My personality sucks and I don't know what to do to change it. Help?

[Anonymous]

Girls say I'm attractive. They really like my body and my eyes. I have a problem talking to girls though. I've only been on one date and I've only hooked up with one girl. I'm really shy, nervous, and tense around girls I like. I also tend to think too much and get doubts. I think I'm also very boring and I think girls tend to lose interest in me because of it. I'm not clingy and girls actually say I'm the opposite and I should open up. Some girls I meet up because they like me and say I'm cute, but after talking to me a lot and getting to know me they tend to stop talking to me. I feel helpless and frustrated and I really want to change myself to be an open, talkative, easygoing, smooth, and very interesting person. Any ideas?

[HGR15]

I have the same problem except I'm a girl! Guys will think I'm hot but they also think I'm hard to talk to because I'm shy and nervous and pretty much everything you listed! This year I decided I HAVE to change that, and its already working! I've met several new people who are interested in me now. what I did was just throw myself out there! now this is coming from a fellow shy person, so I didn't do anything crazy crazy, I just take more chances even if it makes me sick to my stomach like trying out a new art class or whatever, you meet new people, you have something you can talk about so you don't seem boring and it almost forces you to open up, so try new things! also if you say something dumb or embarrassing, just laugh at it, no point in getting all tensed up about it,

id talk about it more but I'm not 100 percent sure on what your problems are, like do you have self confidence problems or what? because usually that is what makes people shy, and that's mostly what I've been working on, just try new things because if you keep doing what youve always done your always gonna get what uve always gotten... or something like that! lol I don't know I hope this helps some, because I have the same basic problems so good luck!