Can/ Do guys feel closer to a woman after sex? (Page 2)

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Im dating a guy now who seemed to be a lot closer to me after sex. He was definitely a little surprised at my ability to give head and loved how enthusiastic I was on top of him. He also appreciates the softness of my lips. I tend to notice guys pull away a little after sex. Not this guy. He'll even come over for dinner or just to see me without getting any sex. Can a guy actually be more emotionally attached with sex? He told me good sex can both keep a guy and make him fall in love. I've never heard of this.

SaltandVinegar · Answer

Depends what he is looking for. If he is looking for something long term, then yes, sex can make him feel closer to her than before. If he is just looking to get some booty then it won't make a difference.

NJ_Casanova · Answer

Yes, I think most people do.. unless you are too drunk to remember.

FashionQueen86 · Answer

I've only heard once that a guy was much closer after sex.

TCJ1234567 · Answer

Yes. Physical contact and the connection of being together can make you feel closer.

Test3189 · Answer

yes having sex can definitely make both parties very close to each other. you will learn each other emotions a lot better, and fall seriously in love with one another.

TaureanBull81 · Answer

It depends on the person so if there is amazing sexual chemistry and a connection then I do feel closer to the women after sex ;-) During sex you feel much closer going without condoms too ;-)

MrQuick · Answer

It's relative. Every sexual encounter is different, however sex, and great sexual compatibility goes a looooooong way with determining how you feel afterwards.

DT254 · Answer

it tru specially if the woman ain't showun affection o luv I've yet to meet a woman like the way u describe urself miss :/ im tired of women all i git is useds n hurt jus want me 4 my $$

wc444 · Answer

Why do you seem puzzled that this man would have an interest in you outside of bed? Isn't this a good thing?

Squall17 · Answer

I think you're over-thinking too much. He's obviously into you, yet you turn him on so... you're a perfect match for him and he's looking for love.

BigCat90 · Answer

Oh, yes! A lot of guys become more emothional closer after sex. It's can be.

AleksanderSlovenija · Answer

Yes. I do myself - personaly although if I really like a girl I like her

Jager66 · Answer

Yes of course. Not always though, most men are able to separate sex and attachment if they want to.

sparta13 · Answer

not necessarily... yes every guys loves sex but it doesn't mean that it brings guys closer to women otherwise one night stand never invented

bloodmountain1990 · Answer

Depends on the person. I don't feel attached to every women I have sex with. If I liked them, I liked them prior to sex.

John_Doesnt · Answer

Yes, which is why all women should have sex with me on the first date.

chayis · Answer

I'm a virgin sorry, but form hearing my brother having sex in the other room from mine, yes.

KeiranByrne · Answer

That's what it's all about, the intimacy, not just the fuck and suck.

akanetuk · Answer

Yes a way of saying thank you for the satisfaction.

jia12345 · Answer

It could be that he was already attracted to you and the sex was good too so he feels a deeper connection. Its quite uncommon for guys but if he is genuine then why not

Jonathan1989 · Answer

Not really its all about how you feel about that person. If your sexually attracted. To that person then its lust. But if your in love and you showing with passion then its love.

saintvicious · Answer

personally it depends is it just sex for the fun of it then no that's all it is but if you actually both aim for a connection then yeah that seals it... normally.

heavenlyhannah · Answer

I hope so but you should already be close, sex should just strengthen ur bond.

MyExperience · Answer

Absolutely. No need to keep looking and testing other womens skills in bed.

abundantlyrich · Answer

Sounds like pep talk. See what he will still do if you both are still together over 3 months

GreatnessBack · Answer

Sex doesn't influence a guys like/love for you. If he was into you before, then he will be after and the opposite is true.

Anonymous · Answer

unfortunately, no, this is not true. many men, (and women for that matter) are able to have one night stands, and fwb's. they just have non committal sex

StickStickity13 · Answer

In my case no, I've had sex with women and forgot their names the day after

Anonymous · Answer

It can if he's not a narcissist, player or emotionally unavailable.

Anonymous · Answer

Depends on the guys state of mind hit it and quit it.

Abe90 · Answer

I honestly can't say yes or no. I keep myself closed off from everyone

Coco0104 · Answer

It depends sometimes it can bring them closer and sometimes not

Anonymous · Answer

"Can/ Do guys feel closer to a woman after sex? " We can, but it's a choice. We can also choose not to.

deejay10 · Answer

its true. good sex, especially head, can keep a guy attached to you. so yes a guy can feel closer to woman after sex. if he feels like you gave him good self esteem and if he satisfied you, thats even a plus!

awesometjgreen · Answer

yep, you should schedule sex with him, like once a week or something so y'all have something to look forward to

Heemus_Christ · Answer

i say because after sex you really broken all barriers. that why you see the real side of someone after you had sex. or at least me anyways

PG1997 · Answer

Well sex is how we express our love and affection too so guys can definitely get more attached after sex.

Sixgun77 · Answer

yes. i pretty much always do. in fact I'm having trouble finding women I'm interested in who want anything more than friends with benefits.

Regular1 · Answer

Your guy is 100% correct. Only good pussy can make a man fall in love.

Bullzee · Answer

NO!!! Guys only care about scoring. The only way he will feel closer to her is if he has some sorta attraction for her. Other than that guys just want pussy.

Anonymous · Answer

I would feel a lot closer after sex! Because its only what I would want to experience with one girl, and it would make me feel so much closer to her because its really intimate.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah, after oral a woman, it's great but, I would really rather do oral than be given oral.

Anonymous · Answer

no i don't always feel closer to a girl after having sex

biguyct · Answer

yes i mean thats the most intimate thing you can do unless its a one night stand

kelvinmed · Answer

He might be really interested in you and actually sees a long time relationship

Anonymous · Answer

U ou land yourself a winner. A gentleman would be jerks and leave after sex.

stlDesigner · Answer

Yes, we are not mindless robots, we have feelings too. Sounds like this guy actually likes you, what a shock...

Anonymous · Answer

This is kinda fucked but I personally feel the urge to never talk to the girl again after sex.

Anonymous · Answer

If they actually have feeling for her ya, that's how some guys get whipped

dogsteeves · Answer

Can't say still a Virgin and never had a Girlfriend

Anonymous · Answer

I feel closer to the door after sex.

Anonymous · Answer

Not all of them, but some can.

Anonymous · Answer

Ofcourse yes! I would be more close to her after sex starts...

Nonjudgmental · Answer

The answer is unequivocally yes he is telling the truth

YourNextEX · Answer

If tyou are a skillful in the bedroom, a guy could become closer.

DylanA · Answer

Of course! Sex makes guys feel trusted by there women

Anonymous · Answer

It's definitely possible. It has happened to me a couple of times.

Anonymous · Answer

I would, but I avoid sex and relationships because I'm below average in endowment.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah it depends on the guy but with the right woman it can make me feel closer and I'll stick around

joeb73 · Answer

For me sex helps bond me with the person I love

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