Girls, do you prefer shy, more passive, guys or bold, more dominant, guys who know what they want and how to get it?

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Tiffany_Taylor_Made · Accepted Answer

I prefer bold and dominant guys over shy and passive guys. Real men are secure in their own skin, are go-getters, and have the confidence and courage to stand up for themselves, protect their families and everything they love, and follow their dreams. That makes men attractive. Shy men are too insecure with themselves and are usually boring because they're too scared to be talkative, adventurous, and risk takers. Passive men are the ultimate doormats that often allow people to take advantage of them because they're too timid to stand up for themselves.

sejla · Accepted Answer

Probably somewhere in the middle but never assume a shy person isn't bold in private. That is a misconception that many people have especially people who are extroverts. That is why so many quiet people are over looked. If you want a detailed man in and out of the bedroom pick an introverted man. What he might lack in social skills he'll make up in diligence, willing to learn and take his time to get it right.

Marshmellowlavender · Answer

I prefer in between just because I am usually unsure on the intent of a guy who is to bold and aggressive, just because I've met a lot of guy who are extremely aggressive don't seem to be as in control and it scares me personally, not saying that ALL guys are scary that are bold and aggressive I personally just like to read the behaviour and intent of the guy I am with

Nxtawm · Answer

Option C, I don't want a passive guy, a "yes man". Competition in a relationship is always more fun, especially for the dominance in my opinion, but I also don't want a guy who's too aggressive, don't need someone controlling me, needs to be able to give in to me at times.
So C, leaning towards aggressive/dominant but has their passive moments

rockhaha · Answer

Some guys that are dominant and aggressive take it to whole another level, it’s hard for people to distinguish confidence with being a douche

kittyluv · Answer

I really don´t like passive men. Nor do I like dominant men.

VIVANT · Answer

Neither  I like assertive guys who are not aggressive or passive but always Try to be kind and gentle.

illkillu · Answer

guys who say they are dominant in bed are a maaajor red flag for me. just confidence for me please

CuriousChick101 · Answer

I'm just curious, is picture C Zac Efron? (if you know)

1stranger · Answer

Not shy, Not rough, and he know what they want and how to get it.. self reliant person

Babygirl_S · Answer

Dominant, aggressive guys but I'll learn to like type C as they're better.

nerms123 · Answer

I like shy dominant guys

RebeccaSJ · Answer

Hubby knows what he wants, and he knows how to cherish a woman.

Ronda317 · Answer

Passive-aggressivehe definitely needs to know what he wants and know how to go about getting it but he doesn't need to be a narcissist about it

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

Aren't B & D the same? I have both in my man.

valentina4eva · Answer

def a B type of girl here!!

cirno · Answer

Uh im shy so i think i prefer a shy one

Annie12234 · Answer

I did voted C.

Maj92 · Answer

Definitely the bold kind. Go getters

brittany15 · Answer

half passive and half bold would be good

SamirahD22 · Answer

Bold dominant take charge men

QueenTanya · Answer

Dominant/bold guys.

modeve · Answer

Dominant guy.

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