I sexted with a guy and then he ghosted me?

[igbygrl]

So like the title says, I met a guy through tinder and we started sexting each other right away. The reason why I joined tinder was to just hook up. I just got out of a long term relationship because I had a high sex drive and my ex didn't. His non existent sex drive was what broke our relationship apart. I joined tinder because I was looking for a non committal casual hook up.

After a couple of sexting sessions, I mentioned to the guy I wanted to meet him and have actual fun with him. He seemed interested but then when I texted him a few days later to confirm if we still wanted to meet up, he never responded. Today is the third day of no response and I think the asshole just ghosted me. I'm wondering what made him ghost on me? Was he catfishing me and he knew the jigg was up? Or maybe he only wanted a sexting relationship and nothing more? Please can someone explain to me

[Fitness-Fanatic]

You're looking for hookups , but he must be looking for someone to sext , coz that's probably enough to satisfy him sexually. Unless he's met someone else , and he's hooking up with her. So he's no longer interested in you

A lot of people you chat to online are only interested in sexting , not many are interested in meeting up in person

[May10th1994]

He probably has a girlfriend whom believes he is committed, and just wanted to sext because he thought it is an easy way to cheat. Obviously he is too cowardly to meet I'm person because of the risk. Though he's cowardly anyway if he has a girlfriend and was sexting you. If he doesn't, he's still cowardly for ghosting you.

[jcullen6]

If you want something you need a little leverage. You can't trust every guy that you match with. If he wants to see under your underwear then tell him that he needs to see for himself, in person. Hope that helps!

[igbygrl]

Too true…thanx for the advice!

[Apope16]

He probably either met someone or has a girlfriend. Or he is living with his ex. There has to be some reason. I can tell you as a guy that we dont turn down sex even with a girl that marginally attractive. Im in your position as well. Lets hope we both find someone to have amazing sex with. Haha

[SENSEI]

who knows , there can be so many reasons , a fake profile picture... he can still sexting but couldnt meet you obviously

[eagle1951]

he only wanted sexting. the minute you mentioned meeting he was gone. no one is happy just talking these days. they all want to meet too soon. and it's a turn off. or they get want they want and block you. been there a lot.

[SubTotal]

your smart enuf to recognize a non-working situation and fearless enuf to terminate, so surely you know whomever "it" is on the other side of this connection is not worth even another second of your time or energy.

[soschris]

All of the possibilities you mentioned are possible as well as the possibility that he got (what he thinks) was a better offer. I'm sure u will have other options too.

[kmmer]

It could be many things. He may have just been interested in the sexting and nothing more.

[akashshukla]

if ur searchingfor sex.. may be tht guy having tht sex daily from ger girl or girl like u...

[DiegoO]

Probably he only wanted to do sexting, many people prefer not to care things to the next level on internet, they just goof around and that´s it.

[orphan]

he's no longer interested. Caring about the whys of each failed hookup defeats the purpose of tinder. get back on and keep swiping right.

[JSmuve]

Dude wasn't feeling it. He wasn't attracted to you enough.

[YourPsycho]

Probably had second thoughts and couldn't pull through

[JordanfromOhio]

Yeah sounds like he didn't want to go through with it

[Anonymous]

You must be good at sexting. What did you sext about? I have a very high sex drive as well so I can relate.

[Anonymous]

Maybe found someone else and wasn't good enough to tell you

[max_spy]

you were looking for a hookup and he was looking for someone to sext. you both got what you wanted. why do you care?

[igbygrl]

But I didn't get what I wanted…do you understand reading comprehension?

[Anonymous]

You never know. Perhaps he has a girlfriend or who knows?

[melanieeeB]

He probably found someone else

[Redrooster1]

I like casual sexting

[KingArthur]

i don't get matches on tinder.

[Anonymous]

it is time to move on