We have been together now for almost 3 years and obviouslty this situation has not been an issue in our relationship yet as he has only recently turned of legal age to go clubbing. He wants to go out with his guy friends but without me and since I haven't yet been before, I'm quite worried. I have heard many stories about the clubs and what can go down etc. I'm more nervous of the unknown, not knowing who he's talking or dancing with, how drunk he is and anything happens to him, who will approach him etc. I'd just like to be able to come with him so I have that reassurance that I am with him. I am also of age but have not yet been clubbing and he just wants to go with his friends a few times which is understandable but I just worry and want to hear what you all have to say if you've been in similar situations before... I would prefer if he took me with so I wasn't left at home worrying.