My crush never looks at my body?

[Anonymous]

It's not to complain, but, to understand the guy.

First, I have a crush on him and he seems to have a crush on me too (a lot of signs, sometimes obvious, but, it doesn't matter here). Everytime he sees me, he'll look directly at my face, my eyes. Never, I mean, I've never seen him looking at my body.
However, one day, I overheard him talking about me to his friends, as the 'hot' girl. How can I be hot to him, if I've never seen him looking elsewhere than my eyes?

He just only looks at my face and I've caught him observing me one time. We often stare, can't take our eyes off each other's eyes.

We have never talked, one day, one of his friends pushed him towards me but he went head down on this opposite side, didn't try anything.

Why does he only stare at my face/eyes?
Why did he say I'm hot, considering I've never seen him looking at my body?

[Crossroads-USMC]

Are you thin? Maybe you should where some short skirts. Do you own any stockings? Sheer black stockings, (classy, NO fishets), with big 2 or 3 inch bands - perfection. And, not only would I try to sneek a look, but if you wear em so there you can see a little thigh between the top of the stockings and below the skirt, I would be incapable of not looking. Try something like that. Wear a tight shirt, or very tight pants - like horse riding pants - so hot.

(But the skirt idea is a guarantee.)

[FDusty24]

He probably doesn't want to get caught so he will look I your away im sure, that's what most guys do. just don't worry about it, not all guys are pervs and just stare and womens bodies

[Asker]

Most of the ones who look at my body either get caught and look away or they stare.

He doesn't want me to catch him because he likes me? (i won't tell you the whole story because it's too long but he shows me all the signs)

[FDusty24]

I think that if you catch him then he knows that you know that he thinks you're attractive

[Asker]

Oh, and he would be embarassed, that's it?

[FDusty24]

ya deffinantly, I get embaressed when I look at a chick and she catches me lol but then she knows that she's got a good looking body

[tricegibbs]

You should be happy that he doesn't check out your body. He looks in your eyes, your face he thinks your beautiful. He likes you for you. Admire it while you can

[Asker]

Well, he can't really like me, since we have never talked but at least, I guess he respects me?

[Emiliaxo]

He just happens to check out your body when you are not watching otherwise he wouldn't call you the hot girl :)

[Asker]

Ok :) The thing is that I'm used to catch guys checking me out, but not the contrary x)

[Emiliaxo]

I know what you talking about. I guess he is just being nice and a 'gentleman' in a way :) its a good sign

[Asker]

Yeah, you're right, it's really nice from him since most of the guys haven't this behaviour toward me :)
thanks for answering

[Emiliaxo]

Definitely :)
No probelm! :)

[theCatcherintheRye]

He doesn't only see you as a body even if he notices it. It's a nice thing...

[Jordahn]

If you had eyes on the back of your head, you'd probably see him looking at your rear end. If he thinks your hot, he's obviously checking you out.

[Asker]

wow, he might be really discrete then...

[itscoolguy]

He has probably looked, you just have't caught him.

[Asker]

Aaah, he's a smart guy then, because I know it's hard to not be caught, most of the time I catch guys ;)

[WhiteRaven]

he looks at your body when you are not looking at him. simple

[Asker]

Well, he might look very quickly :D since I notice him really quickly and we make eye contact
Also, I've caught him looking at me, but he was watching my face as I was walking, and he looked away as soon as he get caught x)

[WhiteRaven]

Well there's this girl who caught my eye; she used to stare at me in class quite often, and i used to do the same. But once when she looked away, i looked at her body, her clothing, her hair... everything which i couldnt see when she looked at me, because when she does, my eyes are attracted to hers.

She stopped doing that though, ever since i talked to her and asked for her name. no idea why.

[Asker]

Your eyes were attracted to hers because she has beautiful eyes or because of that mysterious connection?
Have you try to flirt with her?

[WhiteRaven]

i guess both? I mean, i think she had a crush on me or something because in class, she would often turn around just to look at me, even when the prof would be talking. And we have like 4 similar classes out of 5-6.
Flirt as in?

[Asker]

Well, I mean, when you talked to her, were you clear about your interest in her? Or were you just friendly?

[WhiteRaven]

Well that's the thing; we werent able to talk much that time because of a midterm later that day, and she was like late in her studies. So, she didn't talk much. Thus, i wasn't able to really tell her about my intentions. But would that make her lost interest?

[Asker]

Well, you two had lot of eye contacts, it often - if not always - means an interest in each other.
She was busy, I can understand she didn't talk much, she had other things to think about. However was it the only time you talked?

[WhiteRaven]

Yeah. Talked to her on wednesday; didn't see her on thursday, then Friday she made as if she didn't know me. I don't know if i should try talking to her tmrw

[WhiteRaven]

But is there any reason why Not telling her about the intentions straight away could have made her change her mind on me?

[Asker]

Well, well, well...
What did you talk about, first?
Usually if I do as if I don't know someone, that's because I want to avoid them.
In her case, it's pretty weird since she showed interest...

[Asker]

If you tell her straight away, she might get scared.
This girl sounds complicated, I really wouldn't act like this with any guy, though I'm complicated x)

[WhiteRaven]

Well i asked for her name, she asked for mine.. she's the first one to have said "nice to meet you"; and we had a class early in the morning, but i dont recall seeing her (we both know we have the same class).. and the prof made an announcement, so i asked her if she was in class (many people werent on that day.. so it wasn't awkward to ask such a question).. she said no, then i told her of the announcement.

And i said good luck in her study for the midterm, and she said "thanks you too".
That's about it, since we were in class and the prof is bitchy when people talk (yes she was studying in class. but I heard she's really smart).

[AveronRoland]

Maybe you're so hot he's intimedated, and looking in your eyes and not your body is a gentleman thing

[Asker]

He also acts nicely, almost everyday, letting me go first to get out of the bus,
So it's his usual behaviour or he acts like this only with me?

[AveronRoland]

No he seems to really like you

[Asker]

We have a lot of eye contact and stares since a long timd but he hadn't make a move (me too). The only different thing that happen was when his friend pushed him towards me. But he reacted shy, head down and went on the opposite side.
Do you think I should smile to him next time we make eye contact or that would be weird?

[kittyd7015]

he's probably just shy and doesn't want u noticing hun :-) xxx

[Asker]

then it's a good thing, I guess
Does it mean he respects me?

[kittyd7015]

ye probaly :-) xxx

[Asker]

that's cool, thanks ;)

[Anonymous]

Is your body particularly hot?

[Asker]

well, I'm 5'5" for 116.6 pounds, 32C. I'm slim but I have hips and all. Why?

[Opinion Owner]

Then it is odd that he doesn't check out your body more. Maybe he's just been subtle.

[Asker]

Surely subtle ;)

[Opinion Owner]

Ha! I'll bet he's dying to get a better look! XD

[Asker]

Hahaha ;D why would he be dying?
He can at least, look at my butt since I often have to walk in front of him to go home x)

[Opinion Owner]

Well, I'm sure he'd like a chance to play with you a bit more! XD

[Asker]

Ha, really? :D and how?