I believe the reason he's doing this is because, he doesn't want to share the sight of your beautiful body with others. Yeah, I know there are a lot of white-knights here telling you do whatever you want and all of this but, I'll tell you the truth.
Wherever you read about relationships, you'll find this word "compromise". You can wear that bikini or these leggings, he can't stop you, but he'll definitely be upset with you. So, even though you really want to wear them, consider the risk that you might lose him in return.
Tell your boyfriend to chill out.. it is your body and you feel comfortable in them.. most all women wear bikini's.. tell him this, if you was wearing diapers and rubber pants and I told you to stop would you.. he would tell you to stay out of his affairs.. so just wear them and forget about his opinion you may even get an offer from another guy that does not sound like a loser like your boyfriend does
Not trying to be sarcastic but if you really like the guy and want to stay in this relationship, you need to ask him to really think about why he's so worried about it. I eould be concerned that this is just a first step in him being a control freak.
I'm not much for showing too much skin myself, but at a beach or in a hot tub, what's wrong with a bikini? It's what 98% of girls will wear. And leggings with a long t-shirt? I wear that like almost daily. Seriously WTH?
This guy does not own you! You should be able to wear what you feel best in, and if that's a bikini, then so be it!
Re-assure him that you are sticking by his side. Bring something sexy to wear for him later and re-assure him that only he will see you in it ;)
I think you need a new boyfriend... he doesn't "let you" wear leggings? He sounds a bit controlling to be honest. And I know from experience situations like these can go from bad to worse pretty quick when you decide to not do what he wants. Good luck!
Wear what you want, he's not a dictator in your relationship. If you want to compromise go ahead, but then if he's going to determine your dress style you can determine his. A relationship is a two way street.
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It IS your body, your life. If you want to wear something or do something, it's your choice, not his.
Guys get told they have a lot of control over the women in their lives, so it's not unexpected >< There's probably some underlying fear or social judgement there that you might be able to address (asking him *why* he cares what you do with your life so much), but when it comes down to it... it's your decision.
What's he bitching about? Men are gonna loom regrdless what you wear
When you do wear them just let him know that you are his
But don't let hom control you
Wear whatever the hell want. He is in no position to tell you what to wear.
He is insecure. Either tell him to back off or ditch him. He is probably very controlling and that is no way to live
I agree with him. But it's just because I prefer modesty.
Fuck guys who force their girlfriends to wear certain things, like what the fuck, how can you even date someone like that OP?
You can do what you want. But don't be surprised if he gets pissed at you for wearing one after he suggested you not to. He's not your dad. I'm not sure if he would break up with you over this, but some would.
I choosed wear them, but he feels jelous try to talk to him quietly and slowly step by step explain to him your opinion, it is not bad to wesr biki.
He does not want u to do that because hd finds a lot of guys starinv at your body, so he is jelous.
some guys admire modestly enjoy the fact that he wants you all to himself.
He has no right to tell you what to wear or not wear. If I were you, I wouldn't stay with such a controlling boyfriend.
Is he your boyfriend or your father... it's just wearing something which is better than wearing nothing
Tell him to mind his own business and to stop ogling girls in bikini.
Wear your bikini.
Tell him "you have no right telling me what I can and can't wear, this isn't Saudi Arabia".
it's not an obligation not to wear it , it's a sign of respect to his request...
i'm he told u his reasons, doesn't want any guys but him to look at u
but it's your choice in the end..
Fuck what he thinks.
Just assure him that "All of this booty is still his"
What he doesn't want u to wear a bikini? Does he want u to go naked?
tell him to pipe the fuck down.
it's up to you what you do or don't do no one else.
he doesn't own you.
Does this shit really happen in real life?
Uhhh he doesn't own you. But decency is important.
Wear them. It's your body.
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