He grabbed my phone from my butt pocket?

[Anonymous]

I hid something in my bra that he wanted (I didn't know he wanted it) and he told me he would grab it. So I moved it to my one of my butt pockets instead and my phone was in the other pocket. He literally reached his hand in my butt pocket and took my phone, saying that I wouldn't get it back if I didn't give him what he wanted. He also touches my arm or my hand for a while (more than a few seconds). But he claimes to like another girl and talks about other girls around me. I don't know why or what is going through his head, but he also seems to be the physical, funny type of guy, just more so with me (I'm pretty sure anyways).

[nert73]

Tread carefully. Walk with caution. Be aware of everything. Just make sure to not overreact or overthink. Give him a while before you start worrying about him being a player. Be sure you know him well before making conclusions. Also, don't be afraid to stand up to him. If he does something that worries you or makes you uncomfortable, let him know! If you don't like what he was saying and doing about the situation you described, don't let him do it again.

[Sexualchrist]

I guess he really wanted back whatever you stole and hid from him.

[Asker]

I didn't steal from him lol it was my friends, we teamed up to steal he phone and I had her battery

[Sexualchrist]

You stole his phone? That's still stealing

[Asker]

Not his our friends

[Sexualchrist]

I guess he strongly felt stealing was wrong and wanted desperately to give it back to them.

He sounds like a good kid.

[Asker]

I know him well. Our friendship between all three of us is like this. It's a joke to us.

[Sexualchrist]

I guess it wasn't a joke to him. Stealing is not a joke. Doesn't matter if you're friends or not.

You should treat other people's property with respect and never touch it unless told otherwise by owner of that property.

But you're young, you need to learn these things I guess.

[Asker]

We gave it back. She was laughing.

[Sexualchrist]

But she was desperately holding back tears on the inside.

Other people property is not to be treated as a joke full stop young lady.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Yeah well if he talks about other girls he could be a player just be careful.

[fulloflife]

What's the question?