Below is an outfit similar to what I might wear:
What do men think of really well-dressed women?
Below is an outfit similar to what I might wear:
I find well dressed woman attractive, then I think about what the story behind the nice clothes is and quickly realize no woman who is motivated enough to be wearing something like that is going to have interest in doing the lack of things I like to do in my free time and she is most likely fairly active or she wouldn't have nice clothes and dress up. She probably wants to go do stuff all the time which I think sucks and its probably stuff that I think sucks already and she's looks too classy to enjoy the never ending stream of obscenities, vulgarities, profanities, expletives, and other possibly offensive things that I will say. She may be hot but she literally hates everything I love so my personality and sense of humor score me enough points to be a total piece of shit in her world. Not like a run of mill turd but like an extra shitty piece shit. If a shit stepped in shit, slipped and fell into the shit, then got shit on by bird while laying on the ground in the slippery shit that it fell into. Those are my 2 best qualities too. I'm gonna avoid looking anywhere near her cuz if we make eye contact she's gonna know what a piece of shit she thinks I am and I'd rather she didn't find out lol.
So I would definitely be a vagina and not hit on u if u were dressed too nice lol. And if u looked at me I'd have to acknowledge how shitty and completely opposite from anything worthwhile u thought I was when u saw me lol.
If it was fashionable and looked good, then I'd probably compliment her when she left the room. "Dude, she looks really good." or "I dig her sense of fashion." I've found genuinely complimenting a girl, most REALLY don't like it, so I rarely bother to compliment the girl. Suddenly, I'm hitting on her in a creepy way when it's "I like your glasses."
Now, for me personally, if somehow I knew more about brands, just by looking at her... (which is not something I obsess over) and she's always wearing high end 300 hundred dollar + priced outfits; if I'm looking at her as a potential relationship, I might shut down the idea because she looks like she wouldn't be interested in guys in my income range... and if she's always really "done up," it might look like she's high maintenance. Like she'd ALWAYS be making me late by 3 hours because she has to look perfect, or it takes her three hours to get ready every day, even if it's semi-casual, that'd probably get pretty annoying pretty quickly.
Otherwise, I probably notice and don't say anything to her, or if it's "normal," popular stuff, I might not notice or care. Like I wouldn't make a big deal over if a woman was wearing the puffy "Han Solo vest" and some ugg boots in the fall.
I’d like to know the answer to this as well. My style is different than yours and is more of a classy, feminine look, but I have people telling me all the time they think I intimidate men due to how I dress.
I think most women are insecure about their looks, most men are insecure about their ability to provide. If we see a woman that is usually dressed in finer things and done up, a lot of good men with lower income levels will not even attempt to approach because they know they can't meet the tastes they presume you have. While Uptown Girl is a great song by Billy Joel, it's a fantasy that most men won't even bother to attempt.
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It depends to situation to situation...
If you see in a general perspective who doesn't like to look on someone who looks well organised and well dressed... But when I said it depends then I meant was with different situation of life...
Like for in homes... trust me guys love to see their women in cute outfits in home than a well dressed salon style... an outfit of gummy bear would also entice a man...
Now for outside the home... she must look at least decent with her looks... not that fussy neither too well dressed can also be hot...
Well why?
It's just my opinion so don't bother about it if you find it wrong...
As guys sees their girl as to be their achievement which they want to the world that she earned her so if you even look a little presentable in front of his friends he would love your hard work on trying to look good for him... while in home.. guys just love their girls to be as free as she wants bcz that just shows how chill his girl is with him... so it just boosts his confidence and all stuff... so what I am saying is just try a little to look just good enough... and yeah don't over do it... as guys truly hate to see ton of make up moving around with them... don't be that girl... just look a little more than home look just that!
I love it! The outfit in the photo is beautiful.
I am grateful for the things women do that are uniquely female, including tasteful hair, makeup, nails, shoes and clothing choices and accessories.
Some women know how to look classy, whether it's in a business suit with a skirt that fits their ass snugly, a dinner gown, or a crop-top T. On the other hand, some women manage to look low class no matter that they wear.
I wouldn't be put off by your style at all. High maintenance is a behavior that you demonstrate. I wouldn't assume you were high maintenance unless you made a point of showing off expensive name brand items or acted like a snob who reveled in consumerism. I think a person can have good taste and pride in appearance without being shallow.
It’s often like the old saying goes: “Clothes maketh the man/woman”. Being well dressed gives you more confidence in yourself and often looks more professional. Your confidence is noticed by others, the way you walk, talk and look makes you noticeable. Combined with a nice, classic car, jet-setters air, and many people like me would aspire to be like you one day. Even if they’re out of my league. They’re often more attractive, they know what they want, determined.
Imagine someone like George Clooney stepping out of a red Alfa Romeo TZ2, dresses in all black three piece suit, walking confidently past you. You’d definitely have another look at him and the car as well. Being well dressed does physiological wonders sometimes.
I'm just one man, so I don't know if I can speak for men in general, but my personal taste is based on my own opinions, which includes a dislike of fashion that appears to me like it is attempting to define a trend of interpretation: I don't like fashion which is blatantly trying to mean something I'm supposed to 'get the message of', when the medium of this message is not someone's own unique ensemble, but is instead a legion of conformity to conventional symbolism: it feels like a cheap assault on my integrity, in getting me to react in the designated program. My views are probably a bit pedestrian, because I personally put no effort or stock in dressing well myself, and am probably closest to resembling a homeless person ;3
When I was in my 20's, I lived in a more rural area, and jeans and t-shirts and simple clothing was the norm. I was just as happy with women who wore comfy clothes and I didn't much think about it. But these days, I find it extremely sexy when a woman dresses to the nines. I'm not saying that women who do not are not attractive, but I will say that the extra effort goes a long way in attracting most men. This is why eastern european women are often viewed as some of the most beautiful women in the world. The are brought up to never leave the home unless they are dressed their very best. It's a different mentality that some (mostly Americans) just don't get. When I see a woman that dresses well in public, I don't assume she is doing it for anyone but herself. She exudes confidence, togetherness, strength and attractiveness. Men who are insecure might find it difficult to appreciate this, but I find it extremely attractive.
I'm in the same boat as you almost every photo in the past 3 years I've taken is me in a suit so I seem high maintenance but honestly probably the opposite where your clothes have something to say about you. If you not wearing a 10 thousand dollar Rolex flaunting your new designer shoes like you own the place then in would think you are in the photo you showed then no I would say your a well dressed individual who has a preference choice on how they dress. Take it from if people dont like the way you dress and dont like you for you then take it with a grain of salt and move on to someone who likes you for you also if that's you then you look great personally I would have changed hats. But long story short I would say no I wouldn't say you look high maintenance if anything I seem more then you.
I am glad to see this item for topics and am eminately qualified to comment. After a concert, we always had a cast party and they were very swank affairs we all dressed up Tuxes and Gowns. Appetizers and champagne or Bourbon or wine or beer I preferred the champagne and the fabulous Appetizers and the Beautiful girls with a real presence a truelly wonderful environment, I really love women who know how to dress for a type of event, certain restaurants require a dressed up personality out of respect for the patrons of the restaurant and certain Parties are also requiring a more than average dressed up presentation, so as a closing statement, I am very glad to see a dressed up beauty to spend my time in conversation, or Dinner, or at an Event which I attend often or not, much experience in this particular area
I always get the impression that women who dress really well look confident and know what they want.
They know their worth and they know what they want. That could be offputting for some guys, but it's only offputting to guys who were going to play games and be manipulative.
I'm into that look, the look is very confident and has the look of someone that's very self made and won't be drawing her identity from me. Very much a personality style that I'm into!
That's the vibe I get from the fashion style, fashion in the end is all aesthetic and means nothing, but if that vibe is something you like I highly recommend it.
Although it good to look and dress nice when going out on a date or in town, I'd rather have a woman that dresses way down while at home or just going to the store. Jean's and t-shirt are fine going to a store. Sweatpants and t-shirt for just lounging around the house.
If that's what you wear then I'm sorry but that doesn't say a well put together woman, it screams that you just couldn't be arsed to wear anything tidy and you found that on the floor, it looked sort of clean enough to pass.
To be honest if I saw her I'd probably dig into my pocket for some change and direct her to help
I do not have a problem with it. However, I cannot stand a woman who is too high maintenance at the expense of being tough. Dressing well is awesome, but I do not want to deal with someone who takes forever to get ready and is afraid of getting her hand dirty. Looks are great, but a woman's work ethic matter more.
That's ugly in my opinion. Latest fashion trends are mostly hideous. That long thing is weird. The hat seems over the top for the outfit and boots are just like come on every girl is always wearing boots and pointy toe heels. Wtf. The two ugliest kinds of footwear.
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Sorry just kidding...
by the way Why to think of us? It's your life do whatever you want to do with it...
If you wear this kinda of dresses always then let me know when should I get married to you...
Anyway everyone's choice is different so mine is a girl with fully covered clothes...
I'm not into that outfit in the picture at all. I can't see any features of the girls body. She could be really chubby or super skinny. She could have nice big boobs or be flat chested. There's no outline of her legs and no definition of her booty. I have no idea what's going on under that dress and NO men are not turned on by leaving something to the imagination.
I generally don't care about clothes. As far as "high maintenance", I might wonder, but I don't prejudge, I'll go on a date or two and find out. I probably wouldn't approach though (but I don't like to anyway), so someone like you would have to approach me, which probably wouldn't happen lol.
A well dressed woman is far more attractive to me than a woman who dresses to be revealing and sexy. Some girls try way too hard to be sexy, they dress way too revealing and that can be a big turn off for me.
Doesn't make you look high maintenance, it makes you look like a high class lady, which is the most attractive thing to me.
I think there's... A difference in what... I would consider, WELL DRESSED, than you... Because... I admittedly have... No sense of fashion... WHATSOEVER... and this high Calibre... Fashionista stuff... May subconsciously intimidate me... JUST DRESS RESPECTABLE
Being well dressed is fine, but if you are always dressed like you are going to some exclusive party then that might be too much. But if I were to see someone dressed up one time when passing, like on a street or at a store, I wouldn't say they are high maintenance.
That outfit tells me you're more of a high class woman. In other words, a movie and meal is not gonna cut it. A planned event, dinner, romantic walk, etc. is to be expected on a regular basis.
For me that's good on an occasion but not affordable on a regular basis.
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