Would all guys cheat if given the chance?

Question

As the question would u cheat?

thenecessaryevil · Accepted Answer

Its about conscience, love, and repercussion. If there is no reprecussion, there is lack of love, or they have little or no conscience then yes absolutely. (Male or female). No one is a saint and everyone obstacles, moments, and situations can change even the best and loyal person into a cheater.

The difference lies in not putting yourself in that position, the conscience to stop the situation, and the love of your significant other/spouse to put your foot down and make the right choice.

Women and men are all capable of this choice, men and women both have urges and desires. The idea that only men have to resist an urge to cheat is laughable in itself.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I would never cheat on my boyfriend or husband if I had one. It's just wrong to do. If you find someone else you like break up with the other one to date the other person. Which that is another thing I wouldn't do because you don't just randomly do that. It could turn out that the person you liked isn't a great person. Then what do you do next? Break up with them? Yes but after that what do you do? Go back with the person the you were with in the beginning?

proudtexasgirl · Accepted Answer

I think it just depends on the guy and the relationship he's in. I think some guys will cheat regardless, some would only cheat if given a perfect opportunity, some would think about it but never actually do it, and some would never even let it cross their mind.

chocolatedragon · Accepted Answer

You phrased this poorly.

A better question would have been:
"Would men cheat with a woman of their dreams if there would be no repercussion?"

I don't know, but if you lock me in a room with a horny Shabelle, I'd probably hit that and just move on guilt free.

Now don't get me wrong, some guys have really good relationships and don't give in easily to temptations, but there are still a bunch of guys saying no just to be a good guy.

Aldutery is a serious problem and a cause of many divorces. Clearly somebody is lying lol...

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

and No.

Look, it's not that hard to cheat on a girl and not get caught. You all aren't that clever. It just takes a little bit of planning. But cheaters are opportunists, for the most part, don't plan, and hence get caught.

The vast majority of men do not cheat, not because they would get caught, but because they don't want to cheat on their partner. If you can't understand that, you have an utterly warped view of men.

joep96 · Answer

Absolutely not, if you cheat you're either a piece of shit who needs to be honest and straight forward and just break up with the person, be single and be a bachelor, or be polyamorous, so again be honest and not a pile of shit. I've been cheated on and played multiple times, there is no point in it, if you wanna break up with that person then just do it, it's better to be open with that person and have them understand now rather than make it even harder on them later, they're eventually going to find out.

Tdieseler · Answer

Its obvious females are more committed than males but you brought in an extra factor... the word "Cheat". People have Very different definitions of that. Im going to assume you mean sex with another female.. to be honest, my answer is NO. A lot of guys will not give up good sex with their current partner just for a one night fling. If they are being satisfied in all ways, they don't need anyone else. Now if the person they are with isn't doing "the job" right, yea... yea.. we'll reach out a little. So, its up to you.. ma'am.
NB: its usually not just sex that drives men away, but we will put up with whatever goes on outside the bedroom, just because we anticipate what goes on Inside the bedroom (if its good).

DrJohnSolo · Answer

Thats a hell no on my part! It's a very ugly stereotype that ALL men are just sex-driven-horn-dogs that hump anything that doesn't move too fast to catch! I have only had sex with two girls and we dated for about eight months before we did anything. I have had offers from pretty girls that I've said hell no to and I wasn't even dating people at the time. I just believe it is an intimate thing meant to be shared between two people. I wish I could have stayed with my first, but she fooled around with a girl at a party which, in my opinion, is just the same as fooling around with a guy. Love is love, If you do it with anyone other that your partner you didn't love the first one to begin with

Anonymous · Answer

No but is the temptation there? Yes, a very resounding yes, an EXTREMELY resounding yes. Hypothetically speaking, let's suppose a 8+ girl was laying on my bed with her legs open asking me to have sex with her. Holy shit the amount of restraint I would need is like astronomical. EVERY single cell in my body is programmed to say YES YES YES but my conscious says NO. Ultimately I don't think I could do it, I'm very passionate when I have sex. I fully concentrate on the girl and I'm not selfish enough to be able to block out the images of my girlfriend. Some people can easily block out images like that and just enjoy themselves, I don't think I could do it

Anonymous · Answer

I'm glad you included a "If my partner won't find out" option. At the end of the day, if the scenario was changed somewhat so that the man (or the girl for that matter, you wee sexists) was told beforehand, by some god-like force, that his/her actions would have ZERO consequences, then I think this poll would go very differently if everyone were totally honest.

And I mean literally ZERO consequences: completely untraceable, never see the seducer again, no guilt. No paranoia, depression or discomfort of any kind experienced by partner who was cheated on. Your love for your partner and/or your lack of love for the seducer wouldn't even enter into the equation; it's just an act of fun, handed to you for free.

Under those circumstances, I think everybody would. It's fear of consequences that prevents affairs, not some innate, positive force like love or nobility.

Anonymous · Answer

I think just as many women cheat as men. The idea that it's mostly guys just doesn't pan out. I'm only saying this based on what I've seen out in the world and I don't believe there is much of a difference. Even in the ladies room girls are gossiping about guys they're screwing. They're not as blatant as the guys, they're more subtle.

Red_Arrow · Answer

Twenty years in the Navy, away from my wife for extended lengths of time. NEVER cheated. Never wanted to. So, no, not all guys would cheat. I did observe that what appeared to be a majority of my shipmates that were married did cheat, and quite often.

kairon156 · Answer

no, no, no, and no. views some women have on this site about guys is quite sexist.

kambo_trick3y · Answer

All guys DO have the chance to cheat if they want to. Do you see them all doing it? No.

yaddayaddayadda02 · Answer

Other than "all men must die", there's not much that ALL men do.

babygirl41398 · Answer

It all depends on the guy i know that sounds stupid but it's the truth if the guy really loves you and is committed to you he won't cheat but some men just have no control to be with just one woman

makethemhurt · Answer

Given today's attitude about things I would say that most would if they thought they would get away with it.
For this reason is what I try and make my boyfriends time spent with me all he wants to think about. This keeps the reins tight and keeps him from straying. I know that he looks and that is ok as long as I am the one he looks at the most and doesn't stray. A pure relationship is one I want as I think most girls want also.

kedslover · Answer

guys cheat when their woman fails to meet his needs and desires. it's as simple as that. if she bitches all the time, guys will look for a way out. if she holds out on sex and treating him as her only lover, he will look for a way out. if she continues to put him down and refuses to help him, he will look for a way out. cheating is his way out.

evenlift · Answer

Certainly not all guys. Probably not even a majority of guys.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't think all men cheat but the ones that do cheat are probably a rare few. But I don't want to be with a guy because he does not cheat I want to be with a guy who loves me and loves me back and who is loyal. I shouldn't have to hope a guy im in a relationship with does not cheat on me because I think that not cheating on me is what comes with dating a loyal guy who loves you. Unfortunately I have yet to meet a man who is worthy of being in a relationship with me

Dionysos · Answer

I've been offered the chance. I wouldn't want to be cheated on so I won't cheat. If I decide I want a different girl I'll let my current woman know by leaving and then being with the other girl. I'd like to hope that she would do me the same courtesy.

JCivil007 · Answer

i have too much pride and self respect to cheat if i were in a situation and it involve me and a smocking hot babe and i was in a horrible relationship that know i can't fix i would call my current and tell her "sorry I'm never comin' home I'ma stay for good Then hang the phone up, and proceed to lay the wood" J. cole
But if im in relationship i believe in I wouldn't do it

AngeVashes · Answer

According to cosmo.
2% of women said they wouldn't cheat, 5% cheated.
5% of men said they would cheat, and 3% cheated.
With their current partners.
A previous article said 90% of women said no when asked if they would cheat, and 46% of those women have admitted to cheating before.

Red_Dragon · Answer

Nah I wouldn't. If we are in a exclusive relationship then heck no. I don't have a insanely high sex drive. I mean I guess that's doesn't negate me cheating, but nah I don't think I'd do that. There's no point. If I want more than one girl then I wouldn't get in a exclusive relationship with one chick or I'd tell the exclusive one that I want to change the relationship.

joeclem111 · Answer

Depends on your style of sex. If you never use rubber and you swap body fluids, you MUST both be faithful or you risk the obvious and how can you trust a human, the most dishonest and devious animal on this earth. I gave up trusting people a LONG time back.

RedThread · Answer

Everybody has the opportunity to cheat. Still there are good people who value that connection with the person they care about over having a quick fuck and duck. I vote B.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't think every guy would. Some, sure. Many guys are against it and sadly many are ok with it.

I hope my man never feels the need to cheat on me though. I will try to give him everything he needs to be happy with me and I hope he would do the same for me.

Amagi82 · Answer

I'm polyamorous. I can sleep with whomever I want provided I introduce them to my current partners and get tested first.

Anonymous · Answer

If it was simply that my girlfriend wouldn't find out, then no. It makes me feel sick just thinking of her with another guy, so I would never want to make her feel that way. If my girlfriend gave me a free pass for a night and I knew she was truly fine with it then maybe.

Marstalk · Answer

Why the generalizations? Why not ask if you guys would cheat if given the opportunity? What would happen if I said would all wives cheat if given the opportunity? Honestly the way you phrased your question was to reinforce your perceived idea of men and cheating.

Some guys cheat some do not. Some cheat only once and never again.

Would I cheat if given the chance? In my current metal state no. In a non mentally stable state the chance is high, very high.

Anonymous · Answer

sometimes i cheat... ... when i'm really stuck at some level in a video-game :-P

Anonymous · Answer

Had the chance last night didn't take it. Love my girl.

kstarholland · Answer

not all guys but most guys would. my ex tried to cheat on me with my best friends. she told me the minute she found out and I broke up with him... he still doesn't know why

Thrifty · Answer

Okay there is a difference between cheating if given the change and having sex with a girl if given the chance.

Cheating on a girl given the chance probability rate: .001% if not attracted to her, 2% if attracted to her
Having sex with a girl given the chance probability rate: 50% if not attracted to her, 99% if attracted to her

GreenTiger · Answer

Um yeah, I don't want to get caught if I have something great going on, but yeah, I'd probably have sex with another girl if she's attractive enough. I'm a guy and I try to be with as many different kinds of girls to spread my seed and feed my sexuality. If I can do it without being caught, then most definitely. Every man thinks this way. If he didn't then he isn't a man anyway but a delusional chode.

HandsomeRaj · Answer

Not all guys will cheat sexually if and when given an opportunity. The chances though are higher if given the chance. That's how nature's made both the genders immaterial of race or religion or creed :-)

Vote 'B'

Anonymous · Answer

even though on this site by far most guys voted no i dont think it is like that in real life! i dont know why, but i associate cheaters with a certain type of person and i just can't imagine those persons using gag. otherwise there would be much more votes for yes

GoldenSunshine · Answer

I'm a girl, but even I know that far from every guy would cheat

Ensiferum · Answer

There was literally the same question 2 days ago :/

AustinMan · Answer

Anytime I see the word all in a question, the answer is automatically no. There is nothing true about all men but that they are in some way male.

MarkyyG123 · Answer

NO.  I have had the oppuntunity but would never take it, not now. Not ever. I love HER tooooo much! Always will!!!

le_guy · Answer

Guess you found some bad eggs and think thr whole basket is rotten. Just because some girls cannot make a wise choice, they start generalising men. Same goes to men. If you think all men chest please pick a girl and be happy

allwood · Answer

Real men don't cheat.  I have never cheated even when the opportunity has been available.

Applefan1 · Answer

NO, no and no! There are guys that will and guys that don't just like there are women that will if they are given the chance and women that won't. You can't generalise a whole group of people like that.

Migithethug · Answer

I mean it's mostly because they aren't happy with their current relationship and they want something more. It is also possible that they are really horny and need two people to satisfy them. It really depends on the guy

Lonelywolf21 · Answer

Never, never, never. I have absolutely no reason to do it. If I am about to do it, then I have no right to be in a relationship with that girl. Because then I apparently don't know the definition of love and relationship. ^^

chiva2006 · Answer

I would say no, but all guys, and I mean every single guy, would think about it if given the chance, some would choose yes, other no. It's simple as that.

famouslyunknown · Answer

I don't think so. I know a bunch that wouldn't cheat, although most of them are older. The younger guys are still not totally settled down yet, so ya never know.

rolypolio · Answer

I love the three guys who said "im a girl" in the poll.

docmeister · Answer

if the guy met the right girl there is no need to cheat

Anonymous · Answer

Oops, I meant to click "I'm a girl," but I accidentally hit "If my partner won't find out." I would never cheat on my partner!

jahsangue_1 · Answer

If you're an actual gent and a MAN.. then you wouldn't screw around with other women because you as a man have chosen your girl so if you want to be like an animal then why not just end the relationship you are in... just saying my point of view SLS

DivaPrincess · Answer

I think they would the dick is more powerful than the brain

Cirozôn · Answer

Maybe not all but most of them would  U can never be sure  If it's true love then absolutely not

StefanieC · Answer

I think all men cheat and it's disgusting that they can't be devoted to one woman. Especially if that woman is devoted to them.

Diego9O · Answer

There is always the chance to cheat on someone and there are many reasons that can lead you to that. I cheated on my girlfriend, the relation was going pretty bad before I did.

Maxemeister · Answer

I am perhaps the luckiest man on earth to have found my girlfriend. She is happy to satisfy me on a regular basis. If I were to screw that up I would hate myself forever.

6Paul11 · Answer

Well, in a way all guys have a chance to cheat. Every day the vast majority choose not to. There's your answer.

coolbreeze · Answer

Not all guys are the same. And each guy has different morals and values. I don't think most guys would cheat even if they could get away with it.

TheBigBoy · Answer

No I've had friends that were cheated on and I've known girls that were and know how devastating it can be its fucking wrong as hell because it doesn't affect him or her for a little bit but forever because theybmay not trust anyone a lot again

Breezeslip · Answer

Sex is far less important than a bond between two people.

Theguyoverthere · Answer

All men? No. Many guys wouldn't have the conscience to do so.

Dalelee · Answer

Naaa cheating isn't my thing once I'm with someone I stay loyal plus I'd get killed off my gf if she found out I cheated

1-3-2-4 · Answer

Not at all I'm the last few that are faithful however women these days always assume you are faking it

stevieG1234 · Answer

What would be the point of being in a relationship is thats the case

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