Guys, is being feisty a good thing?

[Anonymous]

Ok, so I get called feisty by guy friends and some of my girl friends. My age is 22, don't really interact with many guys, but when I do and mess around with them they say I'm feisty.
Is that bad or what? what do you consider feisty?

[LoveLikeNovocaine]

You don't really interact with many guys and when you do, they call you fiesty. So, most likely, that's not the better type of fiesty... Probably because they don't want to call you hurtful names. Just my speculation. I might be wrong. There's a fine line between being a bish and being fiesty. So be careful. Being fiesty is often motivated by self preservation (natural self defense mechanism) while being a bish is motivated by hatred (or something along that line, like jealousy and envy) sometimes even hubris.

[Asker]

oh no i dont hate anyone.
im actually friendly.

[LoveLikeNovocaine]

Well... It's a little odd for someone to call you fiesty when you are friendly. What were you guys doing immediately before the guy called you Fiesty? There's a possibility that your reaction surprised him. Did you come up with a swift and good comeback at him perhaps?

[LoveLikeNovocaine]

Wow I've been spelling feisty wrong the whole time and was wondering why is my autocorrect keep changing the word to Fiesta. Lol

[LoveLikeNovocaine]

I'll give you the scenario where people use the word feisty. Imagine a cute kitten trying to smack away your hand and hiss at you when you touch him. One would say the kitten is feisty.

[Asker]

Hah it's ok and I tend to do comeback and they're surprised. Im not mean but they can get meh upset and I can act like the cat u said

[LoveLikeNovocaine]

Lol ok. So I guess they don't mean anything ill when they called u feisty.

[Notcarelessman]

hmmm.. it could be multiple emotions that your sending out to the guys that you spend time with. Feisty can be attractive to guys but not to many good men (if thats what you are going for). Feisty can be aggressive and show that you are possibly rude (depends on the sensitivity of the guy). Wish I could help more, can you give a certain occurrence?

[Asker]

Usually good guys are the ones I talk to. For example, they can say something that gets me upset and I talk back and have an argument. They look like thye enjoy the argument bcause they keep going at it. But I'm not mean.

[Rcjh1987]

Haha if it's a bad thing I'm in serious trouble!!!

[Asker]

hah lolz

[AllThatSweetJazz]

It could mean you're a little angry/aggressive while also playful. Or it could mean you're a lot angry/aggressive and not at all playful. Different people use word differently so I don't know which. So think, are you playful or do you have a lot of fight in you?

[wendigoRed]

In moderation. You gotta find the right balance. Anything more and a guy will leave out the backdoor on you if he has self respect

[LoveLikeNovocaine]

Or... he'll surprise her with a backdoor entry.

[Thewhitestdudeever]

Haha that just means you are playful like a kitty cat. I like it personally it's fun.

[TheYellowBear]

Feisty is fantastic. I find feistiness' in a girl to be a very sexy trait.

[mistninja314]

GOOD THING AND AN MAJOR TURN ON FOR ME LLOL

[Asker]

What do u consider feisty?

[mistninja314]

you know she has an non aggressive attitude but still has an up in your face type of personality.. isn't scared to smack you nor initiate wrestling in a playful manner ofc

[Asker]

Oh hah, smack lolz!
So nice but defends herslf?

[mistninja314]

she's kinda an alpha girl in a gentle way tho isn't scared to get touchy and aggressive with you

she also isn't scared to show her fangs when she disagrees with you

[Asker]

Hah oh ya that's sounds like meh

[mistninja314]

that shit turns me on so much when done right

[Asker]

How can u tell she is faking or being real?

[mistninja314]

can you tell when somone is faking a smile or putting up an facade

fiesty girls can't fake it tho either they are or aren't

they aren't hard to spot if you've seem them around like in school or work

[mistninja314]

if all else fails go mess with them lol and see how they reject

[Asker]

true thank you

[mistninja314]

your welcome <3

[Splintercell]

What is feisty? I never heard of that.

[Asker]

(person, typically one who is relatively small or weak) lively, determined, and courageous.

[Hajar_Whitestone]

what that mean?

[Asker]

(( person, typically one who is relatively small or weak) lively, determined, and courageous.)

[Hajar_Whitestone]

@Asker ohh look so cute and cool thing :v

[Anonymous]

You like to tease

[Asker]

im not teasing anyone

[Opinion Owner]

Feisty means, you tease

[Asker]

oh i see your point, but i dont do it for pleasure, they get me mad and i try to stand up for myself

[Opinion Owner]

Well, just be careful

[Asker]

i will thank u

[LoveLikeNovocaine]

Feisty doesn't mean teasing.

[Opinion Owner]

Of course it does