My boss doesn't look at me when talking with me? (Page 3)

Anonymous · 2014-09-13T07:59:01Z

Why my boss doesn't look at me when talking with me or when being in the same company with me? He avoids totally eye contact. We also have this hugging policy in our company (when people are leaving the company or they have birthdays) then we exchange hugs. He usually hugs others. Yesterday I was at the office talking to my 3bosses, the other two ones gave me a hug, he avoided eye contact and didn't give me one. He is always nice to me - the time before that he complimented my job and made me a gift and got me a very big exception from his bosses so that i could work from another state online without being in the office for a very long time (trust-based). One time he complimented my scent and asked me what perfume is this and i answered that i had none. lol. he said then that it smells very good and i forgot to reply to it. During teamevents he never talks to me. He invites others to play bowling with him, but not me. Everybody keeps telling me how cool and funny he is, but with me he is always very reserved and doesn't make jokes. Only compliments my work, tells me to turn to him in case i need something, stands out for me when i have problems, fights for me when getting this big exception as other bosses didn't want to give this to me and other workers do not really approve it. doesn't really show interest in me. Asks only small-talk-type of questions. Never comes to chat with me even tough he chats with others. He knows Im engaged. I feel like he doesn't like me. It is not so nice to talk to someone when this person doesn't even look me in the eye for a brief moment. His body is positioned towards me however. This totally bothers me. He doesn't like me? How come i dont hear him make his jokes?

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Anonymous
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He's in to you! I accidentally do the same things to women I like, too.

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You're engaged. Stop it.

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He either likes you or thinks you don't like him

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Xper 5 Age: 29

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He really likes you is what's going on.

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Anonymous
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Yeah it doesn't sound like he's very fond of you

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Xper 7 Age: 25

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He could have Aspergers.

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I'd just be happy if my boss didn't talk to me

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maybe he is trying to avoid an EEO complaint

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He sounds stuckup and ignorant if you ask me

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Anonymous
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He totally wants to rub statues with you.

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- JustAskMEH
  
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  lol wattt
  
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Anonymous
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I believe he likes you like very much :) .

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Anonymous
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He seems indifferent

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