I feel like I'm corrupting boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

my boyfriend used to be really innocent, it was so cute!

He is a great guy, but when we're in bed together he is really innocent... its kinda cute.

I took his virginity, and he is completely and utterly in love with me, I don't doubt it.

but recently I starting to notice the innocence is going... it used to be me who 'coached' him. but now he knows what to do...

dont get me wrong, I love it.

but I feel like I've corrupted him...

is that good or bad?

[DonMichelle]

Well if you've been having sex he's obviousley going to have learned isn't he?

You could have sex with a partner more experiance than yourself and find out your the one with the most 'spice' ;) hahaha. Depends on the person I suppose... you could have unleashed a 'demon' in your boyfriends, you may end up well and truly in love with him... is this a fear of yours?

As for this corruption nonsense, he was innocent at first because he was actually innocent, he was a 'maleden' (a male maiden :) haha) and he isn't anymore. If anything he owes you, don't feel bad about it, that's just daft!

[Asker]

you put it quite nicely... he used to be an angel, now he's like a demon!

i don't know, its just quite a stark contrast! its quite weird...

i just feel responsible for taking his innocence...

im terrified on being completely in love with him... but he would never hurt me. its just I have a really bad boyfriend history.

[DonMichelle]

So I've got it right have i? Well the stark contrast has come from the fact that you have 'opened his eyes'. Before he knew nothing, now he's been taught and I thing you should become wary of (not meaning to scare you but it does happen) is now that he's been taught... he may become curious! He knew nothing, now he knows, he may want to know more!?!? The younger me was this boy and an older girl took away my innocence... now I'll try anything lol (as long as it's not gay :) )

[Asker]

he hasn't asked for anything seriously weird yet...

and he's not like that, he is still the same guy he was when we met. only now he knows what he is doing...

He still goes crazy every time I do something for me.

his facial expressions... unforgettable.

[Asker]

*everytime I do something for him

[DonMichelle]

Hahaha, you've not got much to worry about then... must just be me who had his 'filthy side' ;) unlocked hahaha.

Do you appreciate him knoing what he's doing? It must have been a tad embarressing for him when he didn't have a clue, were you embarressed or did you find it cute lol? :) ?

[Asker]

i thought it was cute...

and since he had no idea, I could kinda make him do stuff that I love!

and negate the other things...

i love it now, but feel responsible for taking it away

[DonMichelle]

You shouldn't feel guilty! You took his virginity and obviously had to teach him, but the more he has sex the more confident he'll become... did that never occur to you? I'm guessing he now has more of a 'leading role' rather than being told what to do? Don't you like this, wouldn't you prefer him to be confident... or is it his confidence that scares you, you enjoyed being in charge didn't u? ;) ? After all when you were 'writing the script' he'd perform how you wanted, he performed for u! ;) ! hahaha

[Always_Second_Best]

If it really bothers you, talk to him about it. It's like teaching someone to ride a bike. They are shy and hesitant at first but after a while, they know what to do without being told. That doesn't mean he's lost his innocence. It just means he's learning and is a little more confident. Nothing is wrong with that. You haven't "corrupted" him you've taught him.

[Anonymous]

The experience thing it true of course, but he's also probably just feeling less shy and uncomfortable, more able to take charge when he wants to, and that's something you should definitely feel good about, it makes your relationship stronger.

[sarah-a180]

he's just growing up. it's a good thing.

you should enjoy watching him grow and change and become a man.

sex isn't corrupting, it's affirming.

just don't get him hooked on drugs lol