Why do girls think they have it harder than guys when it comes to love, dating, and relationships?

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Why do girls complain a lot, whine, and think that they have it harder than guys do when it comes to love, dating, and relationships, boyfriend/girlfriend, etc.? Seriously, more girls should realize that they have it so much easier than many guys, because it's easier for a girl to get a date and boyfriend than it is for a guy to get a date and girlfriend. Girls do not have to step out of their comfort zone and they can get a date or a boyfriend without having to overcome shyness, however, guys can't do the same thing, us guys have to do work in order to get anything from a girl. A girl is automatically accepted by society as a girl; whereas guys have to prove themselves at every turn. A shy girl WILL get asked out without having to over come it. Guys have to work more on themselves than girls do. Guys must have confidence, real self confidence, that is not based solely on how they look, but rather understanding and acknowledging their self worth in order to approach. Building up this type of confidence takes time and understanding.

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Whats interesting is that girls don't have to put even half the effort compared to guys and they have every possible advantage in the singles life, and dating and relationships, and yet they still believe that they have it harder than guys do.
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I know it's tradition and been that way for a very long time, for centuries, for the guy to make the first move and doing the pursuing and chasing, but not every guy is born a Casanova or ladies-man.
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In a way, love just comes to girls, us guys have to fight tooth and nail for it, and nice always just about all the time always finish last, I hate how girls say that is not true and that they love nice innocent guys, but they never give them a chance.
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Since all girls have to do is wait, waiting around is better than getting rejected all the time.
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So why do girls think they have it harder?
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all girls have to do is say Yes or No, all they have to do is approve of the date and relationship, they have the final say for everything, c'mon, more girls should realize that they have it easier.
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I FUCKIN' HATE HOW GIRLS SAY IT'S HARDER FOR THEM SINCE THEY HAVE TO WAIT, WELL WAITING IS BETTER THAN BEING REJECTED AND GETTING TEASED AND LEAD ON, girls always have the final say before anything, that's why they have it easier!
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I seriously wish I was a girl sometimes, I hate being a guy.
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Girls can have any guy that approaches them, but guys can't have every girl that they approach, girls always get to do the choosing, so that's why they have it easier.
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us guys need to watch our weight as much as you girls do, anyone who is fat or on the chubby side, of either gender has it harder, gaining muscle is harder than losing weight.
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As long as a girl is cute, has a pretty face or nice body, etc. That's all she needs to attract a guy, whether it is for a hook-up, one-night stand, or for dating, an actual relationship.
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for guys it always or usually comes down to their money, or social skills, confidence, attitude, conversation skills, body language, the way they walk, the words that come out of their mouth.
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If a girl is hot, cute, or good-looking, that's all she needs to attract a guy, she doesn't have to work herself up more, however, us guys have to work on themselves more than girls do, both looks-wise and mentality-wise.
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One girl told me this, she said "Girls are Takers", well she nailed it!
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Being a Taker is easier, and it's better.
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