So, being that I tend to have a lot of guy friends. Here is my take on it.
Be friendly, be sorta geeky, don't be a snot, ultra high maintenance girls rarely have guys wanting to spend time with them, have confidence and let guys be themselves without taking offense to it. Note, do not try to be a guy... don't go farting, and burping or entering chili dog contests. Be a girl, you are one.. so own it... but don't be offended that they are a guys and they talk about boobs. Also, don't be slutty, that will allow you to hang around for a small while, but those guys will lose respect for you and they will talk about what you all did when you arnt around.
Popularity with guys especially is:
outgoing personality
easy going
friendly
can hold a conversation
is not bitchy
pays attn to guys and can talk about sports, cars, etc.
and
looks:
dresses flattering and often sexy
has a good body, and takes pains to show it off in clothes and bikinis
has a good complexion and works hard to keep acne away
is not afraid to express her needs, wants, and desires, especially she is very forward about sex
But mostly, it is personality that draws guys to a popular girl
Dresses down, ultra chill.
Friendly and can engaging in conversation.
Not mean or bitchy.
Doesn’t talk about things she has going on with other guys.
Ideally is into the same things, eg I wouldn’t want a girl that into cars, sports, feminism, socialism, romance novels. Being too overtly into that is a bit of a turn off, but I like to think I could tolerate it too an extent.
She should also be chill about sex. Like not get all snooty or offended by topics like that.
No drama.
-Entertaining
-Easy-going
-Not a priss/doesn't get creeped out easily
-Likes dark humor
-Outgoing
-No drama
-Isn't a feminist
-Her beauty (obviously this isn't the most important one but its somewhat important)
-Just relatable in general
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I am the same way. I always got along better with guys than girls. I realized the reason this was is because I grew up with a brother and grew to love doing more of the boy things. When I was younger I was playing with star wars figures and loved star wars. The older I got I loved camping, body boarding, shooting pool, playing darts, and from what guys said was a funny person. Don't get me wrong, I still loved looking feminine in the clothes I wore, wearing makeup, and styling my hair. But I guess I knew more how to be one of the guys than acting like one of the girls. It kinda back fired on me tho when guys would only see me as one of the guys. I got friendzoned a lot. But I had a lot of cool guy friends which from the outside I'm sure Katy girls thought I was a slut because of it. I have to say I've evened out by becoming a little more feminine. But I still get along better with guys.
One of two things:
1) if she's pretty, attractive, or has a nice figure, she's popular in a "sexy" way (they want to date or sleep with her).
2) Then you have the girls that are "one of the guys." I kind of fall into that group actually. She's either geeky or into things that guys like (ie: cars, guns, video games, sports). She's popular with guys, but seen as more of a buddy than dateable.
The only girls that I know are popular among the boys are the tomboyish ones who play soccer and join the dudes when smoking pot. And certainly dress down. I'm yet to see a feminine or traditional type of girl who has guy friends.
I made some good guy friends online though. And I concluded that online or offline you definitely need to be outgoing.
Basically, I think she understands how to communicate with them. I've personally noticed that in girls who grew up in a household with more than one brother, or a household where a dad involves his daughter in typically guy things.
For example: If you're a girl who is interested in typically guy things, knowledgeable about their interests and psychology, it becomes much easier for you to interact and communicate with them.
-Cool person, not acting paranoid towards men
-Not superficial, not judging people by appearance
-Tolerance for humor
-Not talking shit about Male approachers, respectfully denying any request of a male if not interested
-Supportive towards male friends, supporting them to change their game with women, getting female friends, a girlfriend etc.
And due to men being more objective than women, an attractive female can instantly be popular, without even noticing.
Depends on what sort of guys we talk about. If they're not too nerdy or not TOO nice, the body will be the first thing they'll rank girls with. But if the guys are too nice and nerdy, you know the answer, it's not the body. And if the guy is a person with a taste of both nerdy and bad boy, it'll be good and fair
Being a Queen.
A woman can be popular among men if either she is very beautiful or gorgeous like 9/10 but her personality is only above average then men will only like her because of her external beauty.
A woman can be popular if she is beautiful and attractive say 7/10 but her personality is more attractive and appealing then her external looks then without doubt she would be popular.
Guys are very much humans too. So whatever we like as humans in other human make sense.
I know you are not talking about negative popularity because that only takes some big boobs and desperate men. Otherwise, honesty, friendliness, trust, and things like that are still valid in 2019.
Looks good and is immaculately groomed. Takes care of herself.
Self confident
Dresses sexy but not like a cheep painted whore
Friendly, not stuck up
Smart
Kind and caring
Good sense of humor
Doesn't offend easily but knows how to put a guy in his place if he's an idiot. Can dish it out as well as she can take it
Can be like one of the guys when it comes to playing (non-sexual) games and having fun
Knows how to flirt
Gives the impression that she is dynamite in the sack
Good looks and very easy going. Like in school if a girls hot every guy is gonna talk to her. If she is like friendly and not like hard to approach she will be popular..
Hard to say
As much as I have seen - her natural aura, there are just some girls who are natural magnets for guys but you can't really pinpoint what it is about her. There are those who are natural magnets for people in general too.
For me, I’m popular because I’m sort of “one of the guys”. I’m not too girly or too boyish. Most of my friends are guys. I’m probably close with almost all the guys in my class. Maybe it’s because I grew up with 3 brothers, I don't know. I guess you’d have to know me to know why cause I sure as hell don’t know. I guess it might be based of a girl’s personality and how they are that makes them popular.
If it's in a non sexual way she knows them and is popular, then it's probably because she has a way of being, "one of the guys". Easygoing, a jokster, possibly a bit of a tomboy.
Being charming. Being pretty and being interested in guy stuff also helps.
She must be sending secert messages with her phermones. 🖤🖤
She is down to earth and fun to be around. That's what my military brothers tell me. ♥️🥰
A cute butt!
Well for one thing, they need to be interested in some discussions.
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