Would all guys cheat if given the chance?

[queendevi]

As the question would u cheat?

yes

no

If my partner won't find out

I'm a girl

Updates

+1 y

I have no opinions about it I just want to know
I'm not sexist u see

[thenecessaryevil]

Its about conscience, love, and repercussion. If there is no reprecussion, there is lack of love, or they have little or no conscience then yes absolutely. (Male or female). No one is a saint and everyone obstacles, moments, and situations can change even the best and loyal person into a cheater.

The difference lies in not putting yourself in that position, the conscience to stop the situation, and the love of your significant other/spouse to put your foot down and make the right choice.

Women and men are all capable of this choice, men and women both have urges and desires. The idea that only men have to resist an urge to cheat is laughable in itself.

[jennifer8]

I agree we are ALL capable of falling, even in a loving relationship. Our predjudices seem to be weighted against the guys but I've seen different types of behavior in the real world and I don't think either sex has a monopoly on fidelity. It's not always cut and dry. There are circumstances that bring out in people what they may not ordinarily show. These behaviors may be sexual or not. I think there is a difference between an affair and just fucking someone. It's hard to justify either one, but there is a difference.

[Anonymous]

I would never cheat on my boyfriend or husband if I had one. It's just wrong to do. If you find someone else you like break up with the other one to date the other person. Which that is another thing I wouldn't do because you don't just randomly do that. It could turn out that the person you liked isn't a great person. Then what do you do next? Break up with them? Yes but after that what do you do? Go back with the person the you were with in the beginning?

[proudtexasgirl]

I think it just depends on the guy and the relationship he's in. I think some guys will cheat regardless, some would only cheat if given a perfect opportunity, some would think about it but never actually do it, and some would never even let it cross their mind.

[Arash0098]

Perfect!

[chocolatedragon]

You phrased this poorly.

A better question would have been:
"Would men cheat with a woman of their dreams if there would be no repercussion?"

I don't know, but if you lock me in a room with a horny Shabelle, I'd probably hit that and just move on guilt free.

Now don't get me wrong, some guys have really good relationships and don't give in easily to temptations, but there are still a bunch of guys saying no just to be a good guy.

Aldutery is a serious problem and a cause of many divorces. Clearly somebody is lying lol...

[Anonymous]

and No.

Look, it's not that hard to cheat on a girl and not get caught. You all aren't that clever. It just takes a little bit of planning. But cheaters are opportunists, for the most part, don't plan, and hence get caught.

The vast majority of men do not cheat, not because they would get caught, but because they don't want to cheat on their partner. If you can't understand that, you have an utterly warped view of men.

[queendevi]

Ok I asked the question bcz a guy friend of mine said so
n I thought I'd like to know from men n not b insecure
thanks for being so rude n calling us dumb though

[Opinion Owner]

Hey, Miss overly-sensitive... where EXACTLY in my answer did I say you were dumb?

Stop reading shit that isn't there. Because that IS dumb behaviour.

[queendevi]

U all aren't that clever = girls r dumb
just a twisted way of saying it

[Opinion Owner]

That's reading things that aren't there.

You all aren't that clever, means just exactly what it said. Girls are not so clever that they are all impossible to fool, and hence all cheaters get caught first time out.

You're not doing yourself any favours though when people have to spell it out for you so simply, in order for you to avoid taking offence.

[queendevi]

Ok I think ur frustrated with ur life I'm gonna stop responding

[joep96]

Absolutely not, if you cheat you're either a piece of shit who needs to be honest and straight forward and just break up with the person, be single and be a bachelor, or be polyamorous, so again be honest and not a pile of shit. I've been cheated on and played multiple times, there is no point in it, if you wanna break up with that person then just do it, it's better to be open with that person and have them understand now rather than make it even harder on them later, they're eventually going to find out.

[Janett21]

I feel really sad about it that you have been cheated on. and Im really glad to hear that this haven't changed YOUR behaviour being loyal :) I agree with you cheating doesn't make sense if you dont find your partner attractive then go find another.. and also I think that if you are really loving someone you dont cheat on him.. thats my view :)

[Tdieseler]

Its obvious females are more committed than males but you brought in an extra factor... the word "Cheat". People have Very different definitions of that. Im going to assume you mean sex with another female.. to be honest, my answer is NO. A lot of guys will not give up good sex with their current partner just for a one night fling. If they are being satisfied in all ways, they don't need anyone else. Now if the person they are with isn't doing "the job" right, yea... yea.. we'll reach out a little. So, its up to you.. ma'am.
NB: its usually not just sex that drives men away, but we will put up with whatever goes on outside the bedroom, just because we anticipate what goes on Inside the bedroom (if its good).

[DrJohnSolo]

Thats a hell no on my part! It's a very ugly stereotype that ALL men are just sex-driven-horn-dogs that hump anything that doesn't move too fast to catch! I have only had sex with two girls and we dated for about eight months before we did anything. I have had offers from pretty girls that I've said hell no to and I wasn't even dating people at the time. I just believe it is an intimate thing meant to be shared between two people. I wish I could have stayed with my first, but she fooled around with a girl at a party which, in my opinion, is just the same as fooling around with a guy. Love is love, If you do it with anyone other that your partner you didn't love the first one to begin with

[Anonymous]

No but is the temptation there? Yes, a very resounding yes, an EXTREMELY resounding yes. Hypothetically speaking, let's suppose a 8+ girl was laying on my bed with her legs open asking me to have sex with her. Holy shit the amount of restraint I would need is like astronomical. EVERY single cell in my body is programmed to say YES YES YES but my conscious says NO. Ultimately I don't think I could do it, I'm very passionate when I have sex. I fully concentrate on the girl and I'm not selfish enough to be able to block out the images of my girlfriend. Some people can easily block out images like that and just enjoy themselves, I don't think I could do it

[Anonymous]

I'm glad you included a "If my partner won't find out" option. At the end of the day, if the scenario was changed somewhat so that the man (or the girl for that matter, you wee sexists) was told beforehand, by some god-like force, that his/her actions would have ZERO consequences, then I think this poll would go very differently if everyone were totally honest.

And I mean literally ZERO consequences: completely untraceable, never see the seducer again, no guilt. No paranoia, depression or discomfort of any kind experienced by partner who was cheated on. Your love for your partner and/or your lack of love for the seducer wouldn't even enter into the equation; it's just an act of fun, handed to you for free.

Under those circumstances, I think everybody would. It's fear of consequences that prevents affairs, not some innate, positive force like love or nobility.

[kairon156]

no, no, no, and no. views some women have on this site about guys is quite sexist.

[kairon156]

It's good that you aren't sexist. It get's quite hard being a man when views many people have of us are so low.

[kambo_trick3y]

All guys DO have the chance to cheat if they want to.

Do you see them all doing it?

No.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Other than "all men must die", there's not much that ALL men do.

[babygirl41398]

It all depends on the guy i know that sounds stupid but it's the truth if the guy really loves you and is committed to you he won't cheat but some men just have no control to be with just one woman

[Red_Arrow]

Twenty years in the Navy, away from my wife for extended lengths of time. NEVER cheated. Never wanted to. So, no, not all guys would cheat. I did observe that what appeared to be a majority of my shipmates that were married did cheat, and quite often.

[Anonymous]

I think just as many women cheat as men. The idea that it's mostly guys just doesn't pan out. I'm only saying this based on what I've seen out in the world and I don't believe there is much of a difference. Even in the ladies room girls are gossiping about guys they're screwing. They're not as blatant as the guys, they're more subtle.

[makethemhurt]

Given today's attitude about things I would say that most would if they thought they would get away with it.
For this reason is what I try and make my boyfriends time spent with me all he wants to think about. This keeps the reins tight and keeps him from straying. I know that he looks and that is ok as long as I am the one he looks at the most and doesn't stray. A pure relationship is one I want as I think most girls want also.

[kedslover]

guys cheat when their woman fails to meet his needs and desires. it's as simple as that. if she bitches all the time, guys will look for a way out. if she holds out on sex and treating him as her only lover, he will look for a way out. if she continues to put him down and refuses to help him, he will look for a way out. cheating is his way out.

[evenlift]

Certainly not all guys. Probably not even a majority of guys.

[Anonymous]

I don't think all men cheat but the ones that do cheat are probably a rare few. But I don't want to be with a guy because he does not cheat I want to be with a guy who loves me and loves me back and who is loyal. I shouldn't have to hope a guy im in a relationship with does not cheat on me because I think that not cheating on me is what comes with dating a loyal guy who loves you. Unfortunately I have yet to meet a man who is worthy of being in a relationship with me

[Dionysos]

I've been offered the chance. I wouldn't want to be cheated on so I won't cheat. If I decide I want a different girl I'll let my current woman know by leaving and then being with the other girl. I'd like to hope that she would do me the same courtesy.

[JCivil007]

i have too much pride and self respect to cheat if i were in a situation and it involve me and a smocking hot babe and i was in a horrible relationship that know i can't fix i would call my current and tell her "sorry I'm never comin' home I'ma stay for good Then hang the phone up, and proceed to lay the wood" J. cole
But if im in relationship i believe in I wouldn't do it

[AngeVashes]

According to cosmo.
2% of women said they wouldn't cheat, 5% cheated.
5% of men said they would cheat, and 3% cheated.
With their current partners.
A previous article said 90% of women said no when asked if they would cheat, and 46% of those women have admitted to cheating before.

[Red_Dragon]

Nah I wouldn't. If we are in a exclusive relationship then heck no. I don't have a insanely high sex drive. I mean I guess that's doesn't negate me cheating, but nah I don't think I'd do that. There's no point. If I want more than one girl then I wouldn't get in a exclusive relationship with one chick or I'd tell the exclusive one that I want to change the relationship.

[joeclem111]

Depends on your style of sex. If you never use rubber and you swap body fluids, you MUST both be faithful or you risk the obvious and how can you trust a human, the most dishonest and devious animal on this earth. I gave up trusting people a LONG time back.