OK Girls,
In life you will always find that interesting guy, the guy who shows many signs of liking you but then he suddenly hates you or just pays no attention. Let's say a girl name Kate liked this guy named Pat, she was in love with him like crazy. At first he paid loads of attention to her, he would message her and call her cute and beautiful etc.. But one day he stopped all of this, he stopped talking to her. Why? Well there are many reasons us guys do this, because I often do this to. Below are some dot points on why guys do that!
1. You might have annoyed him, be very careful with things you say. Guys can get very emotional of little things, we are like a ticking time bombs. Be patient with us, we are often slower at getting to know you more than you knowing us. We don't notice those simple hints you give us, because we just don't understand them. So don't be so angry if you see that all your methods of showing love aren’t working, most of the time we just don't catch them. Then when you girls get angry at us, off course us guys would get very annoyed to. Long story short, be careful or what you do because we can often take things the wrong way.
2. Jealousy is massive when it comes to guys, we always get jealous of the little things. You getting touched by another guy, we always see that as a challenge (If the guy likes the girl). So if a guy stops talking to you and calls you those words (You know, the female dog on and the word for someone who sleeps around). Please ask the guy why he called you those things and listen to him. Through his rage message, he should reveal if he is jealous. Then work from there.
3. Last thing, he is playing hard to get. There is this trick what guys do, they talk to you a lot but then stop suddenly. If this ever happens, most of the time they are playing a special card. They try to make you sad that he has removed you from his life. It is so simple but it works, you start to feel lonely or just sad. At this moment, the card says that you will miss the time you guys had and well you will fall for him. This card doesn't work always of course but it's a little trick us guys have. I wouldn't call it an evil trick, you girls would do that to wouldn't you ;)
Ok there are many more reasons why he might have stopped talking to you. I am new to this advice thing so please don't hate.
Thanks
- KnightwingNC
What Girls & Guys Said
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I've had guys bounce and lose contact with me after. They knew I wasn't gonna sleep with them. Also they knew they weren't gonna treat/talk to me any kind of way. Some men dont want women with morals, and dignity. They want someone they can run over. I wasn't raised to accept that.
I disagree with # 1 and #3
Yeah of course their are men like that, its the world.
- KnightwingNC
That should be on the list.
Very well said!!.