Admiration implies respect.
There are occasions when encountering a remarkable creature, I can't help but take a moment to accommodate my eye's resolving and focusing dilation's,
by steadying my gaze.
"Affixing the tripod for stabilizing the telephoto, to facilitate an adequate aperture setting and sharp focus" ... so-to-speak!
(Let alone, frame an aesthetic composition)
Averting my eyes with varying frequency, so as not to appear rude, is of course the polite and considerate mannerism of a Gentleman. That title is fortunately gender specific. An identification I'm enthused to embody. Being a virile Man, I do enjoy the many facets of a Woman.
However, her discomfort is my responsibility to prevent! Even before we've met.
No. Chivalry is not dead. Raising Boys with honor is.
I'm conscious of how I conduct myself, including subtleties folks might misinterpret, otherwise. Do not have something in your mouth!
A genuinely pleasant expression, on the ready to expand into a greeting-like smile, accompanied with the sincere bashfulness I would indeed experience, is my immediate reaction, should I be caught acknowledging what only a Woman can imbue. I'll make an honest attempt to present the body language of an apologetic, yet still open and appreciative fan.
A former companion and several long time friends have been met just this way!
What's so difficult about this? All it takes is to care.
To continue to stare, despite being noticed for doing so, is indicative of a poor character. What she is thinking has so little value, it's not worth reacting to?
To scrutinize a visage we are Naturally evolved to appreciate, is not an excuse for an insensitive ignorance of societal behavioral standards.
They're usually adopted for the encouragement to live cohesively, within reasonable tolerances for our emotional potential. For this scenario to degrade to a point the Woman is discomforted by the excess attentions of a stranger, I think it's normal to assume that her reaction would be deservedly definitive. It is violating and threatening. Hence, understanding the parameters of the threshold is also... normal to assume. To be ignorant of, or purposely disregard this judgement, is offensive and should attain a higher level of nonacceptance.
If a Man is compelled to exhibit such behavior, all he accomplishes is contributing to a straining gender disparity and a deterioration of the inherent-trust in traditional roles.
Why push it, you Jerks? You ruin it for everyone!
It's about where the eyes spend most of their focus. If on your boobs, ass, and groin, he's primarily in it for lust. If at your face, neck, arms, lower legs, back, and hair, he's admiring you.
I ask the same question myself. But in my opinion i think guys go through phases when they're attracted to a girl. First it may start off as lust where they start imagining and fantasizing about you and your body. Then after some time has passed and they really get to know you (assuming that you have a great personality and easy to get along with), they start having a mix of lust looks and admiration. Then after more time passes and they really start spending time with you and start falling for your personality, they might look at you like you're the most beautiful person ever.
If they look at the bewbs or bootay they WANT you. You have to say the WANT with some OOMF! if he looks at your face or looks you right in the eyes he's either just being decent or he thinks you're pretty!! yay!
At your age, it's usually lust
unless obviously from a parent/relative/teacher/most other gals that wouldn't think of you in that light
soooooo
go with lust until they prove otherwise
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If a guy truly admires your physical appearance, then they will feel sexually attracted to you.
It's extremely hard to tell the difference because staring is simply staring.
Maybe just look at his eye movements or where it is looking at: up+down/looking at your boobs or ass then obviously lustful stare. If it is looking at your face/smiling then it could be admiration of beauty.
If he is leering at you like a wolf leering at a piece of meat its lust, if he looks like someone in awe of a priceless work of art its admiration.
Lust makes guys look slighty retarded, is an easy way to tell.
You will get a vibe, and its almost like a predatory vibe, if he's truly just admiring you, he may look timid, or as if he awestruck, if he's lusting, hell just be staring blanklessly, and you'll just get a creepy vibe
I dont think there is a difference in the stare 😂 a stare is a stare. You have to wait and see what he says to know that. If you won't talk with him, just see it as a compliment eitherway.
Nah, I think it admiration is when they admire you as a person, your character, abilities, etc.
Lust, the just want to do sexual things to you.
I don't think there is a difference. Because if he admires you, he wants to fuck you. Guys are simple
I think admiration is more like they see the beauty in you and prob want to get to know you, and lust is more like they only like you for your looks and want to most likely get inside your pants.
I wish I knew... I get strange stares! I am a funny look person! !
When in admiration I tend to look at a woman's eyes and face.
If he is drooling it s lust😆
Guys don't stare with admiration.
They're pretty much the same thing.
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