One of the stupidest things that women do is begin a conversation with a man by saying "Can I ask you what I should do?" Because men, as SANE and RATIONAL beings, will take that to mean she wants specific advice on what she should do. Women, of course, not being capable of rational thought, do not CARE how they begin a conversation, since that statement will have nothing at all to do with what they want to hear. (Don't worry about what they say, it will never make any sense anyway.)
For example, suppose a woman is hired at a job where she is to share the caseload with a current employee. That current employee then does the following: Handles all the case files, herself. Schedules all appointments with herself, if an appointment can't be made, sends out a general email to the workers asking for someone to cover but doesn't contact the new hire who is supposed to split the cases. Okay, so the newly hired woman tried to speak directly with the incumbent about the matter and was met with a tantrum and worse passive-aggressive behavior. So, then the new hire speaks to a man and explicitly asks what she should do. The man says that, since she can't take it up with the incumbent, then she needs to go to the supervisor.
The woman, throughout the conversation, keeps fixating on "WHY is the doing this?". The man finally tells her that "why" doesn't matter. He's not the incumbent's therapist or counselor. What matters is WHAT--the actions, and that means speaking to the supervisor.
The woman keeps bitching and moaning about WHY WHY WHY WHY WHY WHY WHY. The man once again explains that why doesn't matter. Since she can't talk to the incumbent, she has to go through the supervisor.
The woman gets pissed off at the man for speaking the truth.
The man was just being sensible and actually ANSWERING THE QUESTION ASKED. Women need to learn that. If you just want a bitching and pissing session, DO NOT LIE ABOUT IT and pretend to ask for a solution. You will get a solution from a man and then he'll get annoyed at you for being a childish little brat.
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