Do you ever daydream about rescuing/being rescued by the one you like?

[Anonymous]

Guys, I don't know if you do this too, but do you ever daydream about doing something dangerous and heroic to get a girl to notice you, or rescue her from danger? Even if it's something as simple as catching her if she falls of a stepladder or trips, or fantastic, like fighting to save her from a hungry dragon? Do you even find yourself tensing when you see her in a potentially dangerous situation, calculating what to do and how, in case something happens, so that you can instantly be there for her? (I do this, although personally I also feel just as protective towards everyone in general (superhero complex?), though a crush gets more attention yet.). Ladies, do you imagine/wish for your crush to save you from some peril? Or, in reverse, to save HIM?

[Azara]

@Ladies, do you imagine/wish for your crush to save you from some peril? Or, in reverse, to save HIM?

yeah i daydream all the time about some crazy shit happening and i save the day i save him or others while he's watching and he's all impressed. in these dreams i am expert at fencing or gymnastics- tai kwon do or im a life guard... I've never quite had the opportunity. Sucks but its not as if id want something bad to happen just so i can be a hero. but one can dream ;p

I've never dreamed of a guy saving me. though when i had a crush i guess once or twice i thought itd be cool if i twisted my ankle in his presence doing something awesome like a triple flip or jumping over a bunch of people in a crowd, or saving a lost kid or animal and i had to put my arm around him to get back to wherever it is i was going... so id be able to touch him without him knowing i liked him not being thought of as a move or sexual undertones..

[Asker]

I was wondering if a woman would answer like you did, wanting to be the one to rescue the man instead. That's interesting! Hmmm... now you gave me something to consider: how I'd feel if a woman rescued ME instead!

[Azara]

:)

when you figure out how you'd feel id like to know:)

[Asker]

I admit, I've never considered that much before. I can see that being kind of romantic and awesome, though, like having some glorious angel or Amazon princess coming to your rescue! Actually, that's kind of hot... Now I have some new fantasies to think about! Thank you. :)

[Asker]

And not necessarily just sexual ones either, of course: sometimes we guys have romantic fantasies, too. Lol

[Falling4UTC]

Well I do sometimes imagine him randomly confessing all his feelings that he loves me and just saving me from my heartbreak and confussion to be honest. I also had a real dream that I was really sad and depressed when I went to a party and I saw him there so I left, and then he chanted "chelsea wait!" when I was in the middle of the parking lot. He then said "Uh, Chelsea.. I was wondering if you... You know... Wanted to go to the dance with me?" really shyly and adorably and I said "Yes of
course I would!" He then scooped me up and his lips just touched mine before I woke up. I was so mad that I woke up, I was so close!

[Anonymous]

Yes I have expirienced that before and it's the best feeling ever , you just feel like they care for you and will be there for you, you feel protected. guys normally don't do that stand up for someone or not all well I haven't been in a situation where that happens again but now I kinda do, next time I'll try it see if a guy will do something or not lol.

[Asplode]

Lol I daydream all the time. About all sorts of shit, including this. It's a natural instinct, it's fun to imagine scenarios where you're awesome. Just gotta keep in mind it's just a fantasy. It can give you motivation to better yourself sometimes, but just thinking it won't do much, and in some cases if it satisfies you enough you'll have no motivation to actually get out and live.
Still a nice way to pass time on occasion.

[rthomas43]

What guy doesn't daydream about being the hero? :)

[blaiseyyxx]

I always daydream, it makes me feel like a loser but I am glad to know other people do it too!

[Anonymous]

Yes is the answer. Heroic guy comes to save me and I do get tense when he puts himself in danger.

[Moimaris]

I think it’s very cute and I would adore it if a guy was like that

[TheNewClassic]

That is very cute :)

Never Imagined stuff like that.

[rawrnessism]

Yepp! Mainly Zombie Apocalypse.

[dominiquois]

*Sigh* Yes, I'm a hopeless romantic. ^_^

[Anonymous]

Nope, not really.