Do I still have a chance with him?

Question

Me and this guy I like fell out yesterday. When I told him that I shouldn't have liked him he blocked me and today when I messaged him I told him that if he doesn't want to go out for a drink with me then block me on Twitter. He didn't block me

Do I still have a chance with him?

StrangerByTheDay · Accepted Answer

If he did not completely block you my dear, there is still a slight chance that things are going to get better. But that is only a very slight chance. Otherwise he would have completely blocked you.
Personally I don't play such games, I don't like much texting.
I am the kind of person who still believes that face to face meetings are the right thing to do. Maybe it is old fashion, but at least we would say everything face to face, either we want to give the relationship another try, or just end it.
The best thing to do is to meet and talk around a drink or coffee ;-)

hulkster · Accepted Answer

move on, plenty of other guys to meet. Just cause things didn't work out with one guy, doesn't mean its the end of the world for you. You are young, and still got every thing going for you, you should be making the run after you, not the other way round.
Doesn't mean to say, you start being a cock tease lol, or playing hard to get. But if your clever, you would keep your options open for the better man, or the man of your dreams

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

it sounds like you should still have a chance just explain what you meant by you shouldn't have liked him I mean is it something like you didn't like his looks or personality at first then got to know him and fell for him hard or something

cupidkisses · Accepted Answer

You still have a chance. Because he left the door open.

kenworth · Answer

you still have a chance. however threating a guy is never a way to get a man to do qhat you want. there will always be times when he just w antst to stay home. on all the other days entice hum a bit to go out. put on sonething sext and say to him. i thoughr we could go grab a drink for a little while. then we could come home and relax

VegetaSSB · Answer

Yes you still have a chance, but don´t be so needy as the amount of questions done about the same subject indicate that you are, because one of the biggest turn offs in general are needy people, just show him you are a great option by focusing on common points and doing things he like for him sometimes.

AlexBlack007 · Answer

I don't have much experience about dating, but I think he's confused how you feel about him. This can probably be handled with a small but serious discussion. Clear things out, I think this is all just some misunderstanding among the two of you. Maybe he took what you said the wrong way, the "I shouldn't have liked him" thing.

FarmerJoe · Answer

No, If he blocked you on one account last night and you message on a different account this morning then chances are he will just ignore you will you stop messaging him. Right now you have him feeling like he can say or do anything disrespectful to you and you will never go away because he blocked you then you went around it.

JayMichigan616 · Answer

I don't know. Just cuz he didn't block u doesn't mean that he likes you. If he was that up front & said he doesn't wanna go out he's probably not into u

AdviceFromADevice · Answer

If anything he shouldn't have a chance with you. To push a women away to get more attention is manipulative, it's not playing hard to get its just emotionally abusive; find someone better who who you deserve and deserves you.

Debussy2691 · Answer

What was the falling out all about? Is there an opportunity to repair the friendship/relationship? Is this something you want to do?
Depending on this then you could still have a chance; clearly you will have to make the first approach...

Nemesis78 · Answer

If a guy blocked you, then unlike girls, he's completely sure of his decision and doesn't want you. He's probably giving you a chance on other accounts.

simpleguy23 · Answer

He's obviously uncomfortable because of your comment, you should somehow apologize and justify what you said to him and then keep it casual for a while if you still want something with him

AceBowler · Answer

I'm thinking that if he blocked you on one social media platform, then he doesn't want to go out with you.

BlueCoyote · Answer

I doubt it. The whole thing seems rather immature for two 30-somethings.

TromboneBaldie · Answer

I chose you didn't have an chance because while you actually do, would you really want to go back to that type of puzzle of a relationship?

djmzes · Answer

Zero chance Accept it and move on... Like girls reject guys so guys can reject to and you have to accept it.

partydelights · Answer

As long as there is still a means of communication, you stand a chance. (There is not enough info to determine his feelings for you.)

Pyrofox · Answer

Let him go b4 he gets any more creeped out by how overly out going you are.

Stiglg · Answer

I've been in much deeper shit and got around it. Why can't you? Though, that doesn't change the fact that you two might not be right for each other.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Are you feeling the need to increase the drama in your life?

AmtgardJean · Answer

The way all of your other posts have shown lead me to believe you should not waste time on this guy. Something is very off.

VaIiant · Answer

You’re 31. What’s up with the 13 year old like mine games?

Udbhav_Bantwal · Answer

You might still have a chance if you be persistent, but if he blocked you then maybe reconsider if you still want another chance with him...

lostgirl_searching · Answer

Either leave him alone or just move on and find someone.

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

You've lost this one. Completely. Time to try someone else. Way past time.

Dimoo · Answer

If he blocks you he doesn't even deserve to look at your pictures.

veronicalynn · Answer

Do you really want a chance with him. Seams childish and immature to me

Anonymous · Answer

I don’t really understand this situation, there’s either more to it, or it’s just petty and best avoided.

wtf_richard · Answer

I’ve been in a very similar situation as you with i girl I used to work with. She blocked me on social media after our falling out. Check out my question on “can we be friends again?” and we can compare

dewatschka · Answer

I think you should let him go:( That's not how you would treat someone, who has a chance with you

MrMilti · Answer

Respect his "no" as a "no". He is not interested in you, let him go and move on.

007James007 · Answer

And this is why i don't even have social media in the first place lol

BillyB4 · Answer

Give him time. Just leave him alone for a week and try to talk to him about the fight and try to repair things

derek63 · Answer

If a guy can build up so much anger in such a short time he is not mature enough for you

SaintRaghu · Answer

I don’t really know his personality type and so I’m not capable enough to jump to the conclusion.

jacquesvol · Answer

Yes you do still hmightave a chance with him but I don't know what happened between you

andylds · Answer

Right Noelle, decide for yourself if u like him stop dragging ur ass and ask him, u obviously giving mixed signals not knowingly but sort it out woman

Stephen02 · Answer

I guess yes! But stop pestering him with lots of questions, let him come on his own, if not, you would fall into wrong hands

jbond33 · Answer

Hey its about u don't stress guys there's pof out there u know b easy fuck em if they want to transform

ikarus100 · Answer

You obviously offended him enough that he blocked you the first time, he doesent care for your messege he didn't even read it

Anonymous · Answer

I don't think it's mathematically zero... but it's pretty anorexic.

Aynsof · Answer

Since the door was left open there of course is some chance but might not be much of one...

Dchrls78104 · Answer

However slight, the chance is still there since he didn't block you.

ericclayton · Answer

He's not interested. Blocking is not necessary here.

pizzalovershouse · Answer

why bother with a guy who enjoys playing you to be his puppet

RedPillGirl · Answer

he wants the bang if that's all you want, you have more than a chance

Mrphil · Answer

If he blocked you ide forget him not worth your effort and time. Sounds like a jerk.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

You still have a chance but the odds are slim tho. Depends on how strong you both are.

Nice222 · Answer

I think you still have a chance but may not go to far.

Borrkan · Answer

You have a chance with him bit i advise dont go after he doesn't want you.

boooooo · Answer

Sounds like he is keeping you close so he can shag you when he has nobody else too

bankrollsupreme · Answer

It could go either way but I'd leave it alone he sounds iffy

Human-Name · Answer

Maybe you have a Chance... but if he blocks you after the First time i think you deserve something better than that guy

Anonymous · Answer

People are going to troll you now because you have so many dumb questions.

kushX · Answer

Forget the idiots and move on.. Find someone that is worth the time.. Not just your feelings.

Anonymous · Answer

he's pretty clear that he doesn't want to go out with you. you are the one jumping to conclusion our of little things. he clearly said. No going out. Move on...

Cammy137 · Answer

Please stop inviting me to your questions

Catholicgirl22 · Answer

Maybe. Leave the door open for him.

mooky06 · Answer

I would move on from him

Angelina25 · Answer

It's the same question I guess...

N23SA · Answer

I don't think you have a chance with him

M0NG00SE · Answer

You're 31, find someone else

LegateLanius · Answer

I think its a lost cause

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