Why did he change his shirt in front of me when he could've done so in private?

[Anonymous]

This morning a guy friend of mine changed his shirt where I could clearly see him. He had MANY options of changing in a different room privately or at least out of my direct line of view, but he chose that spot for a reason and I'm curious as to why. Yes, I know it's perfectly acceptable for guys to change shirts in public, but he's NEVER done this before in front of me.

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I'm really not trying to read much into it. It's just that this is not like him. It's very out of character and a very odd thing for him to do. If you knew him you'd be saying the same thing. I guess you'd just have to trust me on that.

[the_mad_tinkerer]

I recently pulled my shirt off where my female roomate could clearly see me. I have never done this before and go to some lengths to avoid any impropriety around her. So if this is you B, I just really wasn't thinking about you, the shirt was really gritty and sweaty from work and I had a ton of other shit in my mind. There isn't really a taboo against bare chested men, so my brain didn't remind me about my general policy of being covered. If this isn't her, I think I still gave you a possible answer.

[windknowsmyname]

Dont read into it or think twice. Girls change i front of me they are married, had boyfriends, or dont like me like that. See your bra and everything. I didn't care, she didn't either.

So i say its just something he did.

[Asker]

To me, that is very unusual.

[windknowsmyname]

Same here but its 2017, people just do stuff thats normally not acceptable 10 ta 20 years ago.

[Kaylyne]

Was probably in a rush and thought nothing of it.
To be honest I certainly wouldn't go reading too much into this, if anything at all.

[Asker]

It wasn't a rush situation, but thanks your input.

[Kaylyne]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Madi212]

probably because he didn't think it was a big deal.

[Wolf_D]

Either he is very comfortable with you or he likes you. most guys befriend girls they are interested in hoping to have a chance. I would guess he was testing true waters.
If you are interested say something. If you are actuallg near your 40's then you should be beyond games and able to talk to him.

[thomasans]

A shirt is not always needed. When he starts masturbating in plain sight say something, Or join him..

[Asker]

Haha... believe me, masturbating would not be necessary. I'd give him all the help he needed.

[meatballs21]

"I need to change my shirt"

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(that's why)

[TwinCKI]

Maybe he was raised to just change his shirt where ever he is, regardless of who is in front of him.

[Asker]

If that were the case I'd have seen him do it before. It was just weird and caught me off guard.

[DP0122]

Either he's comfortable around you, or he's trying to show off to ya

[kyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyle]

Either he wanted you to look at him or he had no idea you were there.

[roy_ricky09]

It wasn't a big deal though. He's your friend anyway. If he had anything in his mind you'd have noticed it already.

[roy_ricky09]

What's on your mind anyway? What do you think why he did that

[Rjsurya846]

Clarify me why are you there at his place at that time

[Asker]

This didn't happen at his place.

[Rjsurya846]

then

[MynameisTy]

subconciously hewants you to know he wants you to. loom at him without a short on. but he is also too shy to talk about the fact that he likes you. or maybe he doesn't realize it and does it anyways?

[Asker]

I do kinda think he likes me, but I also second guess it. He gives off mixed signals.

[MynameisTy]

sometimes you just need to take a risk. or maybe there is a way to figure out the truth without the risk. but hey, whats life without a little risk

[Max_winner1]

So What? I do this in front of my lady friend's all the time.

[Anonymous]

He wants to give you 'gina tingles so that you'll offer up the snatch.

[Flaguy]

He wanted to show you his abs.

[Justinaveragedude]

Because he wanted to see if you checked him out.

[TheSpartan]

He's trying to seduce you with his body.

[Anonymous]

He's probably really comfortable around you😊

[kluh00]

ya its my sneaky way of saying hey look at me!!