My friends with benefits is drifting away?

[Anonymous]

When we first started hanging out, we both said we weren't looking for anything serious. I just got out of a long term relationship in June where I lived with the guy. He broke up with his ex in like January. Anyways, we would go all these dif places like the movies, mini golf etc and talk on the phone for a long time. He would always joke that I'm a player and once he got annoyed because he thought I was texting someone else. He said since we were having sex, it wasn't safe to do other people. (i wasn't)
Anyways, we were talking on the phone and I don't remember how it came up but he said we weren't really fuck buddies so what would I call us? I said well obviously we're friends with benefits because we're friends who like to have sex. He kinda agreed. I said after the sex has died, I would like us to always be friends and he agreed.
Since then, I've gone over his house the last three times and basically had sex most of the time. It's like he's turning me into a fuck buddy? And he texts me less and no more good morning texts. I'm SO confused. I really can't stress this enough, I honestly had/have no romantic feelings for him. I thought about it but I'm pretty practical and it just wouldn't work out. Like, he told me all about his exes and how he slept around in college. So much information that I just saw him as a friend. He's very sexy and the sex is amazing, but I really don't see him as a bf. I just miss us having fun together. What do I do? I'm afraid to ask him to do something for fear of him rejecting it.

[ManThatKnewTooMuch]

Firstly, I think you're fucking up because aren't "friends" supposed to make the best boyfriends? Now you're saying you know him TOO well? That sounds silly.

And he's distancing himself from you. He obviously is getting attached which he is showing by getting jealous and sending you "cute" texts. Real "friends" don't do that shit. I have plenty of lady friends who I don't text or get jealous over. Point is... he's limiting the amount of time you spend together because the sex blurs it up and makes it harder to just think of you as a "friend."

[Misunderstoodvirgo6]

There not much to do but to either say how you feel or dont. If he a friend or cares at all he would deff let you know the truth and wouldn't just stop talking to you. to me that kind of a relationships you need to be hoenst with each other with out taking anything to heart.