I hate feelings. I used to not have feelings for my best friend and then my other friend said something like "You and her would be cute as a couple". This made me think hard and I developed feelings.
Emotions are a hoax created by the Canadians to make American liberals seem more whiny and more like a snowflake to make Canada the preferable country. True story.
Stop asking dumb question you know this answer unless your trying to used us to push him away in that case do your own Dirty Work
0
0 Reply
Anonymous
(36-45)
+1 y
Whenever he is near you, and you are sitting down, he will stand very close to you with his crotch near your head. He is subtly hinting for you to give him a blowjob.
Not entirely correct, but more true than not if you ask me. Besides what if this male friend is a player? Maybe the op is looking to get their heart crushed, smashed I mean...
What I'm getting at is that the guy may be quite active in being social if you will. Then here's this girl who feeling all Taylor "You Belong With Me" vibes for her slightly risky yet attractive friend. So does she have feelings for him?
Literally what is really going on is a person asking how to tell if someone else is attracted to them. The assumptions that you make affected your answer. I’m worried about how you view the people of your own gender- with a very negative and incorrect viewpoint.
What if this guy is not even close to what you think he is? I myself have many male friends, who are married and have girlfriends, and have no sexual intentions toward any other girl.
Just because you can’t spend time with a woman without having sex with them does not mean every guy thinks this way. To me it sounds extremely limited and irrational.
You proved your point. The op didn't provide context but I do think either of our opinions would fit under different situations. Though my opinion differs in that I'm not calling you out on misandry, for calling my views narrow. I provided "opinion" and provided context for a scenario, a "scenario". Never did I say this is what the op's situation was. But nice try. I appreciate the feedback.
@silverqueen Your male friends all want to have sex with you, they will not admit it to you, but 100% guarantee that NO straight male takes time out of his day to randomly text a fat or ugly female. We do not make time to hang out with the fat or ugly girl. The ONLY reason your male friends are "friends" is because that is where you put them. Even married, they can have sexual interest in you, you are thinking like a female and assuming that a married or "committed" male stops finding other females attractive and stops wanting sex with other women. This is foolishness. We ALWAYS want other sex, we just don't do it. Your male friends keep you around because they are attracted to you. PERIOD.
I do think that guys wanting to have sex w every female is false. I do think that almost every male has had some sexual thought about a majority of their female friends. But the question is more of a matter of degrees. Is it possible to be just friends, sure but most forms of masculinity would fine this notion quite peculiar. It's not the normal standard operating procedure if you catch my drift.
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
57Opinion
Flirting, always think about her, sending flowers, Calls you pet names, treat you like his girlfriend
It can be a bit tricky does he have any outer girs he does this to or is it just you if so then most likly yes
I hate feelings. I used to not have feelings for my best friend and then my other friend said something like "You and her would be cute as a couple". This made me think hard and I developed feelings.
Emotions are a hoax created by the Canadians to make American liberals seem more whiny and more like a snowflake to make Canada the preferable country. True story.
Did he kiss you? Feelings. Did he ask to hang out with you, just the two of you? Feelings.
Stop asking dumb question you know this answer unless your trying to used us to push him away in that case do your own Dirty Work
Whenever he is near you, and you are sitting down, he will stand very close to you with his crotch near your head. He is subtly hinting for you to give him a blowjob.
you can touch him. If he start to behave differently, then it is a good respond. If he said please dont touch me, then you should stop
If he is your friend, he has sexual interest in you. We don't make time for women we don't have sexual interest in.
Are you okay? Lmao
@silverqueen The hell is that suppose to mean?
It means that you need reading comprehension classes. Smfh
Not entirely correct, but more true than not if you ask me. Besides what if this male friend is a player? Maybe the op is looking to get their heart crushed, smashed I mean...
What I'm getting at is that the guy may be quite active in being social if you will. Then here's this girl who feeling all Taylor "You Belong With Me" vibes for her slightly risky yet attractive friend. So does she have feelings for him?
Literally what is really going on is a person asking how to tell if someone else is attracted to them. The assumptions that you make affected your answer. I’m worried about how you view the people of your own gender- with a very negative and incorrect viewpoint.
What if this guy is not even close to what you think he is? I myself have many male friends, who are married and have girlfriends, and have no sexual intentions toward any other girl.
Just because you can’t spend time with a woman without having sex with them does not mean every guy thinks this way. To me it sounds extremely limited and irrational.
You proved your point. The op didn't provide context but I do think either of our opinions would fit under different situations. Though my opinion differs in that I'm not calling you out on misandry, for calling my views narrow. I provided "opinion" and provided context for a scenario, a "scenario". Never did I say this is what the op's situation was. But nice try. I appreciate the feedback.
@silverqueen Your male friends all want to have sex with you, they will not admit it to you, but 100% guarantee that NO straight male takes time out of his day to randomly text a fat or ugly female. We do not make time to hang out with the fat or ugly girl.
The ONLY reason your male friends are "friends" is because that is where you put them.
Even married, they can have sexual interest in you, you are thinking like a female and assuming that a married or "committed" male stops finding other females attractive and stops wanting sex with other women. This is foolishness. We ALWAYS want other sex, we just don't do it. Your male friends keep you around because they are attracted to you. PERIOD.
@Opinion Owner yeah you definitely live under a rock.
I’m pretty sure you had mommy issues or something. Sad. But no, not every guy thinks the way you do.
I do think that guys wanting to have sex w every female is false. I do think that almost every male has had some sexual thought about a majority of their female friends. But the question is more of a matter of degrees. Is it possible to be just friends, sure but most forms of masculinity would fine this notion quite peculiar. It's not the normal standard operating procedure if you catch my drift.
@silverqueen Shaming tactics don't make what I said untrue.
But you keep trying.
He will start pestering you with flattery and you may find it needy
Smiles and laughs more, finds an excuse to touch you.
It's not very difficult. From my experience if a girl I'm close with wings to know if I'm interested she grabs me.
Ask him if you can. If not then, watch for him hear frim you all the time.
I'm one of those male friend and in wondering how to tell her so I guess if he really likes you he will tell you when he is ready.
He cares you even in little things... He starts to notice subtle things about you...
He'll show it.
When he starts caring - involving u in his life and sometimes getting mad at u.
getting mad at you? Why?
I think the display of emotions show where a person's at.
@DilligentDude
ah you mean good or bad.
hearing the sound of your name makes him emotionally nervous
You'll saw it from is attitude, playing with you and others?
I have developed feelings for someone and I just love being around her.
wanting to spend time with you, keeps in touch often, will go out of his way to do things you ask for