Would a girl care if a guy cut off communication with her?

[Anonymous]

Even if she didn't like him back.

The guy decided to give up and move on.

Would she try to contact him?

[Secretgirl]

Okay, so let me get this straight…

You decided to give up on this girl and move on? And you’re asking if she is going to contact you back? Why does it matter? I’m guessing you secretly want her to call you back…. So you’re not ready to actually move on and now you’re taking a desperate move on it to see if you can “jump start her” into liking you?

I’m not saying this to be mean, but you sound like me. I did that and told a guy I secretly wanted him to contact me after I wrote a letter of “get the f*** out of my life” but, for my sake and piece of mind to actually leave me alone. And he never contacted me back.

Which… now I look at it and think to myself, I’m so glad I stopped worrying about it and just seriously let it go with out the worry of what if, or is he thinking about me? Maybe he is, maybe he isn’t? It doesn’t matter, I moved on, like I said I would.

But to really answer your question… if you made it clear that you’re moving on because she doesn’t like you the same way she is probably happy for you. And won’t contact you. In reality, you may cross her mind, but it won’t be long before she is thinking about other things.

I wouldn’t worry about it, seeing as if “you’re moving on.”

[rdabby]

Hehehe love your answer so true!

[LOstgirlXS3]

Yea he cut her off and now he wants her to call him back, man your wishing.

[LOstgirlXS3]

You cut her out of your life because she didn't like you ?then you want her to contact you again? by the way girls don't stalk guys who cut them off.

it is like you're saying" leave me alone " she would think that you don't want her to talk to you, she would never think that you wanted her to call you back,trust me she wouldn't,OK you Cut her off and you want her back then go on call her or send her a text saying" how you doing ?" if you both were good friends but if you were just a guy was interested then it doesn't really matter to her if you called her or not she would be just ok with it.

[jackiewackie10]

yes a girl would care she will be kinda hurt by the fact you don't talk to her she will be wondering why you don't talking to her in the first place my advice is talk to her at least as friends if she doesn't want anything else with you be yourself and keep in touch with her I would care if my friend wouldn't talk to me that's mean

[IceQueen]

It depends on the girl. If she's not interested she won't unless she needs that extra attention from someone. In the end you're still not what she wants. You're just her ego boost.

If you've "Moved on" then why bother asking any way? She doesn't care and you shouldn't care.

[ixi10]

Of course she would care. It's rude to just cut off all contact without a warning. At least give her a reason before hand.

If it was me and the guy just stopped talking to me, I wouldn't even attempt to contact him.

[LOstgirlXS3]

I agree with you.

[Living-the-ADvenTURe]

Probably, because girls like it when guys are into them. As soon as the guy gives up, it usually gets to them and depending on the girl, they may start to wonder if she made a good choice by rejecting you in that way.

[rdabby]

if she is not intrested at all she would actually be reliefed... like if she was disgusted and ewww -leave me alone not intrested!

But if she was intrested yet not pretty sure about it she would get p*ssed off an contact you again

[audreymarie21]

if we were friends, yes I'd care. cutting off communication is immature and rude. but if it was just some guy I only knew because he was always hitting on me, then no, I wouldn't care, I would probably be relieved.

[MissConfused93]

Yes, she would care. I've experienced this. And it sucks. But I didn't have his number, so I couldn't reconnect. And he didn't have the balls to call or text me again.

[Reeses-pieces777]

if she doesn't like him back then she would not care unless it was annoying

[arsenal25]

nope I would not try ant contact him.