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How do I deal with this extremely needy Tinder guy?

I recently went on two dates with this guy from Tinder and have spotted some warning signs which are worrying me:

First date:
- He kept reaching across the table to hold my hand
- He kept trying to hold my hand when we were walking down the street
- He added me on Facebook whilst I'd gone to the bathroom
- He talked about how it might be problematic for our relationship (?) if I were to get a job in another part of the country

Second date
- Again was incredibly touchy feely with the hand holding thing across the table and other stuff
- When we were at the train station he pulled me into this weird hug and kissed the top of my head
- He talked about meeting my parents
- He talked about deleting Tinder because he can see himself being in a long term relationship with me
- He said if we were to date, would I be happy spending every weekend with him and Skyping/calling him 4 days a week

And in between and up till now he has been constantly messaging me - almost every hour of the day.

Is this worrying behaviour? It's stressing me out quite a bit, but at the same time he's a nice guy underneath the insecurity/neediness. Any advice on what to do?

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I told him yesterday that I don't think I'm as ready as he is to pursue a long-term relationship, and that seeing as he's very attractive and intelligent, he'll have no problem finding someone who is. The problem is that he's not accepting that. He's asked me to "reconsider my position"...
How do I deal with this extremely needy Tinder guy?
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