"I mean, I don't blame him. She had a nice ass!"
If that does not answer your question, praytell what does? Let it go. He stays with YOU, right?
"What made me upset was the fact that he kept denying it which made me feel crazy."
And he did THAT out of respect for your feelings. Surely you understand that?
I think your best response to him would have been, "It's okay, I don't blame you. She *does* have a nice ass..."
And then you two would have shared a good laugh about it.
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Dude, you absolutely are making mountains of molehills. If you don't trust your significant other that much, it's a problem. If you were to break up, the justification in my opinion is that it would be because of how you acted, and not how he acted. If you still wanna date this dude, apoligize for refusing to believe him and trust him more. This is such a trivial thing to end a relationship over.
I think a break up is a bit extreme. Seems like he just wants to protect your feelings. Keep reinforcing that looking but not touching is ok with you and eventually he'll feel comfortable to admit it
Should you ask that question? I would. That's lusting. He's going to eventually cheat domt tolerate that. He should not even be lying and that's a red flag right there.
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That's definitely an overreaction, no hard feelings. All guys do that. At the end of the day, you're his girl and the one being with him. No guy would look away when a girl with a nice ass walks past, trust me. But the same applies vice versa. 95% of the girls I know wouldn't resist to look away when a guy has a six pack or has a lot of muscles in general. There's nothing bad about it, as long as there's no further thought about it or bad intentions.
It’s a natural instinct that we can’t simply stop. Especially since males are visually triggered and women expose as much as possible in public for cheap sexual attention. It’s a knee jerk reaction like turning your head when you hear tires screech. Or a jump scare.
We deny it to try and avoid the wrath of insecurity from our female, which is a lose lose situation because even admitting it gets us in shit. So if you can’t deal with basic male female differences and want to control or stop biological instinct, you probably should break up because you should’t be in a relationship.You aren't crazy and thinking of breaking up with him does make sense in one context. He's not being honest with you. If he can't be open and honest enough to admit something as simple and harmless as checking out another girls ass, then he's probably going to try to hide things from you in the future. You are already feeling that you can't trust him, even if it's hard to put it in those words.
He is most likely denying it to avoid upsetting you in any way. You’re blowing a small thing out of proportion.
You are making an issue out of nothing, so yes that's a big deal. No wonder your boyfriend kept denying it, look at what he has to deal with.
Think back to just how you asked him and how you treated such things in the past.
It would be best not to pressure your guy so he can feel comfortable being honest to you.We all do it women are with the guys. But today no I'm not is silly.
I'm terrible doing this but it ba matter of saying sorry but it is lovely ass do you think. girlfriend does it do we as bad as each other...He needs to be more discreet. We all look. But obviously doing so with the partner around is just rude.
Yes, it is something to break up over.
He should break up with you.
If you lose it over such trivia then you'll cause arguments often.
His life would be better without you.We always do that😂😂 if yiu break up with him because of that you will never have a boyfriend 😂😂😂
dont break up with him just over that just talk to him about it
Are u sure he was staring i beem accused of this but i wasn't
I think you’re making a big deal out of it
deal with it
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