How to tell if my male best friend likes me or is falling in love (I think he’s into something)?

[Anonymous]

Well, we used to talk a lot and tell each others stories about our previous relationships but now I see that his avoiding when I ask advice regarding a guy.

He doesn’t work but still has money to buy groceries and cook whatever he wants, food outside every single day, drink, party, this and that. This is why I’m concerned. He just tells me to stay away from bad stuff.

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+1 y

He keeps telling me I look like his ex wife.

[spartan55]

Why is it a concern that he has money to buy food and drinks?

[Iron_Man]

The guys an immature party boy let him chase you

[MsProsperity]

I think you’re interested in him

[Asker]

No 😩 that’s why I’m scared. Because this is my first time having a friend and we talk all the time but I’m not attracted to him and sometimes I avoid when he tries to.

[MsProsperity]

You like him but you’re not sure if he feels the same about you or you’re scared if you date him it might complicate the connection y’all have

[Anonymous]

Why don't you ask him?

[Asker]

I don’t want to know the answer

[Asker]

I don’t like him back