Well, at first I thought my crush was kind of a loner at her school, partly because she said she would eat lunch by herself in the library (in her junior year...)
Then I discovered she (had) 700+ Twitter followers and 1000+ Instagram followers. And then I discovered from one of our other coworkers who goes to school with her that she hangs out with extremely popular girls a lot of the time.
Despite all that she's one of the most down to Earth people I know. The reason she has so many followers is because she's so fucking likable, to everyone.
She deleted her Twitter though, and I don't think she has posted on her Instagram since around then.
The only thing that would bother me is if you are too concerned about that stuff and would let it affect your mood or day if you didn't get likes, or a negative comment was made.
Or if you think getting approval online even compares at all to having real life friends that you actually spend time with.
Just because someone had a lot of followers on social media does not make them famous in real life. Social media is another realm and more of ten than not people care more about their friend's number than the actual person. So do not feel intimidated because sometimes people with that large of a following are shallow and insecure. The times they are admired and popular for other reasons.
I feel like mostly girls are more likely to care about that stuff than guys. Not all ofc.
As long as you're loyal and fun with your man, doubt he cares.
I don't see the big deal. That shouldn't be a deal breaker. If so then he's just odd tbh.
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My current girlfriend has one. Something like around 12k. I would say yes it is. But it depends. On a lot.
Number one, what type of things to you post on social media? If it's all selfies where you then have hundreds of people commenting hot sexy you look and how they want to date you and be with you ETC then yes that can be very intimidating for some. Other probably won't care, they're with you and that's all that matters.
But in the beginning of my relationship it got so bad, to where she was thanking people for flirting with her, messaging back and forth with random guys an ETC I broke it off with her. To this day, I still am bothered by it. She also actively avoids posting about our relationship so that does contribute.
pretty sure the average girl has that many followers, it's not really intimidating, just a red flag that she's shallow
I couldn't give less of a shit. Is this what dating has really come to for people?
Not at all, but I would think that a lot of people send her messages often. Dated a girl with 13,000 not a big deal
Sounds like it means A LOT more to you than it should to him
Not at all, the more followers she has, the more liked you know she is, usually more followers means she is with really likes by her community or that she is popular for certain reasons, it shouldn't be an intimidation thing, it should my Girls is better than other young women
Seems like you get a lot of attention from beta orbiters who enable your narcissistic stuck-up attitude. Oh well, plenty of fish!
It'll be hard... It's a bit like "Last Night at Chateau Marmont", if you know what I mean - even if you do not do anything wrong, your boyfriend may get the wrong perception out of it.
No and I feel like you posted this just to brag.
No, because my social media following is "big", but mostly fake.
If a guy gets insecure because you have an Internet life, you need to remind him that Internet Life is different to Real Life.
I wouldn't give two shits. In fact it would turn me off because it sounds like you're an insecure attention whore that can't be bothered to find real friends.
I'm not sure that intimidates would be the right word but it would be highly off putting.
Obviously I'm older than dirt maybe younger guys feel differently.
Not really most girls I know have more followers than that
I don't even have an instagram so I wouldn't give a flying crap.
yes i'd be bothered by the fact that she is so engrossed in social media... likely a narcissistic person or a whore
That's all it takes to intimidate guys? Perfect
No I wouldn't be intimidated. Who cares
Don't wanna be rude but 3,000 isn't that much
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