Am I the only one who thinks that my best friend's boyfriend crossed the line? (Page 2)
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It's crossing into that territory, yes. I'd be really careful. It is not unheard of that guys like their girl friend's best friends. Just keep being respectful, hold your boundary and if more suspicious stuff happens, tell your friend.
I dont think so. I think that he is just trying to be clever and funny. Especially with the last situation. I think that maybe he is trying to be in your good graces.
talk to your friend about it and just let them know that you're uncomfortable being too close with their significant other not that he's done anything specific to make you feel awkward just a general feeling
Nothing you describe seems to be a big deal. He's making an effort to engraciate himself with you, obviously its not working. I wouldn't make a big deal of it, if your friend is happy then its just you and her boyfriend getting off on wrong foot.
I think that you feel what you feel, and any feeling is right. Since it is your gut feeling you should give it a serious thought. What is more important to you the relation ship with your friend of hers with her boyfriend. Both are equal in value. If she doesn't accept your input about this then you know what your friendship value is. You have Te right to show your feelings, so is she free to reject. Friendships will go back as they were if things go wrong with them.
At least she's warned.
I'd say talk to your friend, be 100% honest with her especially if you value their friendship.
I know I'd rather be brought into the loop and hear it from my bestie.
Just avoid him if you're uncomfortable. You're not obligated to spend alone time with him.
You could be looking to much into it. But i do feel as if he is pulling an "open oppurtunity" kind of situation thing with him being in town, and making sure u know he will be bored while there. That seems to be him trying to let u know he wants to "chill" now that he has a chance to be alone with u. I would say dont bring it up. But to be cautious of his intentions. The chili seems to just be a awkward situation. Nothing like he was trying to be flirty.
I've always been one for brutal honesy. I don't know him I don't know how he is with the girlfriend or how those 2 are when you're not around. It you really trust your friend you could talk to her about it, just how you're put off by how nice he is to you.
I think you like this guy a little even if its your BF/BF. and you feel umcomfortable been around him because you dont know what you can do if your with him alone.. if you didn't feel anything you wouldn't care. Everytime he compliments you, you like it and make you feel weird about it because your friend is around perhaps youbñ shoul talk to your friend about it.
I think you are over thinking it. He’s probably just being a gentlemen paying for the whole bill. I’ve done that when me, my girlfriend (at the time) and her friend went out to lunch... telling her what you think because you assume this will make you look bad.
I think you're reading into things way too much. Unless there is more stuff going on than what you described to me he sounds fine.
He isn’t crossing the line it’s tktally normal. If things get too weird then tell him or your friend that you’re not okay with it
He wants your approval so he's kissing up to you. If he starts flirting I would say something to him like maybe in a joking way like back off bro and tell her ofcourse
trust your intuition if he makes you uncomfortable. I’ve seen similar situations where the guy is extra friendly with other girls, and behind the gf’s back, he tries hitting on them.
Or maybe, he is a genuine guy. God you are literally trying to defend being a paranoid lady because of a bad experience
@theflash675 better safe than sorry. if he was a nice genuine guy, he wouldn’t be giving more compliments to another girl than to his girlfriend. A girl should always trust her intuition.
A girl or guy shouldn't always trust their intuition when they are paranoid for illogical reasons. Being in a similar situation with
Brothers girlfriend who has been more than nice to me has given me the outlook that I have. Everyone isn't out to get you. While it's good to be cautious, there needs to be a limit as to just how cautious you could be. As for him being nicer to her than his girlfriend, the senses are the most unreliable tool at analyzing situations especially if you are paranoid about it. He could compliment her nonstop when they are alone.
I have also been extremely paranoid about other situations too, and then had a few eye opening moments that helped
Me grow as a person. Trust me, when you think like this you cannot live a normal life.
Talk to your friend about it. It sounds like she doesn’t see a problem with any of it.
Talk to your friend and let her know you feel weird about it. She probably is totally clueles about how you feel.
Trust me in this situation you should just over look it. If he makes a move on you that is the time to kick him in the balls and have a talk to your friend. If you take to her now it will only cause problems for everyone.
Talk to your friend and sounds like they have an open relationship or your friend has insecurities and allows him to be free spirited and roam often only way he'd be so comfy infront of her making signs
I dony see anything weird about it. I think you're overreacting.