Why is he friendly to everyone else but me?

[Anonymous]

Hi I've known this guy for a long time. But it's mostly about work stuff and he used to wink at me and get excited to see me. I've never responded and always gave him the angry look. Recently he doesn't wana help me with anything anymore. Seems like he helps everyone else but me. Also, he doesn't say hi to me when he walks into the room. He talks to eveyrone else in a friendly manner and just walks pass me. Only today when I looked up at him, he said hey ya. But otherwise he will just cross my path knowing I'm there and just not say anything. Why would he do that. I remmeber the last time we talked were still ok...

[MothMonsterMan]

"Recently he doesn't wana help me with anything anymore."

Well that's because you " never responded and always gave him the angry look". So you were being a cold bitch to him. Why do you think he avoids you now? DUH!

[Asker]

Well I feel sorry too it's just that I wasn't having good days though I know I should also fake a smile when that happens. Does he really hate me? How do I make it up to him?

[MothMonsterMan]

I doubt he HATES you. He probably just sees you as a stuck up bitch , and since this is a work environment, he's only going to deal with you when absolutely necessary.

The only thing you can do is come up and apologize to him. Say something like "Look I know you were trying to be friendly to me and I was a bitch, I'm sorry". And go from there. He may forgive you, he may not. But either way you've come clean about it.

[Asker]

But is it awkward to say things like these. Can I just smile at him the next time I see him?

[MothMonsterMan]

Maybe not say it exactly that way, but you still need to apologize to him in person. Just giving hints isn't going to work. Smiling doubtful because he'll think you're still being a cold / sarcastic bitch. At least until he knows you're truly sorry.

[Blaaasiaaan]

That's what showing an ice queen personality will get you lol.
If you want to chat with him tell him you were depressed back then or something.

[Asker]

:( :(

[Blaaasiaaan]

<3 gl

[three458]

actually there's probablly one of your atitude that she doesn't like, or she's just tryna to get your attention.
but it all depends on how you treat her. (y)
just never give up on her