When we first started hanging out, we both said we weren't looking for anything serious. I just got out of a long term relationship in June where I lived with the guy. He broke up with his ex in like January. Anyways, we would go all these dif places like the movies, mini golf etc and talk on the phone for a long time. He would always joke that I'm a player and once he got annoyed because he thought I was texting someone else. He said since we were having sex, it wasn't safe to do other people. (i wasn't)
Anyways, we were talking on the phone and I don't remember how it came up but he said we weren't really fuck buddies so what would I call us? I said well obviously we're friends with benefits because we're friends who like to have sex. He kinda agreed. I said after the sex has died, I would like us to always be friends and he agreed.
Since then, I've gone over his house the last three times and basically had sex most of the time. It's like he's turning me into a fuck buddy? And he texts me less and no more good morning texts. I'm SO confused. I really can't stress this enough, I honestly had/have no romantic feelings for him. I thought about it but I'm pretty practical and it just wouldn't work out. Like, he told me all about his exes and how he slept around in college. So much information that I just saw him as a friend. He's very sexy and the sex is amazing, but I really don't see him as a bf. I just miss us having fun together. What do I do? I'm afraid to ask him to do something for fear of him rejecting it.
Anyways, we were talking on the phone and I don't remember how it came up but he said we weren't really fuck buddies so what would I call us? I said well obviously we're friends with benefits because we're friends who like to have sex. He kinda agreed. I said after the sex has died, I would like us to always be friends and he agreed.
Since then, I've gone over his house the last three times and basically had sex most of the time. It's like he's turning me into a fuck buddy? And he texts me less and no more good morning texts. I'm SO confused. I really can't stress this enough, I honestly had/have no romantic feelings for him. I thought about it but I'm pretty practical and it just wouldn't work out. Like, he told me all about his exes and how he slept around in college. So much information that I just saw him as a friend. He's very sexy and the sex is amazing, but I really don't see him as a bf. I just miss us having fun together. What do I do? I'm afraid to ask him to do something for fear of him rejecting it.
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