I view a woman as a sex object only if she views herself as a sex object A girl who throws her body around from guy to guy is nothing but a sex toy, no questioning it Actions speak louder than words, I'm gonna pay attention more to what she shoves down her vagina than listen to what she "claims" to be or her motives She might say she has self-respect, but she really doesn't She's either lying or she just doesn't know what self respect is because she hasn't had it in so long
And I can't respect a woman if she can't respect herself 🤷
In that setting, no. If girl goes to some "photographer" to take provocative or nude pics of her, my respect for her is out of the window. Yeah…art. Sure. :-) I bet the guy like it as well.
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No. I respect the women I have sex with, and I don't think badly of people who enjoy sex. I'm not that type of puritanical prude.
I only view a woman as a sex object if that's what she wants, if she gets off on it.
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Yes, do not entertain them at all or even send naked pics, why would you do anything to make them feel good, that's how they hate you.
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What why would they hate you if you make them feel good
I was speaking in general terms, as your question was worded in general terms. If you want more personalized advice, I can certainly try. Just trying not to be presumptuous over here.
Hmm, it can go either way. He could mean it doesn't matter what you will do later, or he has something in mind, but is being subliminal (or he could be sarcastic in the way he said it)
If it happened to you, can you please explain how he said it, and what was his body language/facial expression when he did?
Oh okay! He's either okay with whatever you want to do, or he has an idea about what to do and would like for you to guess what he's thinking of. Hope that helped 😅
A demisexual is a person who does not experience sexual attraction unless they form a strong emotional connection with someone. It's more commonly seen in but by no means confined to romantic relationships.
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Nope. I received quite a few pics like that. It sparks interest ;) for me, at least.
I never view another person as a sex object.
Oh and anyone can message me.
I used to be okay with it
But I realized it destroys relationships and friendships in the long run, now I avoid any kind of similar activity
I view a woman as a sex object only if she views herself as a sex object
A girl who throws her body around from guy to guy is nothing but a sex toy, no questioning it
Actions speak louder than words, I'm gonna pay attention more to what she shoves down her vagina than listen to what she "claims" to be or her motives
She might say she has self-respect, but she really doesn't
She's either lying or she just doesn't know what self respect is because she hasn't had it in so long
And I can't respect a woman if she can't respect herself 🤷
In that setting, no.
If girl goes to some "photographer" to take provocative or nude pics of her, my respect for her is out of the window.
Yeah…art. Sure. :-) I bet the guy like it as well.
No. I respect the women I have sex with, and I don't think badly of people who enjoy sex. I'm not that type of puritanical prude.
I only view a woman as a sex object if that's what she wants, if she gets off on it.
Yes, do not entertain them at all or even send naked pics, why would you do anything to make them feel good, that's how they hate you.
What why would they hate you if you make them feel good
If theyre not dating yes if they are dating then no if its a friends with benefits no complete stranger yes
If theyre in love its perfectly ok
It depends on guys, but for me it's their interest if they are doing privately it's good if publicly it changes the people's mind
Yes you can message me
If you're already having casual sex, that tells you what kind of girl she is. Photos wouldn't change that.
Exactly what I was thinking
Ok lol, it’s just casual to him, I’ve liked him for nearly three years
The casual sex thing means she's already lost my respect.
Why is that
"Casual sex" is a misnomer. There's no such thing.
www.chronicle.com/.../65960
I read it and didn’t understand
Hmm...
Basically, the longer a woman's list of sexual partners, the less bonding hormones are released when she has intercourse.
It also means a higher probability of long term depression, and other psych health problems.
Plus all the risks of STD's, unwanted pregnancies, heartbreak, baggage, etc.
It's the opposite of self care.
I just don't respect people putting their and their future partner's happiness at risk for the sake of fleeting pleasure and fun.
That's why I say "casual sex" loses my respect for people.
All the best.
I’ve only had sex with him
I was speaking in general terms, as your question was worded in general terms. If you want more personalized advice, I can certainly try. Just trying not to be presumptuous over here.
Can I message you
Sure.
Pls follow me
If she is sending me pics I can assume she is doing it or has done for other people as well and that would be a obvious red flag.
Me personally, I would lose respect for her, but she is welcome to earn it back
What’s it mean if a guy says yeah maybe after you ask wanna do something soon?
Hmm, it can go either way. He could mean it doesn't matter what you will do later, or he has something in mind, but is being subliminal (or he could be sarcastic in the way he said it)
If it happened to you, can you please explain how he said it, and what was his body language/facial expression when he did?
It was over text but he was happy that I messaged him before I asked
Oh okay! He's either okay with whatever you want to do, or he has an idea about what to do and would like for you to guess what he's thinking of. Hope that helped 😅
Thank you!! And yeah I’m not sure but grrr I hate when he says maybe
Lolol, I can see how that gets annoying, and you're welcome 😄😄😄
No, if we're having casual sex I lost respect for her already.
Serious?
Have you ever had casual sex?
Absolutely. Sex is never casual if you're serious about your partner. But I'm demisexual, so yeah.
What’s demisexual?
And it’s only casual from his side... I had feelings before we had sex..
Is it okay if I cut and paste?
A demisexual is a person who does not experience sexual attraction unless they form a strong emotional connection with someone. It's more commonly seen in but by no means confined to romantic relationships.
Oh yeah I’m sort of like that too
Unfortunately I have never experienced that. But I'm sure I'd find it hot in a teasing kind of way if I did lol
It's really sexy n hot.. but a little bit sad and desp.
I wouldn't lose respect, but I guess it would depend on the circumstances
What makes you view a woman as a sex object and what circumstances?
I've never viewed women as sex objects... and maybe I'd lose respect if she was posting all over the internet
Oh wow really? Very kind of you, some guys do think that way
Women are people too... nothing wrong with being flirty and sexy
True..
If it her just in her underwear it don’t bother nudes she be a one nightstand a relationship no.
He'll no it's good a woman is comfortable with her looks right
Nudes are dumb in general
Yes I agree
sen me some an fin out ; )
It's illegal to send them to children, unlucky.
@WindowLicker damn, could've had some fun
Ok that’s gross
Shouldn’t you be at school
lol im messin around. and no im suspended
Oh no what’d you do smh
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I never got one from the 1st world.