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Believing in the "Alpha/Beta" male system is an insecurity! (Page 4)

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  • kiki921
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    Xper 4 Age: 33
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    The truth has been spoken!

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  • dudeman
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    Guru Age: 39
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    it doesn't change the fact that it still exist. a better example would have been using a primate that we are closely related to.

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    • Eric644
      Eric644
      +1 y

      no it doesn't, the alpha concept is just a way for people with NPD to feel better about their shitty personalities. If you feel that you are superior to others or there is a winner vs loser system, you have a personality disorder and need to be locked up

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    • dudeman
      dudeman
      +1 y

      @Eric644 no it makes you an a human being who is aware of their surroundings.

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    • Eric644
      Eric644
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      nope, look up Narcissistic Personality Disorder. No normal person feels that they are superior to others, even normal successful people. Narcissistic leaders make the worst leaders because their egomania makes them disliked by other people, they cannot accept constructive criticism because it hurts their fragile egos and hurts their so called sense of superiority over others. So if you feel that you are superior to other people, than you need to go get help because you may be suffering with NPD

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    • dudeman
      dudeman
      +1 y

      @Eric644 . some men are taller. some men are better looking. some men are smarter. if you really are going to deny these basic truthes i suggest that you visit a therapist so they can talk some sense into you.

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    • Eric644
      Eric644
      +1 y

      that doesn't make them superior to other men though. Please google Narcissistic Personality Disorder, you may have it

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    • dudeman
      dudeman
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      @Eric644 you are clearly arguing your own argument. i never said anything that one persons life is more valuable than another however if you are really arguing that some people are not genetically superior than others then you are going to have a lot of problems in this life.

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    • Eric644
      Eric644
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      taller people are not superior to shorter people, because the tall guy may be a homeless guy that has no education and the short guy could be a doctor or a ceo. The good looking guy could be a criminal with no education and the less good looking guy could be researching a cure for cancer. the fact that you chose physical attributes to determine one;s superiority over others is a sign of NPD

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    • dudeman
      dudeman
      +1 y

      @Eric644 again you're arguing with yourself.

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    • Eric644
      Eric644
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      also, i have a college degree and i'm a businessman but that does not make me better than someone else because like other normal people I have a sense of empathy, i can put myself in other people's shoes, something a narcissist is incapable of doing

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    • dudeman
      dudeman
      +1 y

      @Eric644 when you say better you're arguing against a definition that only you are using in this conversation.

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    • Eric644
      Eric644
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      also, i have a college degree and i'm a businessman but that does not make me better than someone else no because like other normal people I have a sense of empathy, i can put myself in other people's shoes, something a narcissist is incapable of doing

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    • dudeman
      dudeman
      +1 y

      @Eric644 you suffer from projecting.

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    • Eric644
      Eric644
      +1 y

      if you say so, id don't feel that im superior to others and i can empathize with other people so that means i don't have narcissism. Your superiority complex actually proves that you have a low self esteem and will not live a happy life. Narcissists actually live unhappy lives

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    • dudeman
      dudeman
      +1 y

      @Eric644 i dont think my life is more valuable than others, i am better at things than most people though.

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    • Eric644
      Eric644
      +1 y

      "i am better at things than most people though". That is actually one of the statements psychologists use to diagnose NPD

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    • dudeman
      dudeman
      +1 y

      @Eric644 but i am. i can out lift you, i got a better degree than you. its not wrong to know your better at things than others. i even have a big dick.

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    • Eric644
      Eric644
      +1 y

      i dont care honestly if you can out llft me, that really doesn't impress me and that really doesn't impress a lot of people. bragging about dick size just proves you are an insecure narcissist. what makes you say you have a better degree than me, and even if you did, cool shit i still dont feel inferior. the thing is im happy with my life and you are not, because deep inside a narcissist has self esteem issues and is unhappy

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    • dudeman
      dudeman
      +1 y

      @Eric644 again you are arguing against you're own definition of better. im not arguing with you. in fact i agree with you. you however dont know how to read.

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    • Eric644
      Eric644
      +1 y

      dude, look I just don't think it is ok to view oneself as superior than others, now can you say more experienced yes, because experience doesn't mean you are superior than other people, i guess that is a more humble way of saying you have more skill.

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  • frecklejuice
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    Xper 4 Age: 28
    +1 y

    Yes. Guys who brag about how alpha they are make themselves look REALLY unintelligent. It's a major turn off.

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  • GreatnessPersonified
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    Explorer Age: 42
    +1 y

    Thank you for the correction. I didn't know about how actual wolves work (though, I should've, I've watched thousands hours of Nature.) lol

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  • Noxifer626
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    Yoda Age: 26
    +1 y

    I've seen a lot of guys describe "the perfect alpha" and in my opinion the perfect alpha is a perfect asshole as well.

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    • Eric644
      Eric644
      +1 y

      perfect alpha= Narcissistic Personality Disorder

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    • Noxifer626
      Noxifer626
      +1 y

      @Eric644 Indeed.

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  • Phoenix98
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    Master Age: 33
    +1 y
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    The whole concept is as silly as someone believing in a horoscope.

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  • LiamJHayden
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    Master Age: 30
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    I do not really care what other guys call themselves. I just avoid hurting others and do what I want.

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  • 104755555
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    Xper 6 Age: 30
    +1 y

    whatever man your just saying that because your a beta

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    • jacquesvol
      jacquesvol
      +1 y

      There's the hate...

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    • idkwtftoputhere
      idkwtftoputhere
      +1 y

      loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool

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    • Lonewolf_1296
      Lonewolf_1296
      +1 y

      It's not "hate", it's just retarded post ego butt fuck rant.

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  • ClariceOwen23
    ClariceOwen23 Follow
    Yoda Age: 30
    +1 y

    Yes! I agree. Great take :)

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  • Anonymous
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    (36-45)
    +1 y

    this whole "alpha male vs beta male" thing is just over-complicating the simple, self-evident fact that women find some guys are more attractive than others.

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  • Kuraj
    Kuraj Follow
    Yoda Age: 36
    +1 y

    You write a take on generalization yet you generalize the fuck out of the topic.
    Good job.

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  • PizzaGuy22
    PizzaGuy22 Follow
    Xper 7 Age: 28
    +1 y

    I just laugh at the things you people stress about like wow haha

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (25-29)
    +1 y

    "Believing in the "Alpha/Beta" male system is an insecurity!"

    Such a hypocritical title... Every beta male denys that the alpha/beta concepts exists.

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    • frozenhorizon
      frozenhorizon
      +1 y

      lmao

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    • Eric644
      Eric644
      +1 y

      only narcissists believe in the concept, you are a loser

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    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      @Eric644 Keep on hating, fuckboi.

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    • Eric644
      Eric644
      +1 y

      lol, ok loser

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    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      @Eric644 Pathetic little beta, hahaha

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    • Eric644
      Eric644
      +1 y

      the only pathetic person is you

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    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      @Eric644 Still mad?

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    • Eric644
      Eric644
      +1 y

      nah, i know that as a narcissist you will have a miserable life because no one really likes you

      Reply
    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      @Eric644 Someone seems bitter, butthurt and a beta

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    • Eric644
      Eric644
      +1 y

      no, i'm not bitter, i have no reason to be. I love my life and the people that are in it; I have a college degree, i'm a businessman, and women find me attractive, but see that doesn't make me superior to other people because like any normal human being i can put my self in other people's shoes and empathize with their situation, unlike narcissists like you. Now what do you have huh

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    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      @Eric644 There was no need to tell us your personal life bruh

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    • Eric644
      Eric644
      +1 y

      oh because it hurts your little ego and your false sense of superiority, cry me a river

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    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      @Eric644 nah, cause it makes you look like the typical defensive beta male

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    • Eric644
      Eric644
      +1 y

      nope, the only loser here is you

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    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      @Eric644 That's the best you got? Yeah, keep repeating "loser". Weak ass 😂

      Reply
  • DooKan
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    Xper 4 Age: 47
    +1 y

    and you can explain why most women throw themselves at jocks?

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    • jacquesvol
      jacquesvol
      +1 y

      @DooKan Because our society attached an imaginary value to 'jocks' and they want to be associated with that value.

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    • DooKan
      DooKan
      +1 y

      @jacquesvol so it has nothing to do with a woman feeling more protected or safe

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    • jacquesvol
      jacquesvol
      +1 y

      Only in a hostile environment.

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    • DooKan
      DooKan
      +1 y

      @jacquesvol very good explanations, *applauds*

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    • ras144
      ras144
      +1 y

      The take owner already answered your question:
      "Many of those "Alphas" don't get far, if anywhere, with a woman that actually is picky with her men. Why? The "Alpha" just goes around sleeping with easy sluts that only require a few compliments about her hair and nails to get a BJ."
      Most women actually DON'T do that, it's all in your head. Most women actually have a decent amount of self-esteem to not fuck an asshole who wants to hump and dump them. Most girls lose their virginities in a meaningful relationship.

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    • DooKan
      DooKan
      +1 y

      @ras144 I believe you and everybody is confused with Alpha's and Jocks, Alpha is a man that is focused on his purpose in life, he is a masculine man that does not sway with emotions, he is a rock and he knows what he wants. you are describing a jock, a bully rather that has no focus besides what girl he is going to screw

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  • balltilifall
    balltilifall Follow
    Xper 5 Age: 32
    +1 y

    yeah OK I bet you still look away real quick whenever an alpha looks at you.

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    • front2back
      front2back
      +1 y

      No I stare into his soul with endearment.

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    • Lonewolf_1296
      Lonewolf_1296
      +1 y

      I make them shit their pants.

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    • Tycwep
      Tycwep
      +1 y

      Maybe because he has no interest in his homosexual advances.

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    • Lonewolf_1296
      Lonewolf_1296
      +1 y

      @Tycwep bahaha, right? :P

      Reply
  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (30-35)
    +1 y

    I agree but not with the slut thing. if you have a lot of sexual partners, by definition of the word you're a slut. man or woman. for some its a good thing and others don't want to date sluts.

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (45 Plus)
    +1 y

    You have to make a distinction between the guys who want to be Alpha and think they can fake it... and the guys who are Alpha but don't ever use the term.

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  • KENKONG
    KENKONG Follow
    Xper 6 Age: 37
    +1 y

    Is that 21 or 22 and Jump Street?

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  • joseyyywhales
    joseyyywhales Follow
    Xper 5 Age: 34
    +1 y

    This sucks. Obviously you're a bet-ah

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    • jacquesvol
      jacquesvol
      +1 y

      More hate...

      Reply
    • Lonewolf_1296
      Lonewolf_1296
      +1 y

      Nice guns baby, wink wink.

      Reply
  • Jayded1
    Jayded1 Follow
    Explorer Age: 50
    +1 y

    Sounds like beta talk to me.

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    • Lonewolf_1296
      Lonewolf_1296
      +1 y

      Sounds like someone's ego got butt fucked with this take.

      Reply
    • Anno_Domini
      Anno_Domini
      +1 y

      @Lonewolf_1296 I know, right?

      Reply
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