouldn't care. He is simply being himself.
It's so fun to troll you guys because it's way too easy and it takes zero effort to stir up a reaction lol
But you can only do that because you're so alpha 😝
@RedAmulet lol 👍😎😜😜