Guys: Is it unrealistic to want a Girl under 130 pounds?

[johnbaseball17]

I was told that i was too picky and insensitive because I'm only attracted to girls under 130 pounds. I know, There are girls over 130 pounds that could make me happy.

Is it unrealistic to want a Girl under 130 pounds?

And blond hair too!

It is UNREALISTIC to want and find a girl under 130 pounds

It is OK to prefer a girl under 130 pounds

[Slavanna]

Yeah, you are picky. No, it's not unrealistic. You're just gonna have really, really hard times finding a girl that meets these criteria AND is emotionally and intelectually compatible with you.

PS I don't see how you can be actually attracted to weight. It looks different depending on height! At 5'9" and 140 lbs I look skinnier than most of my 5'5" friends, and yet they weigh less.

[DarkLegacy]

But women are the same. They are also saying they are attracted to weight and height

[hswhis]

Depends on what you want out of life. DO you want 130 lbs no matter the personality, values, morals, education, etc? Or do you want to find someone who shares your values, goals, interests, will be a good wife and/or mother and a great life companion?

Not saying you can't find someone who can be both, but you may be losing out on the opportunity to meet/find the person who can be.

[johnbaseball17]

I'm hoping to find both. I'm only dating girls now that want to be a wife and mother someday, not soon though.

[hswhis]

Just saying that if you had a bigger pool, your chances of finding Miss Right would be better. It's up to you.

[johnbaseball17]

No, I'm sticking to my small pool.

[hswhis]

Good luck!!

[johnbaseball17]

Maybe I'll accept over 130 pounds if I'm still single at 30 to 35 like your age. Girls 30 to 35 don't look nearly as good as teens and 20's and tend to have some cushion.

[hswhis]

Dude, I wasn't being sarcastic. I really don't care who you go out or marry; I don't even know who you are. You asked a question, I gave you my opinion.

And for the record, I weigh less than 130 lbs and work out 4-5 times a week. That's due to the fact that I don't have kids. All my friends who were just like me when they got married after marriage and having kids, let themselves go and practically ALL of them are over the 130 lbs mark. Just saying your ideal doesn't last forever and if that's what you are basing your attraction on, you may be disappointed later.

But, it's your life. Live the way you want to.

[DarkLegacy]

the same applies to women though with men.

[sammy_31]

You are picky about wanting a girl to be at or less than 130 but it isn't unrealistic. Girls can be 130 and have different body types, they can be taller, smaller, thinner, toned or a little thicker so don't expect it to be one type of body shape, size, etc. on a girl.

[DanAG]

You can like any kind of girl you want. Lots of girls are under 130 so you aren't seriously limiting your choices. Glancing at the BMI index you are basically talking about someone around 5'4" or less and normal weight. For a girl 5 feet tall 130 is overweight.

[Anonymous]

I like how most of the women on here say you're picky knowing that they wouldn't date anyone that they weren't physically attracted to. I know that about 98% of them on here wouldn't date a guy that was obese.

[umidkusername]

bud 130 isn't even close to obese. in fact, for girls over 5'6, it's underweight. i get not wanting to date someone ur not attracted to, but at least be realistic pal. besides, asking a girl how much she weighs on a date to see if u can like her is always a bad move. maybe you should just judge by looks, like a normal person, next time u wanna be superficial.

[DarkLegacy]

@umidkusername lol at all the double standard women slating him

[Izzy2102]

Actual weight is something you very rarely hear as criteria. It's just a bit stupid because the relative weight depends on so many factors. Height, bone density, muscle mass...
It's a weird thing to care about.

130 lbs is not unrealistic for most girls, it's fat for some and way to think for others

[DarkLegacy]

If it is weird then why do women care about it so much then. And height. Double standards

[Betwyn]

While it is ok.. and there are lots of us around...

I think you shouldn't key on the number..

Look at the height and build.. if you like someone with the right look.. but they happen to be 135.. is that the end of the world? no...

[DarkLegacy]

It is not the end of the world if the guy is not over 6ft or not muscular

[caramel_latte]

Its definitely okay to have preferences, after all we can't really help who we are attracted to. Me, personally? I don't find myself attracted to super skinny guys, I like guys who are a little bulky/have muscle. And usually don't like blond guys, more brown hair dudes. If you were to ask me why, I'd have no idea...thats just what I'm into.

[Anonymous]

No it's not unrealistic at least no more than a woman wanting a guy over 6 feet. It's fine right up to the point that you start complaining that your dating pool is small. When, like the women who choose height restrictions, you CHOSE to make your dating pool unnecessarily smaller.

Also how exactly does one check this? Do you carry around a scale with you? 😆😆😆

If you said "hey man, I just don't want to date a fat girl". That would be one thing and I'd understand it. But a standard of no one over 130lbs. Is oddly too specific.

[kareenakapur]

You're quite picky. I hope you want a short girl bc if you want a girl that's tallish, then anything under 130 pounds would mean that she's anorexic. I'm 4'11". and I'm 102 pounds, so like if you want a short girl then that's realistic.

[dominiquois]

Exactly.

[DarkLegacy]

Women are also quite picky

[DarkLegacy]

i find it funny how women think it is ok for them to go for a guy based on height and weight but then slate men who do the same. Pathetic double standards. Most women answered that you were unrealistic whilst saying they prefer a guy who is taller and heavier then them.

[RBT-RS]

Uh.. I think what you want is well-proportioned, not under a specific weight.

As for hair colour, then.. any girl can dye their hair (if they so wish).

[johnbaseball17]

Nope, I need natural blond not fake blond. Yes, 130 pounds or less with some type of boobs. I hate trouble fat spots on girls.

[CrazyCandy]

Well this proves that your expectations are unrealistic.

[hswhis]

And with this comment you do show that you are unrealistic and picky. Doesn't mean you can't go on and do what you like, but yes, you are unrealistic and picky.

[johnbaseball17]

What is so picky about natural blonde hair, 130 pounds, and at least B cup boobs?

[hswhis]

It's a very limited pool. Small pool preference=picky. Simple math. You asked if you were picky, the answer is yes.

Why do you get upset about it? You boast about how that;'s all you like yet don't want to be called picky?

Let you in on a secret, girls like men who have balls and stand by their beliefs even if they get criticized for it. We do not care for whiny, immature teenagers.

[Anonymous]

well as a girl who’s almost 5’9 and 130 pounds exactly, i think guys like you who don’t seem to understand that weight is in proportion to height. if i lost 5 pounds or more i’d b underweight. so i think for me the expectation is fairly unrealistic but if u want to date a short girl then ig that’s a different case. i just think it’s stupid to put a number on it, but to each their own ig, a bit shallow but u like what u like. i just think it’s expectations like this that pushes girls to eating disorders and body dysmorphia, healthy weight is better in my opinion.

[DarkLegacy]

Women are just as guilty

[Cleveland]

Not unrealistic, but I wouldn't judge based on weight as much as how the person looks. You will find athletic girls look smaller than they weigh. If the number is what you're all about, then that is your right.

[DarkLegacy]

Women should not judge on weight either

[throwit]

It should matter how it looks on her. A short 130 lb. Girl would look way different than a tall 130lb girl.
I'm 5'8'' and 138 and I'm just skin and bones.

[johnbaseball17]

Nice! Tall girl. I'm tall too.

[CrazyCandy]

I think you missed the point of this comment dude.

[dominiquois]

Wow! 138 lbs for 5'8 is almost dangerously skinny. I'm 5'8" and 187 lbs.

[johnbaseball17]

5'8" and 187 for a woman? No way I'll give you the time of day.

[CrazyCandy]

I don't she would even want to have anything to do with a mean guy like you. First I though you were just picky but now you insult random women? Your expectations about female body are picky and unrealistic. You have been brainwashed to think that very thin and skinny female body is the only normal body there is and should be.

[johnbaseball17]

5'5" or less, 130 pounds or under, and at least B cup is not unrealistic.

[CrazyCandy]

But you are being disrespectfull by saying " 5'8 and 187 for a woman?" And so on. She has a normal body weight and height and your comment was rude

[hswhis]

@crazycandy. He's a jock, plays football and baseball. He's probably taken too many hits to the head already and will be useless by the time he's 40 with his addled brains and bum knees and back.

By then the natural blonde, with B cup boobs and 130 lbs will dump him.

[johnbaseball17]

No, 187 for a 5'8" woman is not acceptable. She should be no more than 150. Yuck

[kittykatg]

It is fine to have your preferences but some girls are under 130 but look bigger and there are girls over 130 that look smaller. So it might be hard to perfectly match what you want.

[Willow4]

You have your preferences and that's fine, there are plenty of girls 130 and under :) It's not being picky, you can't help what you're attracted to and bigger women have their followers too lol.

[DivaMonae]

Unrealistic no there's plenty of girls under 130 even girls on GAG said they were under 130.

But you are being somewhat of a jerk for not giving girls over 129 and up a chance but hey you like what you like.

[DarkLegacy]

Women are jerks if they don't give guys that are under 6ft chance or guys that are not muscular.

[VV123]

Some girls will think they are fat even if they weigh less then 130. I weigh way more than 130 and it makes me annoyed to see girls that have dream bodies and they say they weigh as much as I do and I look bad. For someone who is rejected and made fun of it can be annoying

[truthbeknown]

You are not too picky or insensitive. Be honest with what you like and go for it! Ignore the negative comments. Everyone is entitled to their preferences and be happy.

[princess9089]

130 and healthy looking is fine. but taller girls 130 would look unhealthy. it all depends on a girls height :)

[LittleSally]

Is it because you're short and skinny, so you don't want the girl to be heavier than you?

[johnbaseball17]

Nope, I'm 6'5" and 250 pounds

[LittleSally]

So...you want to feel like you're with a child?

[johnbaseball17]

Nope, not into children. I like fit girls 130 pounds and under.

[LittleSally]

I understand the fit part, but why a short girl, when you're tall?
There aren't any tall girls who are that skinny that look the least bit normal.

[johnbaseball17]

Because the short fit girls i see at the gym are about 130 pounds and under. Those are the girls i want. Their bodies appeal to me the most.

[LittleSally]

Good to know. ^-^

[DarkLegacy]

he is perfectly fine with his preferences, so there is no need to mock him or effectively accuse him of being paedo

[Anonymous]

No, it's not unrealistic. Plenty of girls weigh 130 or less. But were you asking if it's realistic, or appropriate/too picky? I think there's a big enough difference between those two.

[Pinay_ako]

Your choice. The question is: will these girls want someone like you? Realistically, physically speaking?

[shortmember]

Why restrict yourself? And do you carry a set of scales around?

[johnbaseball17]

Nah, estimated 130 pounds passes the eye test though. Eventually I will find out the weight anyways.

[cajun]

it is and any expecations is unrealistic and it will create a barrier..

[Lauren2410]

It's ok, it's your preference, we all have our preferences :)

[CateM]

Picky but not unrealistic. There are women who are under 130lbs. They are often 5'3 and under

[NoblesseOblige]

lol of course not. There are tons of girls that weight.

[Anonymous]

No more wrong than men insisting that the person she is with is over 6 feet... Well its less wrong seeing as she can change her weight, but a man cannot change his height.

[Opinion Owner]

I love how the pinks are saying you're being too picky... but will defend their choice to insist on dating men who are 6 feet tall, 6 figures salary, and at least 6 inches long. Women on here are such hypocrites.

[dominiquois]

It depends on her height.

[jacqueline15]

haha dude it's pretty common. Im like 110-120

[yaddayaddayadda02]

GO for it. You like what you like

[BertMacklinFBI]

heck no:D totally acceptable

[loveBrowneyes]

nahh it's totaly fine !

[TheNewClassic]

Not at all.