Why do girls think they have it harder than guys in the dating life?

[Anonymous]

Guys have to approach (big one). Guys have to impress. Guys have to text first then get ignored. Guys have to pay. Guys have to put the girl on a pedestal. Guys have to GUESS the signals girls are sending him. Guys have to chase and put their ego on the line. 99.9% of the time the guy will get rejected hence making their ego drop and the girl will be on an ego trip. Guys have to start convos and keep asking questions to maintain the flow of convo because the girls are useless most of the time and won’t even put effort (answering one word responses and not asking anything back). Girls giving number to a guy and not texting first and not starting convos (just tell the guy you have a boyfriend so he can move on. Playing a guy hurts more then saying you have a boyfriend from the start. I thought this was common sense but I guess not) which leads to the next point. Girls playing guys and making them chase her so her ego gets bloated. And all women have to do is sit there and look pretty and send signals. So hard 🤧 isn’t it?

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[lazy_girl]

Im sorry that this has happened so many times that you actually needed to write this to get it off your head. What you say is quite true. I have a brother that struggles with this, even in a relationship. He puts in a lot of effort, only for it to be in vain most times. But you also have to keep in mind that these things also happens to girls as well. I would also receive the halfassed texts, and the drop of confidence. But what I'm trying to say is that you're right and wrong. But thats just my opinion

[leahzrc]

lucky for me i didn't need to read this because i dont approach guys and i dont expect them to approach me

[Anonymous]

This reminds me of something that has always felt like a double standard, if a guy is upset over the cards he has dealt with in the dating/mating system, game, he will always get labeled a whiner or having a victim mentality, being a baby.

But if a woman is upset over what she has dealt with in the dating/mating system, people will sympathize with her and comfort her emotionally and mentally

[justawhiteman]

i seriously dont know man... I feel like good men get rejected way more than women do.

[Asker]

Very true. Yea that’s cause they too busy waiting to get approached.

[justawhiteman]

yep exactly!

[Anonymous]

Guys have it harder cause guys are more desperate. If guys quit chasing and constantly trying to get ass things would change but until then nothing will happen. Men just need to ignore women for like 2 years