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Can handsome men be insecure?

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  • PoliceLivesMatter
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    Just like anyone else, handsome men can definitely be insecure. Humans are insecure about a number of things. If he's handsome to your eyes, you might think he's confident and has a pretty good life from your perspective. Though, this usually is far from the truth and he can actually have genetic predispositions that make living difficult, insecurity about something about his body, or introverted or quiet. All these things are unrevealed when looking at him. They're not inherently bad, but looks can be deceiving.

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    • whatever2611
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      Thanks :)

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    • PoliceLivesMatter
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      whatever you say

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  • Yayeet
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    Definitely. Handsome men get used for their looks a lot, and they are used of getting lots of attention, so when they don't get it, they get worried, they get insecure.
    Also, some will be confident on their looks, but insecure about their personality, they may think they don't have much to offer because no one wants them for who they are but how they look

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  • Anonymous
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    extremely. what do looks have to do with anything? especially for men. women choose more with manliness and confidence than looks. i had a gorgous male classmate who couldnt even look at women. he was socially awkward and never kissed a girl. he had a strict military father who was beating him or something and never said to him an encouraging word. he is still virgin in his 30s.

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    • whatever2611
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      That s so sad 😅 i really like a really good looking guy and I feel like he doesn't know how to approach me... maybe I should try to initiate a conversation with him

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    • Anonymous
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      if he is as broken as this guy, it won't work. you can try though. cause he might be a bit less broken.

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    • whatever2611
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      I dont think he's broken... I rather feel like he's an introvert

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    • Anonymous
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      well can you live with an introvert? thats a question you should ask yourself as well. he could understand Plato and Nietzsche etc but we don't practically care about these stuff. we want him to be humorous and not boring. not logical and books smart.

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    • whatever2611
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      Sure :) im rather an introvert myself and I know he can be fun :) i have experienced it :)

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    • Anonymous
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      good luck then. hope it works.

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    • Anonymous
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      "That's so sad". Well frankly its not. if we actually cared he wouldn't end up like that. and when we say that, its more like a subtle judgment and bad surprise than actual empathy. but hey much worse things happen to women every day around the world and noone cares. so who cares if some broken guys lost the boat for whatever reason? if it doesn't directly affect my life its not my business. i'm not anyone's therapist.

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  • mahaim1234
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    Yes! I think handsome men can be very insecure because girls are way too intimidated to approach them and then they think what's wrong with me when really everyone assumes they're taken works across both genders but guys are generally more confident when it comes to one liners on a girl

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  • karahiri
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    of course. anyone can be. they might not be insecure about their appearance, could be something else. could also be about their appearance too, not eliminating that.

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  • Vmm90
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    I don't think ones looks necessarily pertain to whether or not they're insecure. You may find someone who you think is really attractive but they may not see themselves that way. We are our own worst critics.

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  • nextdoorguy
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    It not the attractive that makes it insecure. It is the mind...

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  • Aces_high
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    Everybody can be insecure. Just because people tell eachother that that are handsome doesn't mean that actually believe them. If someone were to tell me that I would say thanks but then wonder what about me it was that they found handsome and so on.

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  • Summer-Evenings
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    Every day. I get very flustered around women I find attractive. Which happens a lot

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  • hilbi
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    Yes, I dunno about myself but I'm very shy and insecure, but many girls have told me that I'm handsome. I just don't really believe it 😅

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  • DinaM
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    Anyone can be insecure. Handsome men are no exception.

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  • TheIceCreamQueen
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    Of course. I've met plenty who were insecure af both in a bad way and sad way.

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  • DanoMR98
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    there's a certain threshold where they cannot understand the insecurity that ugly guys have

    there's just no way

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  • Vladimir3Dracul
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    everyone's definition of handsome is different. To me I'm handsome but others might think I'm ugly. To answer the question though, yes they can be.

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  • SamZy16
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    Insecurity is not something that happens to some chosen kind. Can happen to anyone.

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  • Anonymous
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    Yes!!!
    My boyfriend is the most handsome man in the world and he's insecure, it breaks my heart :((((( but I do everything I can to make him feel confident on himself!

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    • Crazycooldude
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      What is he insecure about?

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    • Anonymous
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      height, face, hair... :(

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  • winterfox10
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    Oh my god yes! We know we look good but that doesn’t mean we don’t have bad days.

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  • unclebobby420
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    Never really thought I was attractive but all my life I have been told so I'm 36 a grown ass kid always playing can be insecure at times depends on how fine she is or how much I like her

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  • Noodle_fan
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    yes of course , handsome but broke af will make him to be insecure af , most likely ; p

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  • BarbieLola
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    Yes, I've seen it with my own eyes

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  • jirwin7979
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    I don't know but iam 37 and act like a kid most of the time unless at work

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  • Astoriana
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    Anyone and everyone can be insecure.

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  • KRock323
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    Xper 5 Age: 42 , mho 35%
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    Yes, most me are insecure.

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  • RickSanchezC137
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    Of course, physical traits don't define mental ones.

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  • Anonymous
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    Of course. Let's have a talk about "Whataburger Brad" - He don't have no money. Ok now let'$ compare him to movie star Brad. Who gets the girl?

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  • xack117
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    I don't know if I'm handsome but I'm insecure as fuck about the way I look

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  • elie900
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    Yp they can be insecure because they can be attaked by any girl at any time😋😎

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  • Nebukadnezr
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    Ofcourse they can. Looks dont dictate someones selfconfidence

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  • DeeperMeaning
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    Xper 5 Age: 30 , mho 51%
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    Anyone can be insecure

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  • Cerberus_1773
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    Xper 6 Age: 25 , mho 61%
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    What
    Everyone can be insecure

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  • azzntittiz
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    Anyone can be insecure.

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  • king34
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    Yeah, same thing happens with pretty girls

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  • MakingMeHiiiigh
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    Certainly, no doubt about it.

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  • LLils
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    Yes they can.

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  • WiseTurtle
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    407 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    Some of them.

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  • DamnMan
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    Anyone can be insecure.

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  • MSDoom
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    Can attractive women be insecure? Silly question.

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  • Nunote
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    Everyone is insecure

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  • JosyJosy
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    Of course.

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  • LastNightmare
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    What is handsome from your understanding honey

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  • Chinosaurus
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    Incredible lol

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  • thegr8lion
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    689 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    Every man is except me...😂

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  • Anonymous
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    At their young age yes

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  • fueledbythc
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    501 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    Of course.

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  • cupidkisses
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    Of course they can

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  • Yumix
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    of course they can

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  • CT_CD
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    Yeah

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  • disgustingweebtrash
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    Yeah

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  • mistershaytan
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    yeah, a lot

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  • BronzedAdonis
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    685 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    I am..

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  • Lumberman53
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    Yes.

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  • alpay1533
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    ı am not;)

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