That should automatically be a red flag. That is a good way for cheating to happen and you should not be in that situation. There is nothing wrong with anybody hanging out and enjoying yourself. But places like that is a huge deal breaker for me. And if you already talked about wanting to go there you should automatically know whether or not there should be a deal-breaker for you. Not continue to be in a relationship when you know you're going to have serious trust issues or being a lifestyle you're not in agreeance with it.
Stay out of those places. From the experiences of my friends who go clubbing, is not a place you want to go to. Anybody else that want to say anything, they're lying their ads off, just know that. Believe the stories because they are true. He's going there with the idea that it's okay to play single while he's involved with you. Even if he says that he is involved with you, trust me when I say. It is a place of Temptation. And his friends are bad influences. There's a good reason why they say you all who your friends with.
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I’ll give you a piece of advice, for more than this situation: if you don’t have trust, you have nothing. It’s healthy for him to have guy time, and if anything were to happen, then it’s going to anyway. You never wanna be the helicopter girlfriend, it’s not a gook look and comes off as insecure. Let him have his night out dude. If he cheats, then he’s always been bound to and there’s nothing you can do to stop it. Why burden yourself with that, you know? It’ll be fine.
Three years together and you don't trust him to go out with his friends? Why are you with him if you don't trust him. If he's going to cheat on you, he will. He doesn't have to go to a club to do that.
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oof. Bad idea lmao. All types of fine ass women in there dressed skimpy twerking and dancing on men. Sounds like bad business if you ask me.
He has no business at the club even with his friends clubbing is for single people. Yea go with him.
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