He feels very comfortable around you; to be able to express his emotions/feeling freely without any worries! He knows that you borrowed something from him, that he believes you'll return it back without any problems. He doesn't mind providing confidential information to you when he wouldn't to other people otherwise. He's not afraid of exposing his weaknesses to you such as his fears, what makes him stressed and such. He'll come to you for advice without being judgmental in any way! Lastly, he'll say how much he appreciates having you in his life, having put all his trust into you when you've been a great friend to him!
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When he lets you drive his pick up and when he lets you take care of his dog!!! That’s about it... lol!!
I think if they return all your actions. For example - you confess a secret to them - they confess a secret to you. You message them - they message you. You tell them you like them - they tell you they like you back. You tell a joke - they tell a joke too. If they don't reciprocate or mirror your behaviours in an equal way - its a sign they don't trust you.
Emotionally opening up to you and telling you his secrets
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Generally, we are pretty straight forward. If we aren't accusing you of something, we trust you. As long as we have no reason not to stop trusting you, we won't. With many of us, it isn't some kind of social credit you can build up. It is something naturally existing until it is destroyed, and then it is gone forever.
If he's told you secrets and really personal stuff.
Note: most guys don't trust easily, especially in this day and age. If he's told you deep and dark secrets, he trusts you. If he told you shallow secrets, he's hesitant yet trying.
Double note: if he doesn't trust you yet, it doesn't mean he won't come to. It takes a long time.If a guy would really trust you, the big sign would probably be forgiving your mistakes that you regret, letting you talk to guy without interruption unless they disturb you in a no OK way (which he may be protective so if he sees they do something that hurts you, most guys would do something)
If he talks about anything and everything with you. If he can make a racist or sexist joke.(might be messed up if he means it). If he is shy, anything about him opening up to you and being honest and upfront about his emotions. Lets you go out with your guy friends without getting jealous. Lets you go out with your ex. Lets you on his computer/ give you his computer ir cell password. I am sure there is more but you can get the point from all this.
Let's you drive his car, gives you a key to his place, leaves his phone out unlocked, doesn't need to keep a 24/7 surveillance on you.
If he is vulnerable around you i. e if he shares stuff with you that he doesn't with his other friends
That can be different for different people, but for me it would be the ability to have a frank and open discussion about the more difficult things in my life.
Goes to you first to talk about things he cares about. Legitimately seeks out your opinion on things before making decisions. Doesn't mind you having access to his personal items: phone, laptop, apartment, etc.
If he openly talks to you about things usually uncomfortable to talk about. Generally just finding you easy to talk to
When he starts to open up about things he wouldn't normally just speak about
Shows his volnurable side and
gets affectionate in relation with you
all of men have volnurable side but can't find trustable woman to show thatThe sign are that if there share more information about them that means they trust you. Guys dont share to much about them so if you learn many things about that guy it means they trust you
When he opens up to you emotionally about important things that affect his life.
sometimes it takes a long way before a guy start trusting his lover actually... but you can know that he trusts you when he shares with you stuff and talks about stuff with you... a thing he won't do with anyone else
Asks for your advice, maybe he confides in you about something he wouldn't just share with anyone.
When he giggles around u and hugs you without wanting sex
He shares secrets with you but sometimes he can trust you as a love partner and some as a friend watch out
He leaves his wallet and phone about so you could look at them...
They will tell you things you don't expect to hear and they always get back to you in text
If he is too friendly with you it means he trusts you
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