Why does my ex bf keep sending me random text?

[Myah_15]

Ok so me and my ex were good friends before we started dating. We were together for a month in a half before we broke up. The breakup was over something really stupid. One might he text me and said hey and I responded "I'm tired I'm going to bed" and he said "oh we'll u messed up I guess I'll just call this other girl I'm so serious" I didn't respond because I was confused on why he was saying that. All I said was I was going to bed.

The next day I asked him why he said that and he said that he didn't need to explain himself. I thought he was really stupid and childish so I asked him if he wanted to breakup and he said yes which was fine with me because I didn't want to be with him anymore.

Then 5 minutes later he text me and said "so hi friend" I was really confused so I responded and said "what" then he said "we not dating anymore so hi friend" I told him I wasn't in the mood to talk and he said something really weird. He said "oh well I guess we can't be friends so bye"

3 days later he text me and sent me a thumbs up emoji. I asked him why he sent me that but he never replied. Then just this morning he text me something random and said "oh ok" I didn't respond because I thought that was meant for someone else. He blocked me on Facebook which was really childish but for some reason I'm still a contact on his kik list because he keeps randomly txting me and I don't know why. I would ask him why but he's not the mature type to have this kind of conversation with so can someone please help me. I really think something is wrong with him but I need someone to help me figure this out.

[Keira2002]

He probably still likes you and misses you. I am 31 and that is my experience talking. You should definitely play it cool if you want to get back together at some point. Don't always be too available to talk and try to always act cheerful. If you want to be friends just be honest and say "hey I'm not the kind of person who just drops people from my life for no good reason so if you want to be friends, I'm up for that. If not thats ok too because I know these situations can be weird-up to you" Just play it cool, girl. Being mature and confident ALWAYS wins out and makes you look really attractive.

[Anonymous]

I believe that your ex still like you. At times when people get into a relationship one might not be ready. He seems to be childish and confused. Above all I think he doesn't want to lose the friendship you all shared before the relationship. So I would suggest friendly conversations and I believe after some time has passed he will tell you his feelings about you.

[Myah_15]

Thanks and I hope your right because we were actually really good friends. It seemed like we were better friends than lovers so I don't know. I want to text him to see if he wants to be friends again but like I said he's childish and he might just take it as me being desperate and laugh or something so I'm kind of hesitant.

[Maerinaekaeri]

He still loves you. he sounds really immature but overall I think he probably just wants to keep your friendship. its up to you if you still want to be friends or not but just make sure he doesn't become ignorant of how you feel about him and make sure he doesn't do anything weird like stare at you or stalk you.

[Anonymous]

He Still Likes You!
He Is Acting That Way Because He Is Having A Hard Time Reading You And What You Want.
So To Avoid Getting Hurt He Acts Like A Jerk, And Feels Bad Afterwards.
He Does Not Know What To Say, So He Is Hoping You Feel The Same And Will Open The Lines Of Communication.
Be The Bigger Person And Talk To Him, You Started Dating For A Reason, Don't End It Over Something Stupid That Can Be Easily Resolved..

[Myah_15]

I would but he's immature. He never wants to talk about anything serious like this. I don't even care anymore tbh so it doesn't mter to me if we end up talking again or not.

[ThyDoctor]

It's neglet, soon it will turn into hate. Then he`ll pretend to forget about you so he won't end up hating himself. He sounds like a child, it was his choice anyways. He probably wanted to see how would you react, since you reacted very quickly to break up, he probably felt that you never liked him.

[GuitarLordKarl]

To me he just seem really childish and feels like you've hurt him even though you have not. Like he wants revenge on you for nothing. Or maybe he still likes you and are trying to get your attention.

[Myah_15]

I agree but it's whatever... I've moved on already 👌👌😊

[GuitarLordKarl]

That's good to hear😄

[Myah_15]

He also "accidentally" said my name when we were in class and his excuse was he meant to call this other girl who was sitting next to me so Yea I agree that he definitely wants my attention

[Anonymous]

He still wants to fuck you. It's that simple woman, don't overthink it. He doesn't want to have any other relationship with you. And you're doing something that makes him think that he can get into your pants if he tries hard enough. I suggest you block him or fuck him.

[Myah_15]

Umm ur so wrong because I'm a virgin and me and him have never had sex. I made it clear to him before we dated that I didn't want sex so that's not why he keeps txting me.

[Opinion Owner]

well then he wants to take your virginity!

[Myah_15]

No I just think your being an asshole. I think he just misses me but if you think that then whatever I don't really care.

[Opinion Owner]

If he gets the idea that there's NO WAY that he can fuck you, he will stop contacting you. You can take it to the bank.

[Myah_15]

Lmao nah but whatever

[Opinion Owner]

Okay, don't take my word for it. Try it for yourself and see what happens.

[Theshaft169]

He really missed tapping that ass. Wants more. I bet he loves it so much he's willing to keep you exclusively. Good luck.

[Myah_15]

Ur the second dumb as a to say that... me and him never had sex so ur opinion is useless 😑😑

[Myah_15]

Dumbass*

[Theshaft169]

Then he wants to take your virginity you stupid ignorant nig

[Myah_15]

Right I'm the stupid ignorant one 😂😂 ok

[Toast555]

Because he's a clown. I've never contacted my exes I completely disappear and get other girl there's so many women out there and pussy is abundant. I never understood why guys sweat one girl

[creative_hairdresser]

so u obviously have never been in love!! my boyfriend chased me down the street naked to stop me leaving and he was crying lol it was pretty funny i couldn't stay mad at him i just laughed

[Myah_15]

Lmao ur boyfriend a feen 😂😂😂. I would have broken up with him just for crying

[Toast555]

Like I said he's a clown. He humiliated. Himself. I don think humiliating yourself is necessary for love

[Myah_15]

I agree

[mcmorrowro]

your ex bf is sending you random texts because of one of two reason... the first being he still likes you and is trying to give you a hint. The second being that he is trying to get back at you for something you did

[Sheloveshim_]

He definitely is starting to really miss you, & of course he likes you.

[dieselanddearhunting]

He is trying make you jealous and regret the break up.

[Kshppatel]

Lol at teenage relationships. I say just focus on your friends and school.

[mistyrose08]

Sounds like he is childish and hot headed, doesn't know what he wants. I would just ignore him for a while til he gets the hint your sick of his mind games

[joey3tearz]

He still likes you and he's extremely jealous

[planetnumb]

He seems to still have a soft corner for you.

[themagijudal]

Well you guys a children!!

[Myah_15]

Lol he's the child.

[themagijudal]

You are 15 so you are still a child.

[themagijudal]

If your not a child and you not adult then what r u?

[Myah_15]

I consider myself to be a mature young lady

[themagijudal]

Yet you are bitching about a ex boyfriend. If you was real mature then you wouldn't have posted this and then say the shit u said to the comments

[Myah_15]

Umm obviously I posted it because I was curious to know what was up with him... there are girls 25 and up that ask the same questions on here so I don't see ur point.. isn't that the reason for this website to ask questions 😕😕

[themagijudal]

No one can know what's up with him but him. Its also immature of them to post things like this

[Myah_15]

Lmao Yea ok

[themagijudal]

That right there is a childish response

[Myah_15]

Right. But ur older than me and ur arguing with me over maturity. So I guess I'll be the "mature bigger person" and end this little "immature" conversation 😊✌✌

[Virulent]

Because he's young.

[Myah_15]

What do you mean exactly

[Virulent]

Exactly that. Young people do silly things and play games that only they understand. They think poorly in general esp. about emotional matters.