Guy compliments me soo often?

[Anonymous]

First of all yes i’m grateful for it. But anyways, there’s this guy who I added on snap and he added back, we started off just snapping then he told me i’m hot and asked about me what i like and stuff, we’ve talked about a bunch of things. I send him a snap of my face and he always compliments me saying literally every word you can think of at some point. I do send people selfies with filters a lot, but nonetheless he’s called me hot, gorgeous, stunning, adorable, cute, beautiful, and I do blush a little because it makes me flattered! He’s a senior tho, and it’s so often it makes me wonder if it’s even genuine. I’ve said thank you like 100 times, and i’ve told him it’s a lot and maybe to do it a bit less. He’s said he’ll try but he claims he “just can’t help himself”

Does this seem like harmless compliments, what’s he trying to gain? Does it seem like too much? Any thoughts please?

Also, he asks how my day is and if i’m feeling ok and things like that, and hasn’t really made any direct “want in your pants” comments.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I've experienced this myself a few times recently. Yes it's nice to be complimented, but if it's sincere. Unfortunately, that is not always the case. Some people overly compliment for different reasons. (some harmless some not so harmless) If it comes off as too much or makes you uncomfortable, and you already told him this, if he's really sincere; maybe he'll slow it down till you're more comfortable. And, he could just be very vocal and he really does think you're that beautiful. As you get to really know him better, you'll be able to tell if he's really being sincere or not.

[angstyangus]

It could very well be that he is genuinely interested in you as a person, but by drawing so much attention to how you look over everything else does give off the idea that he's just trying to smash. I'd say, if you really like the guy, give him a chance. It's the only way to truly know.

[Asker]

he’s also complimented me on a bunch of other things like “you should be a model, i like your hair, eyes, etc” sooo... I don't know

[Fboylv9999omwtfyb]

He likes you and wants to get in your pants despite he asks you how your day is and no provocative pics from you. He's using the only skills he knows (which are limited clearly since he only has a dew methods and repeats them... doesn't do a different approach.. same thing of complimenting) to lure you in respectfully. Some guys ask for dirty pics later, but all depends on the guys confidence and experience &nerve. I wouldn't pursue it, seem like he will end up being super clingy, needy and could become violent once he get's comfortable.

[Asker]

he says “i just want you to know” a lot too and he’s said he’ll try to stop, but he’s bad at it so he keeps complimenting

[Fboylv9999omwtfyb]

guy sounds annoying. How's that situation going now?

[bambin0]

Pretty simple.. over complimenting and exaggerating is one of two things. Either the guy lacks self esteem, isn't too confident and wanna secure something before it slips of his hands... or simply a psychological game of forcing the other side to like him. Some do noticed how annoying is that. Others do get brainwashed and fall in the trap.
If you want him to stop you say it and be be very clear.

[coachTanthony]

Sounds like a stage 5 clinger. Compliments like that usually come with really needy behavior because he sounds like he is way out of your league.

[Asker]

he’s not ugly tho (like a 2) he’s like a 5/10 or higher

[coachTanthony]

5 isn't much better than a 2... 5 is pretty average which comes with average self esteem. Over complimenting like that is a sign of low self worth because he feels the need to do it so he keeps your attention.

He doesn't feel like HIMSELF is ENOUGH therefor let's make her feel good by over using compliments.

Just be careful. Most guys that are confident and sure of themselves don't over compliment.

[Zer0Ghost]

You're asking why he keeps saying compliments but haven't stopped sending them? Exactly what else are you supposed to say to someone's photo of their face, "fuck you're ugly"? The assumption is, if all you're gonna send is selfies, you either want the compliments, or you don't have much to say. If you want different commentary, do something different

[cooldude64]

he defs wants to bang u or have a relo. can't exactly tell his intentions
I think when i liked a girl i complimented her once lol but i made it worthwhile and natural. I wouldn't ever go out of my way to say it. So decide if u like him back or if u like the attention.

[Asker]

i’ve told him i like someone and i’m not looking for a relationship and he said he just finds me attractive

[cooldude64]

Sounds like he wants to be a backup plan then lol

[ThorJunior19287]

In my honest opinion it sounds like the guy is genuinely interested in you. He's showed all the signs and it's apparent he cares about your well being. Do you like him as well or is it just someone to talk to? If you like him time to make your move. Now or never

[Anonymous]

First off, how old is this dude as your anon shows under 18. If he's of decent age (~ 20+) he shouldn't be talking to any girl like that under 18. this sounds like he's grooming you

[Asker]

17 i’m 16

[Rob19777]

It's because he likes you and is physically attracted to you and wants to get to know you more and date you

[Asker]

i told him i like someone and i’m not looking for a relationship tho, and he said he just found me attractive

[Rob19777]

Ok And?

[Asker]

so then why doesn’t he get the hint and maybe not compliment me so much, i thought if you told someone you didn’t want a relationship they kind of backed off a bit

[StickStickity13]

He likes you, men don't compliment women often unless they want something

[sink203]

If he is person you can talk to and you do it a lot he just really likes u but might be afraid to tell you so if he attracts you and you like him ask him out

[soleil2666]

Would you want him in your pants?