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Is it weird to have never had a boyfriend at 21? (Page 3)
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Don't be scared, it's nothing. I had guys liking me etc but no boyfriend until later on, like you. You will be fine.
I don't think its weird.
I'm 21 and I've never had a boyfriend or been on any dates. No one has every really been interested in me and I'm fine with being single right now so I'm not aggressively out there searching for a boyfriend.
Nothing at all weird.. in many world cultures such would be the
NORM.
I never had my first girlfriend until I was 22 I had my first kiss with her but never lost my virginity to her. So it's not weird one bit that you never had a boyfriend before.
Its not weird in my opinion. You should just wait for the right guy to come along.
Yep, as they said in the movie Sex Drive, if you don't have a girlfriend if you're a guy (implying that the reverse holds true for women) by 18, you run the risk of starting to turn gay, you know?
Lol you actually believe that?
That was the dumbest thing I ever read in my life.
I'm sure he was being sarcastic
Yeah, I was just kidding of course lol.
Honestly, it's not weird or anything and I don't think you have to worry about anything. That sole fact won't make you less desirable, more if anything. People today get married really late.
But it really does suck when you can't get an SO. :( I am 16 and I've never had a girlfriend and am kind of desperate for one and constantly worry about not finding one due to my short height and different race.
Oh, and why are you trying to not be thin? Thin is great! I don't know why you're trying to change that...
well I know I'd love to have a boyfriend, but dating just isn't really my thing. I hate it, it's tiring and I have a lot of other things going on right now
Well my body looks kinda like this 38.media.tumblr.com/.../...j4VTzn1ttnwwko1_500.png a bit thinner maybe, and I'm aiming for something more like this pbs.twimg.com/media/BGvKNeyCYAIukJC.jpg:large
Oh I totally know what you mean. Dating really does sound confusing and exhausting and something you can easily get hurt doing. Modern dating has kind of gone downhill it seems. I would love to have a girlfriend but I hate this whole dating thing just like you.
It's too much of a game these days and people really don't seem to care much about other people's emotions in this process. Like they'll play hard to get and shit, which is basically playing with someone's emotions.
I got my first boyfriend when I was 19. It's not weird at all, everyone moves at their own pace.
Nothing weird about it ! Just live your (love) life the way you want and don't compare yourself to others !
Not weird in the slightest. Sounds like you're doing great
I'm 21 too and never had a girlfriend, never been kissed, a virgin. It's perfectly normal nobody is timing you but I would really like a girlfriend.
not from my perspective... but then i'm 36 and never had a boyfriend, so... lol
here's the rub though... the longer you wait, the harder it'll be to enter the dating pool... the fear just builds up
Its not weird for me. But if you don't feel like dating at the moment as you say do not complain about it. Anyway, sooner or later you will find the right guy.
Maybe you don't open up enough so they lose interest or you turned down potential boyfriends
i think its because of the generation you grew up in, everyone always concerned about their own little technological worlds, to even notice one another, so no its not weird its right on track
right on track. What does that mean?
Because of the addiction to the technological devices, that more people will end up alone
He's basically saying you are addicted to technologies and thats why you are stuck in this situation. I do disagree with him tho
I say no it is not weird, I am in college now and I just got over “men are stupid and I will never love" phase. But. try not to think about it, join clubs at your colleges talk with people, go to the gym.
No it's not weird. It's fine to take a break too because if you focus on the self for a bit you will feel happier in dating
I had my first ever relationship when i was 22. Don't worry too much.
ok, how did you meet? Did he think it was weird you had never been with anyone else?
In college he was in two of my classes. Not weird but he said it was unexpected since he know a few classmates who also like me and he was lucky i choose him.
Had stressful flings from the age of 18-20, at 21 I got my first boyfriend. It's worth waiting for, if the guy isn't right don't say 'yes'.
*Insert reference to the other ten-thousand questions on this site asking the exact same thing down to the punctuation*
Most people by 21 would have had a Partner, but it's not weird not to. Maybe 85- 15 % have had a gf/bf by that stage.