Where Did All The Nice Guys Go? (Page 5)

[pinkbutterfly]

Good article. but you know, same can go for guys, and it often does. There is plenty of guys who prefer some brainless hottie over a nice girl because that was they can seem cool.Girls see that and begin asking questions like " oh, do guys like nice or naughty, wild?" Then they try to become what they think guys really want, and then, become girls you've described above. So, I think everything depends on how mature the person is, not whether it's a guy or a girl.

[jasgreen23]

I'm a woman and you just said a mouthful of truth that a lot of women should have figured out along time ago. Loved it. OMG you're so right. I also would love to add. Women try being a nice girl and just maybe you can bring that nice guy back out. I also loved what gggggggggf said about guys going doing the same thing. You're chasing the girl everyone in the world wants, but not the girl that lives down the street. That knows more about you then anyone, because you grew up together.

[IWANTWHATIWANT]

People are going to love who they love. Just because a woman didn't choose the red headed step child who doted after her all these years does not make her and ass. It makes her a woman who is conscious of what she wants rather than just settling for what's in front of her just because it offers her emotional security. Remember, we want the whole package too.

[Lliam]

Word!

[likelyOK]

Absolutely

[IWANTWHATIWANT]

2 words! Paleeeeeease! and Pathetic!

I supposed every woman owes this puppy dog her life. Women need someone who they have chemistry with. Wake up dude! These nice guys pursued these girls for superficial reasons of their own and then they want to throw it in womens faces for not choosing them!? Have your pity party by yourself about not being able to attract the hot girl!

[Lliam]

Bam! I agree.

[HoneyBee111]

@Lliam mangina

[bamesjond0069]

Why do nice guys hold doors? I hold doors for my girl and I'm certainly not a nice guy. Why can't you be successful, confident, masculine, exciting AND a gentleman? Yeah nobody wants a nice guy. But for real i do agree with the end, nobody wants the girls who get with trash men. Making poor dating choices as a woman completely tanks your value in about 5 minutes forget 5 years.

[likelyOK]

I agree but it's hard to know someone's past with these dating apps and stuff. You usual don't get a feel until you are seeing someone for a while. Couple weeks into dating this one guys I could tell her dated some trashy girls.

[A-R-Norman]

Thanks ace--I wish most men were mature enough to just accept that they need to simply just move on and not punish every woman out there for their own mistakes in judgment...

[Anonymous]

lmao Who cares if a guy a girl wasn’t attracted to was nice? Obviously girls want a guy they’re attracted to to also be nice to them... Didn’t realize human decency was too much to ask...

Besides, those guys in a girl’s past that always hung out with her were prolly just gay.

Oh, and those girls weren’t using u for “emotional support,” they were simply reciprocating ur “niceness.” If u ask me, girls should just tell guys like u to stop stalking them and leave them alone.

[Opinion Owner]

I’d also like to add that people like you “nice guys” are the reason I stopped making guy friends. I realized quickly that the only reason u were being nice was to get something more out of me, and it was always awkward turning u guys down.

[Ben-Jammin]

This is some straight up bullsh*t. I agree with the article, but it's always two sides of the same coin and neither side is going to give in and admit the other one's right. 'Nice Guys' are out there. I'd like to think of myself as a TRUE 'Nice Guy'. Not just some guy that wants vagina, and that's exactly why this is a never-ending argument. Because of the misconceptions spurred on by our f***ed up society. 'Where did all the nice guys go?' is the same as 'Where did the nice girls go?'.

[gggggggggf]

Dude, women can't help what they're attracted to any more than you can. While you were making doe eyes at the hottie who had her choice of men, there were three other less good looking women who were wondering why none of the boys were interested in them. Where were you? Ah yes, chasing after a girl out of your league.

And when those women say that they want a "nice guy", they don't mean you.

[dowmop]

I think you take a very juvenile attitude toward the nice-guy problem. Maybe in high school you'd be right, but actual women *love* nice guys. Granted, as a nice-guy, I don't have the sex appeal that a lot of dangerous guys do, so it's harder for me to get my foot in the door. But once it is, I have the opposite problem of girls getting to clingy too fast.

Plus, I think it's much better to be rejected outright for being "too nice" than be with a girl who secretly harbors that attitude.

[Soleeeil]

i suppose the author expects that just because he is (or was) nice, all women he came into contact with should have swooned for him. not so! I've had some "puppydogs" in the past, whom I didn't encourage in the least. whether they were nice or not wasn't even a factor, I wasn't just going to give my vagina to them. in any case, the moral of that story is that I've never dated a jerk, used someone for attention or regretted casting away incompatible suitors. OP, try not being a puppydog.

[jmstarling]

Not even close to what he actually said.

[spring558]

If the nice guy wanted the girl, why didn't he ever say anything? It's true its the girls own fault, but are you really attracted to a girl who doesn't care enough to dress nice, doesn't have the confidence to say what's on her mind, and has no passion to pursue a career that she is successful in? Just because a girl screws you over doesn't mean you should be a douche, and if a guy screws a girl over that doesn't give her the right to be a bitch to the nice guys. Point is, it's a two way street.

[human_condition]

Stop assuming that every girl acts like some stupid cheerleader in a crappy American sitcom >_> It's not the fault of the entire world's population of girls that you didn't get laid.

[Tizen]

Oh and I suppose I should indicate that my previous comment was directed at the original writer of this story. Not the plagiarizing half-wit who posted this here. There is solace in knowing I found this out before I rated the article.

1 star.

[Mr-Higgins]

So true on so many levels.

Women (and even men) who have their heads stuck up their arses don't even deserve the attention of the nice guy (or nice woman).

I was the "nice guy" up until a few years ago. Now I am the total asshole as told by most people. Yes, I'm getting action like you wouldn't believe, but, I find it quite boring honestly.

[harley155]

They all got scared away from the women they treated great and still got burned by them. My 1st girl I was terrible to. But, as I matured and realized I didn't want a mate to be disrespected. I got disrespected in return from the new one. Call it Karma or what have you. I'll probably deserved it from my past. But, now I'm jaded and the next girl needs to show me I mean a whole lot more to her than the last one that left me to go back to some loser ex that doesn't work and has a crack problem.

[AlexRoz]

Wow... dude this is right on. I couldn't have said it better myself except I'm still the Platonic buddy, I liked your use of words lol. Anyways awesome job man.

[dasouthernicon]

This is just straight up truth on this matter. But the same could be said for the "nice girls" and their frustration. I have read this several times, and it made me smile each time I did....

[A-R-Norman]

Oh yeah--men who hi-five about this article are high five-ing misogynistic, bitter, woman hating HATE SPEECH...

[jmstarling]

Bullshit. I don't think you even read it.

[wally]

You just read my mind my only wish is that Any woman say WHERES THE NICE GUYS ????

SHE SHOULD READ THIS AND START TO REMEMBER WHAT SHE DID IN THE PAST !!!!!!!