Yeah, us guys generally say what we mean. If we aren't saying what we mean, we're probably doing it subconsciously. Personally, on a conscious level, I'm spending ZERO time playing games. To me, not saying what you mean is playing games and unnecessary drama. One the number one things women do that irks me are "tests." Don't test me. Ask for or tell me exactly what you want. Don't say one thing and get mad because I don't respond in another way. Don't do stuff to see how I'll react. Tell me what the problem is, we'll talk about it, and then come to an agreement. Logic rules in the male mind.
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For me it depends on what the Issue is. When I say it though I 100% mean it. I'll only say it if I need to
He needs some space to cool down and get his brain/emotions on even keel
THEN you figure out how angry = time span needed for this space
before you go to him to offer comfort and understanding... DO NOT rekindle that fire/argument... any "sorries" you expect from him will take much longer & only after he accepts your comfort, begins to heal
If I was mad and the person did not leave me alone. I honestly would get more vexed.
Sweetie, sweetie, sweetie... you're 38. Please tell us you are joking.
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img-9gag-ftw.9cache.com/photo/4278997_460s_v1.jpgmmm when i say that to people i usually mean it like 90% of the time, the other 10% im hoping they might apologize deeply and keep trying to calm me down but it never gets to that point because i say my piece as im walking away. go with your gut
A day... and the next time you see him he will apologize to you!
Yes. I know for me if I say leave me alone, I mean exactly that. I need time to cool down. Talking to me after that makes me more pissed off
When I'm angry I do like to be left alone until I calm down. After things are calmer, I don't mind having company.
Leave him alone, let him come back.
I hate having to say that to people, it makes me feel like a jerk but often I've been pushed to it.Im sure he will come back around, just leave him be for now. Thats the only way to know if he truly cares about you
May be coz of anger he said that... See his anger n talk with him depending on his anger... If he really cares u he will come again.. If he used u.. He will fly away from u..
I get it people have to listen to how you are saying it like if your upset you want him to comfort you and if your annoyed you want him to go away
Yes if he says that give him some space. Learn to read his moods and know when to come back.
He will let you know when he is ok I promise you that.It does depend, if I'm really angry it's best to leave me be. If I'm just a little mad I like when a girl does that.
What else does he mean? You're smoothering him too much.
In my experience yes give him some room.
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