My ex doesn't deserve it!

[Anonymous]

My ex dumped me 3 months ago. We had a good relationship but he ultimately wanted something different. I was devastated. After he dumped me he became a real jerk-ranting about me if he saw me out (he thought everything I did was done to "get back" at him, and I was just doing my best to move forward). It has unfortunately colored my memories of our time together in a darker shade, and I am trying to recover from such disappointing and disrespectful treatment I have felt at his hands. Now I learn he is already in a new relationship and skipping off into the sunset (okay, not really, but that's how it feels).

I don't want to be with him-this is not about being jealous of the new girlfriend. But my question is this:

How do you get past the hurt and anger of knowing someone who was supposed to be "so there" for you and care for you has been so cruel AND now gets to be happy? I know I know, the universe isn't always just, yes he'll get his, blah blah blah. I just want to heal! What can I do to continue moving forward? He has never once showed any remorse for his actions

[Smilebabes]

I went through the same exact thing some months ago && I know

Exactly what you feel hun :l

And I'm not going to lie up to this date sometimes

I think about him of how could he just been so cruel to

Me after our break up when I was the one there for him through everything.!

And yea it's hard to move on completely. But you can do it.

But at the same time I have come to the point where I told

myself get over it, I got tried of going over and over again

Thru the same question and thoughts, && it already happen can't go back

and if his not feeling bad for his actions then F it

Nothing I can do and I need to stop thinking about it.

And he was in a relationship right after we broke up

and he broke up with her and up to this date he

Seems very happy and it would hurt me so bad,

Thinking how could he be this happy.!? After what he put me thru.?

But my friend told me his not doing that great after

All that he has not found someone good for him.

But who knows he could be lieing and he really is happy.

So you really don't know if he is happy or he is not.?

and you deserve to be happy enjoy life, you don't want to look

Back and say to yourself wow all that time invested thinking

About what he did to me I could of been doing something

That really matters.? you know what I mean.

&& you need to stop being so hard on yourself

yea that guy treated you bad but instead of using

It to feel bad for yourself use it for inpower mente

to say it won't happen again he will see that what

He did not hurt me [when he really did]

and just go out with friends and met new

Guys always helps.! have your fun girl don't

Let him take no more of your time.! his not worth

It at all. Hope it helps . . stay strong(:

Just always remember "A women has got to love a bad

man once or twice in her life to be thankful for a good one.!