Soo... 10 years ago I had a crush on a guy who was a friend in the group I hung out. Everyone graduated and flash 10 years go by... I see him at our reunion and saw he had his girlfriend with him. Disappointed but that's life, right? Then one day, I was bored on Facebook and saw he was single. I think to myself well... what would it hurt to try to have a conversation? So I message him. Takes him a while to respond, no big deal we all have life's. I throw my number and and omg he texted me! So I texted back... takes over a week to answer. So... he finally responded and not holding my breath, I wait a day or two to not seem creepy and play it cool... here we are again been days.
I don't know why he isn't really interested in talking and I just would like to know so I can accept that he's not interested. He seemed surprised at the reunion that I actually did something and became a nurse. I don't think he felt much about my existence in high school, just a third wheel. I know I've gained weight. I'm a few states away but I plan to move back next year; I'm in a contract and need to save money/the contract to be up... I've got pets. I have no children and nor does he. I feel like we kinda would be a match because he wants a family, I want a family... we both have decent jobs... I don't know why he wouldn't want to get to know me better. I've been trying to get to know him better and not seem desperate. I don't text him constantly, I've waited for him to respond first. The only thing I did was say happy birthday on his timeline because Facebook tells us notifications like that.
Why do you all think he's just not interested in at least talking to me? My weight? (He knows I've been trying to get healthier. I need to lose about 40lbs.) He still sees me as that odd loner in high school? Am I just boring? Is he not over his old girlfriend? My contract not ending for a year?
Thanks all!
I don't know why he isn't really interested in talking and I just would like to know so I can accept that he's not interested. He seemed surprised at the reunion that I actually did something and became a nurse. I don't think he felt much about my existence in high school, just a third wheel. I know I've gained weight. I'm a few states away but I plan to move back next year; I'm in a contract and need to save money/the contract to be up... I've got pets. I have no children and nor does he. I feel like we kinda would be a match because he wants a family, I want a family... we both have decent jobs... I don't know why he wouldn't want to get to know me better. I've been trying to get to know him better and not seem desperate. I don't text him constantly, I've waited for him to respond first. The only thing I did was say happy birthday on his timeline because Facebook tells us notifications like that.
Why do you all think he's just not interested in at least talking to me? My weight? (He knows I've been trying to get healthier. I need to lose about 40lbs.) He still sees me as that odd loner in high school? Am I just boring? Is he not over his old girlfriend? My contract not ending for a year?
Thanks all!
