"My life is my wife and my children.
He spoke this restraining frustrated tears, recent paychecks barely enough for adequate food.
All men in my life are special; protective brothers, devoted fathers, and husbands wise as kings. I lived mostly with them an embrace warming the frozen wasteland of a life with my mother.
He fought constantly with her, to defend me from her; I vowed to work in repayment for the refuge he gave me, in which he replied,
"No, you relax and focus on school - this is my duty."
His duty of love.
1.) Hu-man-ity
Many people pity the brokeness between my mother and I, as mothers are thought to be the source of love and nurture naturally. Love, however, manifest in many ways. Though silent, men have a deep sacrificial devotion to not only those closest to them, but to humanity itself. Be it great or small, this masculine phenomenon is what has shaped our modern lives, despite the pains of doing so.
Is there enough paper in the world to list all male contributions? Can we perceive the depths of a man's burning spirit?
Or does such praise seem bothersome within the era of toxic gender ideology?
This war against masculinity harbors power through the common thought that men have essentially become nothing in the dawn of feministic rise - on the notion of lacking "female" qualities. Go figure.
Men have every "female" quality, as these qualities are basic facets of human nature.
Emotion is human.
Attention to image is human.
Chattiness is human.
Listening is human.
Sex is human.
Nurture is human.
Consideration is human.
Love is human.
2.) Pride Divides Genders
Due to a transparent concept of men, developed in the era of narcissism and resistance to objective reasoning due to said narcissism.
A narcissistic person refuses to be wrong, though wrong, or offended, though humility brings wisdom. Notice that the common gender war arguments revolve around a sorry concept of gender depths anyway - as a narcisist can not comprehend anything beyond the narrow space of perception not filled by their ego.
If we were wise about the mysterious essence of gender, how unified we would be. A great weapon against masculinity is the push to demean the sacrifice men give in their existence.
Women are respected for our obvious sacrifices of birth, motherhood, historic contributions, and our ongoing fight against an ego driven post - misogynistic world. Our achievements are more "outstanding", also due to toxic ideas against our gender.
Strangely enough, though a strong distaste for masculinity resounds in this respect, a woman acquiring as many masculine traits as possible is projected.
A bit hypocritical.
As narcisists do, they employ whatever tactics to gain glory only for themselves. Men's position of "authority" and "dominance," between the genders would be tempting for a self-righteous woman atop her high horse. Not only exuding praise as female, but sneaking a sit on another's throne.
This in truth has nothing to do with gender at all, but individuals who use gender to fuel their own prideful thought - as humans have done with race, politics, religion etc.
3.) We Are Gendered - Not Gender
Had there been no gender regarding human rights, the oppressed human group would have carried on in the same manner.
We are conditioned however, to separate gender from person, and treat it as if it is a person's governing force - attacking it as if its not a piece of the ones we say we love.
De-humanizing others makes it easy to destroy them. Nazi Germany is a fine example to grasp the severity of this social weapon, used repeatedly as a means to manipulate masses to see another person as nothing more than an animal. All for the sake of someones egotistical gain.
What are men who do not suit gender ideology often called?
Dogs. Apes. Pigs.
No, there will be no genocide of a gender physically, but the concentration camps built in our minds are no different.
I mention this having had been raised in the heart of men, allowing a glimpse into their spirit not existing in conflict with us as women, but alongside us as our fellow, often bigger human beings.
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