I'm starting to realize that the guy I'm seeing is kind of self absorbed. For example, this is our convo today and he didn't even ask me how my day was. We've been seeing each other for a couple of months and we always do things on his terms and on his time. I'm starting to feel like there may not be a place for me in his world because it's all about him. Would this change over time or is this probably who he is?
Most Helpful Guy
... sooo... okay... take astep back... soooo this guy has freedom to talk about himself and not include you... you have 2 options..
1) talk about yourself too and include him in.
Him: i did this this this and this.
You: that remeinds of the time did this this this and this
Him: my family abd i love this this abd that
You: really, you should of seen how my sister did this this abd that.
Giving him info about you, and vs versa.
2) let him have his fun but let the convo linger. After hearing the 3 highlights. Let him be, say yiu have to go. And take your time getting back to him.3THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
Depending how he acts in person and just going of what I have read it seems like he isn't interested in anything serious.6THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE