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Can/ Do guys feel closer to a woman after sex? (Page 2)
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It depends on the people involved. We are individuals and have our own beliefs and value systems. I know I need to be emotionally invested to some degree in order to "give myself" to the apple of my eye.
Science says that once the hormones start to flow, there's a feed-back loop of hormones and feel good chemicals which increase pair bonding to ensure couples stay together to raise healthy offspring.
Absolutely. Definitely. I mean, I suppose not all guys all the time of course, but yeah. I feel like that is the case for most guys. No less than girls do in my opinion.
"He told me good sex can both keep a guy and make him fall in love."
I wouldn't say good sex exactly, it's a bit trickier than that but whatever maybe it'll work just to say that.
When a person has an orgasm during sex, they have a surge in oxytocin, which is a bonding hormone. It's designed to make you feel closer to the person you're with. Mothers release it too so they'll bond with their newborns.
some do some don't
i know i personally feel closer to a woman after sex; hence the reason i've always waited to have sex until i felt like the relationship was serious to avoid influencing my feelings
I would say so. Having sex is pretty much the ultimate boundary breaker in a lot of peoples' mind. After having sex, being with that person becomes a lot more comfortable cause by that point it is pretty much the end of the awkward part of the dating phase of trying to read people. Or at least that's my view on it.
Yes some guys can be that way. Sometimes it's nice and sometimes they go overboard and get clingy which triggers the wish to flee response. I'm glad if they stay cuddly, friendly and don't quickly run off.
It's very possible, some people do connect through sex. But there's a lot of other things that are important too, but yes, sex is very important and can be the main reason two people become closer. The attraction and the chemistry. The emotions during sex and how you connect. The enjoyment of talking together, cuddling, laughing and being silly together :)
It's possible. But if she reveals to you shortly thereafter that she lied about a critical piece of information, just to abuse your trust, because that's her idea of fun... that closeness can turn to rage very quickly.
he is trying to act like the "good sex" is what makes him emotionally attached but its really because he's lonley and doesn't have any other fwbs probably. he doesn't want to look like a bitch so he uses the "good sex" as a scapegoat.
Depends on the guy, my boyfriend is really attached to me ( emotionally) and we don't even have sex.
But that's good that your guy does that because some guys will pull away a little that's what I have been told by my friends.
My brother has a disorder that as soon as he sleeps with a woman, he can't stand her anymore and usually breaks up with them, its crazy
I only made love with one girl, and we were so close for so long, definitely brought us much closer.
I think I might've heard about that disorder before.
I think it was called being an asshole.
Sorry, I couldn't help myself. It was the perfect setup.
@kambo_trick3y You are right lol
I feel bad for the girls, its like every month, a new girl
Of course! Absolutely. If you have sex with us it makes us feel like you actually have feelings for us, and you aren't just using us as a shoulder to cry on and someone to spend money on you and listen to your problems.
I believe that. That's why I personally don't believe in saving sex for marriage. Sounds like you two have good chemistry.
I had sex with a guy the other day for the first time and then I panicked that he'd just disappear, but now he seems to have gotten closer with me. It happens sometimes if the guy really likes you!
Sex is an emotional thing, but I don't think it makes you fall in love. If the love was already there it gives much greater attachment and the sex is far different than with someone you didn't love. However, if you didn't love them it doesn't give that attachment.
You clearly don't know the biology of sex.
He's pussy whipped. I wouldn't call it love. Don't confuse love with lust
Typical woman generalizing and making up shit she doesn't know about,
@Wolfstarking someone is triggered😂😂😂❤️
It is suppose to if the guy is looking for a serious relationship. A guy that only wants pussy will pull away
Generally guys that pull away either have gotten what they want or they pull away to get a feeling for how the relationship is going to go. Men who grow attach usually feel comfortable with their partner.
If she is good in sex, and she make him happy with sex... yes.
The man just wanted good sex and one girl that him make happy, sex is a good and important voor one relationship to. So, if you are good and you doing what him likes por exemple: if his wanna you sucks you most doing and good, not 1minuut but doing 5 minutes...
Hi is happy and crazy about you because you doing what his like...
So, crazy man. Is in yours hands...
Yesss I went through the same thing too. When my ex and I broke up we had a lot of sex still. And that honestly made me fell more in love with her. It was unbelieveable