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If most men find high maintenance/Barbie/glitzy type women unattractive, why do they always have boyfriends? (Page 3)
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Some guys are visual creatures and like pretty things to look at.
They are attracted to that female energy and the princess types can them feel more manly and kicks in their instincts to protect and provide for their partner, If you look at it from the traditional sense.
But as I said before, this only "some men" - there others that do prefer a balance where they will have some of those aspects whilst having a down to earth personality.
It all comes down to preference really...
My ex used to tell me that he liked the fact that I was natural; no hair dye, my real nails, no make up and never altered my appearance in any way other than the occasional mascara... and even when we first met said specifically he wasn’t attracted to those kinds of women and yet he cheated on me with one... so who ducking knows.. I think maybe he wanted my type to marry but was in a situation where he had the opportunity to fuck one of those girls, and he did..
Lol men always say they don’t like fake girls yet doesn’t seem like it does it with the Behavior around them
Because unlike the angry types, those girls will go out of their way to 'charm' you. Some are genuinely approachable and decent to talk to - those looks aren't perfect, but being reasonable/not excessively demanding is a quality in its own right (essential, even)
Like I said - they are not haters. They do the best they can.
Men unlike women don't have the choice of choosing among multiple interested women, so they either get with whatever they can get or they jerk off alone and fill up their browsing history with porn sites.
There are men who do.
@englisc They are the top 20% of all men, who were born luckily into normal families, who were provided with all the provisions to be on the top 20%. The rest of the 80% are pretty much on a similar level like the average joe above.
When you say 20%, that sounds like a very small number, but it's actually just 1 in 5. It's not actually that hard to be that 1 in 5. Consider this: in the West, in general, 60-70% of people are overweight, which means that 60-70% of men are overweight. Of the remaining 30-40%, most of those guys aren't in shape either, they're usually skinny. If you hit the gym 3 times a week and eat right, physically you can be the 1 in 5 in that sense. It's that easy. It also isn't all about who has the most money. Many guys with money struggle with women, many guys with nowhere near as much money do not.
@englisc Indeed. Although I wouldn't say it is easy to land on the top 20% per se. Often we refer to the top 20% as those exceptionally desired men (rich, muscular, has assets, house, SUV, travels a lot, has lots of women swarming after them etc...). Hence why some say "alpha males" because women are swarming around them.
Sometimes even if you are one of those top 20% that may not result in getting women either. My peers are still very puzzled how I am unable to get a girlfriend. They say out of everyone I should have the best chances. I am not sure if that's true.
In the end of the day I say "Just be comfortable with what you have. You may lose what you take for granted. But never aim low. Aim high!".
Well the 20% figure really comes from the work of Rollo Tomassi, as well as things such as hypergamy. Red Pill ideas. The trouble is that MGTOW don't properly understand hypergamy. If you look at Rollos work on this, he talks about alpha/beta. The money thing, "provision", is the beta side of that equation. Beta guys (MGTOW) obsess over money because they're on the beta side and don't see the alpha side of the equation. They don't understand the nature of the game.
@englisc fair enough. I was recommended by one senior here to read more of Rollo tomassi his blog. I think it was the rational male? I have it bookmarked so i can read it once my time isn't drained by university 🎓
However it would be unwise to say that you do not need money to maintain women. Isn't that so?
Yeah, that's it, Rational Male. His essays are good, but quite lengthy. I prefer to watch and listen to his Youtube videos.
Well, yes and no. To understand this I'd suggest looking at what Rollo says about "trans-actional vs validational sex", and "the importance of genuine desire".
On the beta side, which is where guys really use money to get/keep a woman, that's when there's usually a lack of genuine sexual desire, and thus the sex is "trans-actional". Those are the guys who get cheated on and divorce raped. The reason MGTOW guys fear that so much is because they're all on the beta side, and don't know how to get to the "alpha" side of the equation - which is possible if you understand how that all works. But yeah you should watch/read Rollos stuff definitely.
@englisc right. I'll just substitute alpha with winners and beta with losers. Then reading rollo makes sense to me. I've read a few articles from him. Kinda good stuff.
In any case money is always good. I love myself some sex massage 😀
It’s more shows they take care of themselves. “I’m considered high maintenance” but I don’t ask a woman to maintain me. I maintain myself. I mean going to the gym is one of though things.
Plus what’s high maintenance to some when women know Exactly what want and how we want is considered “a bitch”
So what sort of guys you pick?
High maintenance is perfectly fine as long as she's maintaining herself like you just have shown 😊
A woman standing on her own 2 feet. What's not to love?
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Keep in mind of the high divorce rates.
Some guys are stupid and just as materialistic as those girls.
You seem to have an immature understanding of this.
Most high maintenance girls aren't actually girlfriend material. They're trophies. Walking, sometimes stupidly talking, trophies. Something to brag to the boys about but their value beyond that is limited.
Back in most parents' years, these sorts were stereotyped as helium-voiced annoying-as-nails-on-chalkboard often simple-minded dyed blonde bimbos that looked nice but no one had respect for & most respectable people laughed at.
Because they're liars. They 100% find it attractive because these women are also very needed (emotionally, mentally, and/or financially) and one thing men need is to be needed. What they don't find attractive is when the relationship fails, and they find that they spent thousands of dollars on these women so then they get mad claiming they were used when really they knew what they were getting in to all along.
One is personality the other is looks. Just because someone looks high maintenance that doesn't make it so. Same thing the other way.
But if you have a certian level of attractiveness then you are always going to be able to attract someone so you will always be able to hook someone else when your current partner realises how much hard work you are.
They are like commercial items. Mostly for show and some still get into that. However I dont see how unless the man also is more for the image. Their whole life revolves around how they look to people more than who they are, mostly Im sure there's some real good hearted glamour girls. Just typically they dont give a shit about real people. Which in turn like I get turned off because of the personality associated with most of these girls.
Those types of girls usually are that way because their parents have lots of money and they've been used to being spoiled all their lives. Most men dating those types of girls are after money or think this is the best they are gonna be able to do.
I dated someone high maintenance and she was pretty plain but thought of herself as absolutely beautiful. She expected me to spend my entire salary on her, gifts, meals even buying her groceries. In the end I discovered she didn't care for me. We were in a relationship for her convenience. Next time I want someone down to earth who loves me for me. If not I'll stay single.
I met a guy on OkCupid, I’m not a girly girl, I can polish my nails sometimes to feel more pretty, I love skirts, mostly I wear pants. The guy I met don’t care about those type of women, he wants me for me.
Because, for one, only the filthy rich guys go for them and, for two, they're really nothing but trophy women for those guys.
Well when you see a princess's beauty and tight little body you think the sex is going to be amazing and that will take your mind off her bullshit but once you find out the full name they left out. Pillow when they said princess. Pillow princess. That is who they usually turn out to be. If you are uneducated on the term pillow princess ask and I will gladly teach so we may all come together and cause these to become extinct
Wat’s a pillow princess?
@zed-789 a female who is lazy in bed.. 99% of the time on her back
Oooooooo ok. I get it.
I very much enjoy serving a high maintenance woman in a relationship, without any expectations that she'll ever let me have any penetrative sex with her, and I love spoiling her rotten and worshipping the ground she walks on.
I like dressing up and doing my makeup, hair, lashes, etc. but that doesn’t mean I’m a bad person or unattractive. I’m confident in myself and I entertain men who cherish me and value me and prove their love to me. I don’t even pay attention to men who try to tear down “high maintenance” girls like myself (even though looking good doesn’t make me high maintenance since I support myself to the fullest and don’t ask anybody for anything) because men like that aren’t compatible with me. Simple
Strictly Arm Candy and sex. No one but desperate or rich men want high maintenance women. They may look like a million but they think they are worth 10 million. But Santa mike like them too because he always likes his Ho Ho Ho's.
Nearly every woman has a boyfriend at least at some point. Your question kind of implies it is rare they aren't alone and totally unable to find a man, but can you give any example of a common 'type' of woman unable to find a partner?
Men do like them.
Im never short on dates and have yet to be turned down ever.
Men can say one thing as much as they want, but at the end of the day they choose women like us.
My milkshake brings all the boys to the yard, dam right it's better than yours