This article really made my day, I too feel your pain. I had to pretend to not be human to get a gf and now that she finds out I'm human she's disgusted. It's funny how being concerned and caring is creepy and unhealthy, I gave her space and trusted her, in return she was promiscuous and lied until I caught her, I really think that with women exploring both sexs these days and they want privacy to have alternative lifestyles/multiple partners. also, there is a massive dose of misandry going every where. I just read a report on how women know there in an abusive relationship, it did not mention insults or physical abuse only the the definitions of clingy. For the most part I gave her space and trusted her, she abused the space and when I could tell, is when we fought and I became concerned of her actions, she had inconsistencies and lied about things. A female friend called me when I was with her and she freaked out. The only difference is it happened to her more than me
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Men are held to higher standards than women yet luckily they also have the ability to reach them, yet it's very difficult and unattained by many.
Women have it easier, but there's less they can do.
I think a man being needy and clingy is the ultimate turn-off, it just shows women that the man is unable to be independant and for me that is a really annoying quality. Although I think you are generalizing a little when you say all women hate needy men; one of my friends has a boyfriend who is constantly checking up on her and she loves that, she says it makes her feel wanted. I think its just a matter of opinion. I do agree with you that it is a major turn-off in women also and personally hate it when women say they need a man to complete their lives, we should be able to complete our own lives and having someone to share that with is an added extra. I think you need to stop looking for someone to make you happy and start doing things for yourself and as lame as it sounds, you will find someone special, beacuse every women loves the confidence of a man who is content with himself. That's just my opinion though, hope it helped :)
not really. the guy i slept with last week was like this and he was great in bed too. I like him. but it does freak me out when a guy goes too fast on future talks or sweet talk cause i sort of think that he might be another jackass that was just trying to have me wrapped in his finger. i can say that u don't necessary destroy ur chances eventhough you're needy, desperate or clingy. it really depends on the type of girls you're eyeing for. I've had plenty of selfish guys, commitment phobe and all the whatever so called alpha dude before, they cheated on me everytime our relationship hits rock bottom. it does freak me out a bit, i do still like him. i'm freaking out cause he might just want me because i make a good trophy partner or it was just about sex. i meant, we barely know each other right, assumption is all we have and negative assumption it be
because they come off like bitches.
also if a guy is desperate and clingy, it doesn't make you feel special. desperate guys just want a girlfriend or to get laid period. I would feel that he has personal issues. he would most likely be like that with any girl, not just me...it just happens he's desperate to me because I'm the one he's dealing with at the time.
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Good question actually I guess that's how we supposed to be to be men who can't be needy and desperate , that's a part of who we are I'm not saying that women's nature is to be desperate but its out nature is not to be like this..
Well I need a woman to complete my life and admitting it hasn't hurt my relationship. You're looking at this from a very limited perspective which is something I constantly accuse women on this site of doing. Of course men want different things from women than women want from men. We're supposed to work together in life.
Either way that's a bad thing, and women like that are looked down on, if still more acceptable than a man in that case. You sound almost jealous of women for being allowed to be weak.
Because women want someone they can depend on to make them feel secure, and men want someone to depend on them (to some degree) to make them feel important and needed. Plus, that's the way it's been through out history, and it takes a few generations after our actions have changed for our thoughts to change.
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