My boyfriend's dad tried to kiss me? Should I tell my BF? (Page 2)

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I've met my boyfriends parents twice before. But he decided to invite me over for a barbecue. (I don't think I was dressed provocatively I wore leggings and a nice top). Well his dad was near the grill and I decided to go and talk to him. We where both behind the grill so no one could really see what he was doing. So anyways we're talking and then he places his hand on my lower back, he gradually kept moving it down until it was right on my butt. He eventually lightly squeezed it and then told me how pretty I was. I was shocked but by then my boyfriend and his mom came over, I was too scared too say anything. also I assume that because he was so much taller than me that it was a mistake. 
After that I went to use the bathroom, when I was walking to the stairs his dad was there. He pushed me against the wall and kept putting his hands on his waist and my butt, and kept telling me how pretty I was and that I look more mature than most high school girls. Then he tried to kiss me, I didn't kiss him back so he eventually let me go. I went to my boyfriends room and cried for a minute, but wiped the tears away. When I came back I pretended that there was a problem at work and that I had to leave. I'm honestly really scared to tell my boyfriend. I don't want him to be mad at me or his dad. Should I tell him? Would you want your girlfriend to tell you

Anonymous · Answer

You need to tell everybody and get help. If you let this go on it's just gonna get worse and worse and his dad is probably gonna end up raping you (sad but true) stop it while you can

kashin10 · Answer

Tell him!!! That's a huge deal and it needs to stop !

CommieDearest · Answer

Um, yeah. You need to tell your bf, and your parents. (Assuming you're in high school)

makel01 · Answer

YES! Tell your boyfriend and get some adult support (parent, teacher or counsellor) or break up with your boyfriend. His father is not a safe person to be around for you - please trust me on this.

blackkid97 · Answer

Nah, that's to crazy not to tell him. You can't keep that type of secret from him. So tell him

Strider90 · Answer

You have to tell it somebody. This can happen again and Im pretty sure it will. His dad is looking for trouble, so its not your fault at all.

DubbD · Answer

Hell yeah tell him! If my did that to my gf I'd probably murder him! You seriously need to tell him!!!

Shaqmove · Answer

Your boyfriend will really not like this. But ofcourse you will tell him. We don't know he might help you to talk to his dad and to agree never to do those kind of things again.

Anonymous · Answer

These happened to me kinda but the guy who did it to me was 19 and I was 13 at the time. And I got raped.
If I was you I would tell my boyfriend first and then have him talk to the father. To stop it.

Anonymous · Answer

Probably you are American and white. It happens among whites all the times i guess.

Lockfrost · Answer

Da faaaaaaaaaaaack? Of course you gotta tell him. It might cause so many troubles but you REALLY must tell him, girl!

goodlookingguy · Answer

How did you feel when he put his hand on your butt. did he try to flirt with you again

JulyAndrews · Answer

Why didn't you push him away?

Anonymous · Answer

TELL HIM!! Just be prepared for the father denying it and potential fall out with boyfriend/parents

rjroy3 · Answer

You should absolutely tell your guy

CommieKiller · Answer

Tell him, call the cops, press charges.

rUinSAYAN · Answer

tell your boyfriend goddammit

christopwt · Answer

Tell ur boyfriend and mom then just walk away him

Anonymous · Answer

Only if you want to start drama

Johnyoo · Answer

Obvious troll.

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