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The "Nice Guys Aren't REALLY Nice" Concept: Could Someone Please Explain It To Me? (Page 3)
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its just women can't be responsible for playing around, and after they are being used by the ones who degrade them, and they become leftovers, they wana be with good men
but usually good men not interested in them anymore, after they were interested before they become leftover
instead of being responsible for what they did, they blame it on good men by saying such stuff like nice men aren't nice
i think it says it all, they feel more comfortable degraded
Not the reason why women say that the reason why women say if a nice guys claims he nice is not nice. Is due the fact if he trying to win your affection but gets hostile if your not interested then he will flip shit and etc. That's the reason and there so many people like that thinking if they give you gifts, be nice to you then you own them. When you don't have to own them shit and they will turn hostile over it.
@NatashaJ what if a nice guy not trying to win someones affection
@NatashaJ women should only go for nice men because a woman's offspring needs a good caring provider who will take care of his women and children. Women should not have an excuse for having sex with psychopathic bad boys and players that are not loyal. The problem is women are not educated enough to realize this which makes good guys annoyed and bitter because women are not capable of choosing a partner. Woman from a biological perspective are not rational or logical to make decisions, reasons why they need taken by the hand sort of speak so they don't fuck things up for themselves... and other people lol
@Indigo91
Men like me are annoyed , cause we can't find pure girls, most of them are left overs , who they faced their best in the emotional and sexual level to a bad man who doesn't care
Then when it comes to babies , they pick good men cause they will be nice and tender
I don't let my desire control me, and I deserve to be with a woman I won't wonder about her skills or experiences
That's what I mean your left with post wall sluts in their 30's who have baggage, have aged like milk and have brought 3 or 6 kids all from different bad men. Feminism is toxic and is destroying the family unit by turning civilization of women in to filthy whores who can't keep their legs closed from men in the ghetto, we must bring back patriarchy fellas and undo this crap that women call equality... yeah equality when it fucking suits. Women think there so independent sat in their little cubicle offices while men do all dangerous job or are drafted in to war... feminism and women combined together is a joke lol
@Indigo91 feminism is about shoving group of women thoughts in others women minds
If a women doesn't follow their standard they don't try to understand, they call her opressed
Equity us the word
Women just don't wanna be responsible for what they do , that's why they wanna blame good men, cause we are the ones who reject them and don't droll when they open their legs
Bad men don't like them too, but they won't say just to get them, but most of them when they want to marry they don't stick to leftovers
I think it's about marketing, sex sells, naked women to sell anything, it stresses women to look in certain way , and all what she is about is not her mind , but her sizes
If a nice guy isn't trying to win someone affection then people would call him a nice guy. Its only the nice guys who turn psycho after a rejection. But even nice people claiming to be nice can be psycho to anyone. My friend is like that she thinks you own her because she so nice to people. Just because you do nice things to people doesn't mean they own you the world.
@NatashaJ being nice is something comes from inside , it doesn't change when the surroundings change
@NatashaJ Why did you remove my comment? Pathetic lol
@Indigo91 if it against the rules of GAG it will be remove and I love how you accuse me of doing it. Ironic you accuse the woman first, I think you have a big issue with women and you need to learn how to deal with women or you can't function in society.
and don't act surprise if the comment was remove. If GAG does not want comments like yours on their website they can have the right to ban it if they want to.
You really don't even know someone until at least 2 months into the relationship... everyone has their masks, and things they won't let you see until they get comfortable... male and female we all do it.
It has been in my experience that guys that claim to be nice really aren't. If a guy is really nice he won't have to go around saying it or whatever in the first place, his reputation or whatever should be able to speak for him
My take here basically answers all your questions
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a28827-nice-guy-nice-girl-fully-analyzed
Obviously the concept is that those who proclaim themselves nice usually aren't.
No cupcake... that is not a good excuse to ride the cock carousal in your 20's with men from the ghetto and good looking players. Women need a good caring providing man to raise her children and provide security. Women then breed more good people and not bad people lol
@Indigo91 Maybe you should find a girl to whom this rant makes any sense...
Nah whats the point most girls can't figure out what a good guy is since they are not educated enough or biologically capable of choosing their partners. The so called nice guys you hate so much are actually nice if you look past the pain women have caused to throw away these good men. Men are getting annoyed and fed up because women are so backward when it comes to dating.
@Indigo91 that's crap. Two men I went with said I need to get out of my 1950s act. This is all a matter of opinion. It's not just women to blame or men. It's society itself as a whole. Look at all the things put in the media now. It's disgusting.
Nice guys are a catch all term.
There are 2 different nice guys.
the top 2 tiers are not important atm
1strong xxxxxx
2strong xxxxxx
3weak Asshole nice less innocent more asshole might come off as "genuinely" nice depends on how good of a liar they are
4weak Victim nice guys more innocent less asshole might come off as genuinely nice or an asshole termed by bitches who pick on genuinely nice guys or mislabel them through ignorance
P 1. I & II: For the adventure I guess..
III: Not really, cause that feeling can be reversed when it is discovered we are all not liars and fake.
P 2. I: Easy answer, No.
II: It should not translate to that, in English anyway.
III: There is about a 95% chance of that being right.
P 3. I: Depends on rep, but most people are quick to judge, unfortunately...
Well.. aren't you exaggerating little bit, it is a fact that not all guys are nice, same for the girls. But the real difference is that guy are naturally with less patient so we used to feel bored maybe and starting to be rude from time to time... so you should excuse us.
Or the guys that you are knowing are not that nice (still maybe),, :)
Common sense isn't a strong trait many gaggers possess
nice guys who announce that they're nice are the douchiest of them all! Never trust anyone who says I'm a nice person... they usually aren't
It means men who think they are nice aren't actually nice. Nice guys do exist, but some guys who classify themselves as one are not. That's all.
You mean liars? So then women would be mad at liars? And NOT nice guys?
@genuinlysensitive They aren't all liars. Some guys genuinely think they are nice guys and don't realize their actions are not those of a nice guy lol
Yes but when describing guys who claim to be nice but turns out they were lying. Those are liars, not nice guys. Deep down they know when they are lying.
@genuinlysensitive All you did was just reword what I said and then add 'liars' at the end of it.
Because that is who you are talking about. But people rarely say it. If a man lies to a woman about being single, do women come out with tons of hate against guys who are single, or who are "self proclaimed" single? No! That is who they are they (and rightly so) single out the liars. For whatever reason when it comes to nice guys many women don't do that, they just bash nice guys. This is wrong.
@genuinlysensitive You didn't understand my original statement then because you just mass generalizations and I didn't.
I have used no mass generalizations, what is that your go to "buzzword" whenever someone points out facts you don't like?
"Because that is who you are talking about. But people rarely say it. If a man lies to a woman about being single, do women come out with tons of hate against guys who are single, or who are "self proclaimed" single? No! That is who they are they (and rightly so) single out the liars. For whatever reason when it comes to nice guys many women don't do that, they just bash nice guys. This is wrong."
Literally no mass generalizations.
@genuinlysensitive Trying to figure out why you're still talking to me. I'm tired of reading your ignorance and getting notifications to read them, so please, do me a favor, and step off.
its when the guy is only nice to you cause he wants to get in your pants. He pretends to be your friend, but the moment he expresses his interests and you are not into him, he becomes a dick.
NICE IS NOT WHAT IT IS ABOUT, I WONDER CAN WOMEN BE SO CALLED NICE OR NOT NICE ARE THEY PERFECT, nooooo
People basing their entire world view points based on one or two anecdotal experiences. Welcome to the Internet.
Thanks <3
You're now in my team. Called as "Smart Denizens".
it's the opinion that being a sociopath to get sex is better than being kind to get sex.
I wouldn't know. I'm not nice. And it's never more than 5 minutes before I ask for sex. The only problem is that this rarely happens because I usually only interact with girls in public settings.
well at least you're honest about it.
Nice guys I know are usually manipulative and not genuine.
Being "nice" means being a good friend and not aggressively pursuing a woman.
The book by Dr. Robert Glover is an amazing book on this issue